Blogonian & Latest Posts https://www.blogonian.com/rss/latest-posts Blogonian & Latest Posts en Copyright 2022 Blogonian& All Rights Reserved. 50 Absolutely Dumb Signs For Those In Need Of A Good Laugh, Courtesy Of This Group (New Pics) https://www.blogonian.com/50-absolutely-dumb-signs-for-those-in-need-of-a-good-laugh-courtesy-of-this-group-new-pics https://www.blogonian.com/50-absolutely-dumb-signs-for-those-in-need-of-a-good-laugh-courtesy-of-this-group-new-pics Occasionally, however, we are lucky enough to stumble upon signs that are so poorly made, their primary goal seems to be simply entertaining us. Lucky for us, the Facebook group Useless, Unsuccessful, and/or Unpopular Signage catalogs all of these terrible signs from around the world, so below, you’ll find some of the gems group members have recently shared. Enjoy viewing these pics, and be sure to upvote the signs you can’t believe actually exist!

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What is it about making signs that proves to be so challenging? Typically, there’s a clear message that needs to be communicated, and in theory, it’s easy to get it across. “No parking.” “No dogs allowed.” “Deer cross here.” “Out of order.” Yet for some unknown reason, sign makers across the globe seem to have trouble getting their point across often, and we thank them for their terrible service at their jobs. Because now we get to enjoy all of these hilarious signs! 

The Useless, Unsuccessful, and/or Unpopular Signage Facebook group has been around since February 20, 2021, and it has a simple mission statement: “This group is for bad/dumb/down right stupid signage found anywhere.” That’s all the group needs though, as it has amassed 6.3 thousand members in the past couple of years and continues to grow all the time. 214 new members have been added in the past week! So if you’re looking for a place to find comically bad signs, we highly recommend joining. And even if you’re not very active on Facebook, you can enjoy some of the best finds from the page right here!

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We’re big fans of Useless, Unsuccessful, and/or Unpopular Signage here at Bored Panda, so this isn’t our first time covering the group. And the last time we featured this hilarious community, we were lucky enough to get in touch with Jerome Davis, one of the group's administrators. Jerome was kind enough to have a chat with us and explain how the page began in the first place. 

“UUUs got started, honestly, after another group got a little too pushy and was kicking people out for silly reasons, and sometimes for no reason at all,” he shared.

And when it comes to why group members love these silly signs so much, Jerome says, “Many just think it’s funny to see how laziness and carelessness becomes immortalized in signage!”

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Jerome also provided some insight into what the Useless, Unsuccessful, and/or Unpopular Signage community is like. “We’re a friendly group managed by a handful of friends,” he previously told Bored Panda. “We don’t do the hateful stuff and try hard not to ‘ban hammer’ if we can help it. Most are fairly active with membership from across the globe.”

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We also asked Jerome if he had any personal favorite UUU signs. “Stupid road signs and shop signs are hands down the best!” he shared. And finally, the administrator noted that he’s always on the lookout for new signs to share with the group as well. “All the time!" he says. "It’s a challenge to find new ones.” Something tells me this article will inspire others to start keeping their eyes peeled for hilarious signs as well.

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In a previous Bored Panda article, we were lucky enough to get in touch with CEO of the South Carolina-based company The Sign Chef, Tim Harrelson. Tim, the Sign Chef himself, was kind enough to have a chat with us about why great signage is so important. “Between the physical world and the online world, the competition for attention is at an all time high,” he shared. “Simultaneously, attention spans seem to be at an all time low. Our senses are constantly being bombarded! Moving forward, organizations need to be strategic in how the content is displayed on their signs.”

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The Sign Chef also explained his company’s process for designing the best signs. “Most graphic designers start with the size of the sign - then the lettering & graphics are added. Think backwards," Tim explained. "A more strategic approach can be taken by having the design reverse engineered for maximum impact. This design strategy starts with the viewing distance. How far away does your target audience need to be able to read the sign?”

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“Once the distance is measured, a Letter Sizing Calculator can be used to scientifically determine the very best letter sizes,” Tim continued. “As an example, what is the best letter size if the viewing distance is 110 feet? When you type 110 feet into the calculator, you’ll instantly see 22 inches is recommended for maximum impact - easy.”

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Tim also shared about some of the most amazing signs him and his team have had the pleasure of creating. “We recently created the World’s Largest Dibond Sign Display for Mahopac High School in New York,” he shared with pride. In his email to me, Tim attached a photo of the impressive sign that looks easily over 15 feet tall, featuring the school’s logo of a massive M with an arrow across it. He also shared a beautiful retro, flashing neon sign to go on Route 66 advertising Eufloria dispensary in Oklahoma. 

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Are you feeling inspired to be on the lookout for all of the poorly made signs you can find around you now, pandas? I’m sure if you keep your eyes peeled, you’re certain to stumble on some terrible spelling or questionable messages. We hope you’re enjoying these pics, and please remember to keep upvoting all of your favorites! Then, if you’re interested in checking out Bored Panda’s last article featuring this hilarious Facebook group dedicated to useless, unsuccessful and/or unpopular signage, you can find it right here!

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Mon, 29 May 2023 23:30:05 +0530 Blogonian
The Internet Thinks These Movies Are More Terrifying Than Any Horror Film, Here Are The 30 Best Examples https://www.blogonian.com/the-internet-thinks-these-movies-are-more-terrifying-than-any-horror-film-here-are-the-30-best-examples https://www.blogonian.com/the-internet-thinks-these-movies-are-more-terrifying-than-any-horror-film-here-are-the-30-best-examples The horror genre brings a variety of markers to subtly (or not so subtly) tell our brains that we are about to be spooked, creeped out, and jump-scared. But it’s all that more terrifying when a film shocks us without warning that it’s about to happen.

An internet user wanted to know what films people thought ended up being more frightening than most horror movies out there. People’s answers ranged from being freaked out as a child to films that cover psychologically disturbing topics. So take notes for your next movie night and be sure to upvote your favorites as you scroll through and comment your thoughts below. 

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Coraline - it's technically a kids movie but it's freaky as hell

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Does Watership Down count? The 1978 version. It's not categorized as a horror but as a KIDS animation/adventure yet it has blood and gore in it. Scared the s**t out of me as a kid, couldn't sleep for days. I still can't watch it.

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Black Swan. That movie should be marked as horror.

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The first unintentionally scary film may have been created near the beginning of cinema itself. Some readers might already be familiar with the stories of “L’Arrivée d’un train en gare de La Ciotat”, or “The Arrival of a Train at La Ciotat,” causing 18th-century moviegoers to run out of the cinema in a panic. The film showed a train, arriving at a station, with the camera positioned in such a way that makes it look like it will hit it. 

Despite being a great story, this is likely a myth. Firstly, this was a silent film, so it’s hard to believe that moviegoers would think a magically quiet train was fully real as it drove toward them. Similarly, why would an audience of real people suddenly forget that the world was not in black and white? Regardless, it does make for a compelling story about a film that managed to be unintentionally terrifying and only 50 seconds long at the same time. 

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In a weird way I find The Truman Show scary

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HBO’s Chernobyl was hands down the scariest tv series I’ve ever watched. Radiation is terrifying

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Who Framed Roger Rabbit scared the hell out of me, especially with the Judge Doom scene at the end when it's revealed he's a toon.

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Modern horror directors use a variety of “tricks” to make our brains believe we are in just as much distress as the characters on screen. The cheapest example is the use of high-frequency sounds played during the film. We don’t actually hear these, but prolonged exposure ends up putting us on edge and can even cause sleepless nights in the long run. So if you want to create a subtly hostile environment for your dinner guests, play something at 20–30 Hz.

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Mommy dearest. It's about a narcissistic actress who adopts a child, shows love initially, then turns into a horrible, abusive monster when the child starts thinking for herself. If you've been in an abusive relationship, this movie hits harder than any horror flick

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Schindler's List. Can't believe such horror actually took place.

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Trainspotting. The baby scene, but also Robert Carlyle's violently deranged character.

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Noise has other uses, including loud, contrasting, and clashing sounds that make our brains strive for consonance. Like an interrupted melody, we feel discomfort until the noise or melody is resolved. Directors will then just keep us on edge until the end of a sequence or scene. While this might seem like literally cheap thrills, it’s quite common in the industry nowadays. 

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Cats. It's absolute nightmare fuel

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Children of Men. And it's only gotten more frightening in light of recent events.

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Requiem For A Dream is scary as hell! If you really want your kids to understand why drugs are bad, just show them this movie (well, don’t show this movie to kids, maybe on their teen years)

A lot of frightening scenes, graphic moments and a sad ending.

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Some unsettling techniques are not just used in horror. Psychological discomfort is as present in the crime or drama genres as in any slasher film. Lighting and shadows play tricks on our brains, putting us on edge. Normally, we as the viewer have a better understanding of what is visible than the characters in the scene. But some directors obscure things for the audience as well, making us tense as we try to understand what is happening on screen while the characters do the same. 

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I saw Return to Oz when I was a kid during a sleepover. I didnt get any sleep that night.

Saw it again a few years ago as a 30yr old. Still scary.

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AI: Artificial Intelligence. I watched that pretty young and the whole thing was fairly traumatizing.

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Not a movie but the handmaid's tale f*****g scares me to death.

Despite most people not actually enjoying the adrenaline rush caused by horror films or scary scenes in general, people do have a fascination with unusual circumstances and darker themes. It’s important to note that fascination isn’t the same as enjoying something, as it’s more just our brain thinking that a situation contains valuable information that we need to acquire, even at the cost of sleepless nights, cold sweats, and a rapid heartbeat. 

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The Dark Crystal. no questions.

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7 year old me would say *Mars Attacks!*

Hell, I'll still stand by it.

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“Heathers” bothers me because when it came out, it was really far-fetched parody. Now, it’s f*****g uncomfortable because of how realistic it seems. I went to school in a high-achieving town, with a serious teen suicide problem, and a couple of credible bomb threats to the schools. It upset me that everything portrayed in the film was plausible in regards to the experience I had there.

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As a child, I was terrified of the Pinocchio donkey scene.

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A scene from The Elephant Man by David Lynch. When the disfigured man is laying in bed and the carnival guy breaks in through the window and charges people to see his face haunts me.

They way they dance around him laughing when he is dealing with so much mental anguish sticks with me.

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The Labyrinth. Gave me nightmares when I first saw it as a teen. Fucking Hoggle makes me shudder. Jim Henson for the creep factor. I saw one of the puppets in real life at a museum. I'll never be the same.

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Parasite. It was not marketed as a horror movie but...you know what I'm talking about

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Dr who, the double episode with the angels

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The cable guy. If it wasn't a comedy it would be one of the scariest stalker movies is ever seen.

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W***y Wonka and the chocolate factory.

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The Killing of a Sacred Deer, on Netflix. Holy c**p, this movie is disturbing. Honestly? I thought after it was over ‘I didn’t like that.’ But it stuck with me, and I thought about it for days afterward. That’s when you know it was a good movie. That kid... holy s**t... Barry Keoghan... his acting was incredible.

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Nightcrawler isn't scary in the traditional sense, but it's extremely unsettling

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Titanic. It's super scary to die in the middle of the ocean.

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Child Catcher. I always thought in the back of my mind if I misbehaved as a kid my parents would toss me outside for the Child Catcher to grab me and throw me in his cart.

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Whiplash. Ever see JK Simmons and think "Boy, he's pretty intense. He might be really scary if he weren't so funny?"

Yeah. No one laughs during Whiplash.

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Mon, 29 May 2023 23:30:05 +0530 Blogonian
30 Of The Most Stunning Pics That Nailed Minimalism https://www.blogonian.com/30-of-the-most-stunning-pics-that-nailed-minimalism https://www.blogonian.com/30-of-the-most-stunning-pics-that-nailed-minimalism Enthusiasts can benefit a lot from surrounding themselves with like-minded people. It helps them fuel each other's passion for the craft and continue to get better at it.

The Facebook group 'Minimalist Photography' is a perfect example of such a place. It embraces both classical minimalism and post-minimalism, or the so-called artistic (or conceptual) minimalism, and invites people to share their works.

"We look for uncluttered artistic images of quality and originality," the team running the group writes in its 'About' section.

Founded all the way back in March 2005, the community now unites 285K members. "We have evolved [our] rules over several years and they seem to work to keep the timeline focused on the artwork and the room a civil, respectful, and enlightening place."

Continue scrolling to check out our hand-picked collection of some of the group's most popular images.

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Minimalist photography grew out of the extreme abstract painting and sculpture of 20th-century artists. With simple geometric patterns, strong lines, or painted color fields, minimalists created work that didn't refer to anything in the real world but instead stood only for itself. Minimalist photographers adopted this focus on simplicity and limited compositional elements and then applied these principles to what they saw in the real world

To make your own minimalist images, you have to be confident that the scenes that appeal to you will also appeal to others. "It's about focusing the viewer’s eye on a singular object or subject and eliminating white noise," photographer Aleks Baharlo said. "I've learned over the years to trust my instinct and just go for it, but it's a fearful thing to make the one subject in the entire frame occupy less than five percent of the frame while everything else is white."

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Because minimalist photography tends to be stark, the subject of every photo takes on even greater importance than in other styles of photography. Without other figures or compositional elements in the foreground or background, the subject has to grab the audience’s attention.

"The subject matter better be interesting, or a minimalistic photo becomes a simplistic photo,” Baharlo said. By isolating an interesting subject, you invite the audience to use their imagination and invent their own story. 

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#7 Hunza Pakistan

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#8 Rain Incoming

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#9 Weathering The Storm

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Without background noise, the elements in the frame and the angles at which you capture them become even more important.

To draw the viewer’s focus to your subject, compose your photo carefully in your viewfinder. Ask yourself if everything in the frame is essential.

Take an element away from the image and see how you like it. Does it feel more balanced? Does it feel like your attention is going where you want it to go? You can do this over and over again, moving the camera or changing your position until only the bare essentials remain.

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#11 After Light

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#12 Figures In The Mist

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#13 New Mexico, USA

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Baharlo has no problem breaking the rule of thirds. "My photography is often a lot of contrasting lines: a horizontal horizon, vertical subject matter," he said.

"Either everything in the frame is vertical, everything in the frame is horizontal, or it’s a contrast of the two." Experiment with each photo to see what works best with each subject.

#14 Cyan & Red

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#15 Different Ways

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#16 Summer Perspective

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With a shallow depth of field, you can keep the viewer’s attention on the subject by blurring the background. "I use a shallower depth of field, so the subject matter is in focus and everything in the background is completely blurry," Baharlo said. You can achieve this by widening the aperture, which lets more light into the camera’s sensor, or you can increase the distance between the camera and the subject, and then zoom in on the subject. This will result in a blurrier background. If there are lights behind your subject, a shorter depth of field can create a bokeh effect, turning points of light into fuzzy circles. 

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#20 Blue On Blue. The Mediterranean

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Widening the aperture isn’t the only way to increase the light that reaches the camera’s sensor. You can also slow down the shutter speed to create a higher exposure or a more light-filled photo. A higher exposure can turn a cloudy sky into a field of white. "Most of my photographs have a lot of negative space in white, which accentuates the gray or darkly colored subject matter," Baharlo said. He recommended bracketing, taking a picture at the proper exposure, then taking one at a much higher exposure and another at a much lower exposure. These variations give you more options when you edit the photo.

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#23 Empty

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#24 My First Post

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#25 Misty Blue

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You can find minimalist shots virtually everywhere, but quieter settings tend to work best when you're shooting landscape photos. “It’s very difficult in an urban environment to take a lot of minimalistic photography, but desert, beach, or mountains tend to be more friendly to minimalistic photography,” Baharlo said.

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#27 Ligt Line

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Still, you can find minimalist subject matter even if you live in a crowded city. Look for blue skies, blank walls, stretches of concrete, or grassy fields in parks. Keep your eyes open to everyday life.

In minimalist photography, color—or the lack of it—can add focus, stir up drama, or even evoke serenity. Bring your vision to life by experimenting with a range of different palettes. And if you get a shot that you like, share it with 'Minimalist Photography!'

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Mon, 29 May 2023 23:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
50 Hilarious Memes That Combine The Internet’s Two Most Favorite Things – Animals And Humor https://www.blogonian.com/50-hilarious-memes-that-combine-the-internets-two-most-favorite-things-animals-and-humor https://www.blogonian.com/50-hilarious-memes-that-combine-the-internets-two-most-favorite-things-animals-and-humor The world we live in wouldn’t be that great without animals. While we believe we are the ones dominating it, the truth is that animals bring incomparable beauty, warmth and laughter to our daily lives. At the same time, they are kinda weird and funny, making us try to figure out their behavior or just simply chuckle at their shenanigans. 

Our animal admirers here at Bored Panda have collected the funniest and most adorable animal memes shared by an Imgur account called “Obsessed With Animals”. As the owner of the page introduced herself, she is a girl from Denmark “who loves animals”. As do we!

So, without further ado, take a look at this chucklesome collection of our crazy friends. Don’t forget to upvote your favorite images and let us know your thoughts in the comments!

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We believe that all the animal lovers out there would agree that there’s nothing better than sharing life with our furry, feathered, or scaly companions. Especially when they bring so much laughter and cuteness into our world. From a guilty-looking dog to a moose caught on camera stealing popcorn, they surely enrich our routines.

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While these memes are surely entertaining, it is crucial to recognize that the purpose of animals extends beyond mere amusement. They do not exist for our entertainment but to coexist harmoniously with us.

According to National Geographic, it’s possible that species extinction is occurring at a rate a thousand times faster because of humans. “Extinction happens when environmental factors or evolutionary problems cause a species to die out. The disappearance of species from Earth is ongoing, and rates have varied over time.” The IUCN Red List of Threatened Species estimated that more than 42,100 species are threatened with extinction. That is 28% of all assessed species. This alarming reality forces us to reflect upon our actions and their consequences for animals and nature.

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According to Endangered Species Coalition, there are ways to help protect endangered species and their habitats. One of the most obvious steps is to stop litter, recycle and buy sustainable products. It is also important to be vocal about threatened and endangered species and ask for the implementation of protection measures. Let’s not forget that without them, there would be no us. You can read more about ways to help protect endangered species here.

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On a lighter note, there are still many conservation success stories to be celebrated. Over the last century, thanks to various committed organizations and communities, we have saved many animals and plants from extinction. Among others, the population of peregrine falcons, sea otters, blue whales, and Siberian tigers has slowly increased! You can learn more about that here.

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We hope these memes have brightened up your day a little bit. We are curious to know which image has made you chuckle the most. Let us know in the comments! For similar content, check out our other posts by clicking here and here.

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Mon, 29 May 2023 23:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
“This Was Bizarre And Horrible”: House Owner Shares How 15 Minutes With Their Housekeepers’ Kids Made Her Cancel On Them https://www.blogonian.com/this-was-bizarre-and-horrible-house-owner-shares-how-15-minutes-with-their-housekeepers-kids-made-her-cancel-on-them https://www.blogonian.com/this-was-bizarre-and-horrible-house-owner-shares-how-15-minutes-with-their-housekeepers-kids-made-her-cancel-on-them If you’ve ever ordered something online – be it a tank top from Amazon or babysitting services from Sittercity – you know well there’s a significant possibility that it won’t be what you expect. In rare cases, it might even come with an entitled pair of parents as a bonus.

As u/abysmalrotoscoping shared with the ‘Entitled Parents‘ community, she hired a local husband-and-wife tag team to look after her house temporarily. To her surprise, the couple decided to bring their children along for the job. Initially, she didn’t think it was a major issue. However, what truly astounded her was the havoc the kids unleashed and their parents’ relaxed approach towards the resulting chaos. We get a sense there won’t be a second meeting after this.

When ordering services online, it’s important to go through everything thoroughly if you don’t want any surprises

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A woman shared how her house was turned upside down after potential cleaners paid her home a visit and brought all their kids along

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Unruly children or not, people are very supportive of small businesses in America

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It goes without saying that small businesses are the beating heart of our economy. According to the University Of Minnesota, they generate about half of America’s GDP and even saw a boom after the pandemic. And while there’s no shortage of them shutting their operation each year – a natural part of the economy, Gene Marks, the author of ‘The Small Business Desk Reference,’ argues – it mostly comes down to luck and how people conduct their businesses.

Seeing how the pair presented themselves to the story’s author, then, it’s not really a surprise that 87% of consumers read online reviews for local businesses, according to Bright Local. Sure, supporting local businesses enhances community well-being and keeps the dollar where it should belong (in the community) – something that was particularly prevalent during the pandemic years, when one-third of small businesses in the US had no other choice but to close down. But if you bring your unruly kids to a business transaction, what else can you expect?

Perhaps these parents are afraid that they’re not spending enough time with their little ones and so they try to juggle both at the same time? Well, the good news is that a recent study has found that it doesn’t matter how much time parents spend with their kids and has “virtually no relationship to how children turn out.”

Of course, there’s a fine line between conducting your business and choosing to let your kids be part of it

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The same report, then, also sheds some light on the negative effects of spending time with stressed parents on children. Guilty, anxiety-ridden parents grappling with the delicate balance of work and childcare have been found to be associated with undesirable outcomes, including diminished math scores and behavioral issues. However, intriguingly, the study’s authors suggest that the quantity of time spent with parents holds little significance, except during the tumultuous teenage years, when an engaged mother or father can potentially reduce the temptation for unlawful behavior.

Then, is a child’s behavior always a reflection of its folks? We can understand why a parent who “doesn’t bat an eyelash” upon witnessing their children’s carnage can create a worrying impression of them in front of other adults, more so when they are your potential customers. As Peggy Drexler, the author of ‘Our Fathers, Ourselves: Daughters, Fathers, and the Changing American Family,’ argues in her article: “When they’re acting out in the supermarket or throwing a fit on the playground or being cruel to other kids, we worry what everyone around us is thinking, fearing the worst: What sort of mother is she? Can’t she control him? Even if, of course, we didn’t teach him to behave in such a way.”

But here’s the thing: many parents can’t help but feel like their parenting methods are constantly under scrutiny. Surprisingly, a whopping 9 out of 10 non-parents in America openly admit to passing judgment on others based on how their children behave. While it may be somewhat understandable, considering those without kids might struggle to grasp the challenges of keeping little ones in line, it actually speaks more to parents’ ability to stay organized rather than their parenting choices. After all, it says more about parents’ organization skills, rather than their parenting decisions, if they choose to conduct a business meeting with their kids roaming free and uncontrolled in a stranger’s home.

The homeowner filled in people with more info about the chaotic visit

People were no less disturbed about the situation and offered the author some useful suggestions

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Mon, 29 May 2023 22:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
The Internet Thinks These Movies Are More Terrifying Than Any Horror Film, Here Are The 57 Best Examples https://www.blogonian.com/the-internet-thinks-these-movies-are-more-terrifying-than-any-horror-film-here-are-the-57-best-examples https://www.blogonian.com/the-internet-thinks-these-movies-are-more-terrifying-than-any-horror-film-here-are-the-57-best-examples The horror genre brings a variety of markers to subtly (or not so subtly) tell our brains that we are about to be spooked, creeped out, and jump-scared. But it’s all that more terrifying when a film shocks us without warning that it’s about to happen.

An internet user wanted to know what films people thought ended up being more frightening than most horror movies out there. People’s answers ranged from being freaked out as a child to films that cover psychologically disturbing topics. So take notes for your next movie night and be sure to upvote your favorites as you scroll through and comment your thoughts below. 

#1

Does Watership Down count? The 1978 version. It's not categorized as a horror but as a KIDS animation/adventure yet it has blood and gore in it. Scared the s**t out of me as a kid, couldn't sleep for days. I still can't watch it.

#2

Coraline - it's technically a kids movie but it's freaky as hell

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#3

Black Swan. That movie should be marked as horror.

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The first unintentionally scary film may have been created near the beginning of cinema itself. Some readers might already be familiar with the stories of “L’Arrivée d’un train en gare de La Ciotat”, or “The Arrival of a Train at La Ciotat,” causing 18th-century moviegoers to run out of the cinema in a panic. The film showed a train, arriving at a station, with the camera positioned in such a way that makes it look like it will hit it. 

Despite being a great story, this is likely a myth. Firstly, this was a silent film, so it’s hard to believe that moviegoers would think a magically quiet train was fully real as it drove toward them. Similarly, why would an audience of real people suddenly forget that the world was not in black and white? Regardless, it does make for a compelling story about a film that managed to be unintentionally terrifying and only 50 seconds long at the same time. 

#4

In a weird way I find The Truman Show scary

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#5

HBO’s Chernobyl was hands down the scariest tv series I’ve ever watched. Radiation is terrifying

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#6

Who Framed Roger Rabbit scared the hell out of me, especially with the Judge Doom scene at the end when it's revealed he's a toon.

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Modern horror directors use a variety of “tricks” to make our brains believe we are in just as much distress as the characters on screen. The cheapest example is the use of high-frequency sounds played during the film. We don’t actually hear these, but prolonged exposure ends up putting us on edge and can even cause sleepless nights in the long run. So if you want to create a subtly hostile environment for your dinner guests, play something at 20–30 Hz.

#7

Trainspotting. The baby scene, but also Robert Carlyle's violently deranged character.

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#8

Mommy dearest. It's about a narcissistic actress who adopts a child, shows love initially, then turns into a horrible, abusive monster when the child starts thinking for herself. If you've been in an abusive relationship, this movie hits harder than any horror flick

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#9

Schindler's List. Can't believe such horror actually took place.

Noise has other uses, including loud, contrasting, and clashing sounds that make our brains strive for consonance. Like an interrupted melody, we feel discomfort until the noise or melody is resolved. Directors will then just keep us on edge until the end of a sequence or scene. While this might seem like literally cheap thrills, it’s quite common in the industry nowadays. 

#10

Children of Men. And it's only gotten more frightening in light of recent events.

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#11

Cats. It's absolute nightmare fuel

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#12

I saw Return to Oz when I was a kid during a sleepover. I didnt get any sleep that night.

Saw it again a few years ago as a 30yr old. Still scary.

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Some unsettling techniques are not just used in horror. Psychological discomfort is as present in the crime or drama genres as in any slasher film. Lighting and shadows play tricks on our brains, putting us on edge. Normally, we as the viewer have a better understanding of what is visible than the characters in the scene. But some directors obscure things for the audience as well, making us tense as we try to understand what is happening on screen while the characters do the same. 

#13

Not a movie but the handmaid's tale f*****g scares me to death.

#14

As a child, I was terrified of the Pinocchio donkey scene.

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#15

“Heathers” bothers me because when it came out, it was really far-fetched parody. Now, it’s f*****g uncomfortable because of how realistic it seems. I went to school in a high-achieving town, with a serious teen suicide problem, and a couple of credible bomb threats to the schools. It upset me that everything portrayed in the film was plausible in regards to the experience I had there.

Despite most people not actually enjoying the adrenaline rush caused by horror films or scary scenes in general, people do have a fascination with unusual circumstances and darker themes. It’s important to note that fascination isn’t the same as enjoying something, as it’s more just our brain thinking that a situation contains valuable information that we need to acquire, even at the cost of sleepless nights, cold sweats, and a rapid heartbeat. 

#16

Requiem For A Dream is scary as hell! If you really want your kids to understand why drugs are bad, just show them this movie (well, don’t show this movie to kids, maybe on their teen years)

A lot of frightening scenes, graphic moments and a sad ending.

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#17

7 year old me would say *Mars Attacks!*

Hell, I'll still stand by it.

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#18

AI: Artificial Intelligence. I watched that pretty young and the whole thing was fairly traumatizing.

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#19

The Dark Crystal. no questions.

#20

A scene from The Elephant Man by David Lynch. When the disfigured man is laying in bed and the carnival guy breaks in through the window and charges people to see his face haunts me.

They way they dance around him laughing when he is dealing with so much mental anguish sticks with me.

#21

The Labyrinth. Gave me nightmares when I first saw it as a teen. Fucking Hoggle makes me shudder. Jim Henson for the creep factor. I saw one of the puppets in real life at a museum. I'll never be the same.

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#22

Parasite. It was not marketed as a horror movie but...you know what I'm talking about

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#23

W***y Wonka and the chocolate factory.

#24

The cable guy. If it wasn't a comedy it would be one of the scariest stalker movies is ever seen.

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#25

Dr who, the double episode with the angels

#26

Nightcrawler isn't scary in the traditional sense, but it's extremely unsettling

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#27

The Killing of a Sacred Deer, on Netflix. Holy c**p, this movie is disturbing. Honestly? I thought after it was over ‘I didn’t like that.’ But it stuck with me, and I thought about it for days afterward. That’s when you know it was a good movie. That kid... holy s**t... Barry Keoghan... his acting was incredible.

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#28

Titanic. It's super scary to die in the middle of the ocean.

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#29

Child Catcher. I always thought in the back of my mind if I misbehaved as a kid my parents would toss me outside for the Child Catcher to grab me and throw me in his cart.

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#30

Whiplash. Ever see JK Simmons and think "Boy, he's pretty intense. He might be really scary if he weren't so funny?"

Yeah. No one laughs during Whiplash.

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#31

the joker movie starring joaquin phoenix... it's not scary-scary, like an actual horror movie, but it just feels so accurate to the real world; i just feel like something like that actually could happen in the real world (maybe not the ending but the rest of it)

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#32

Toy Story 3. It gets so dark eventually and the bear just scares me.

And Coraline, it should be labeled animation horror.

I love both, also for how dark they are being for kids.

#33

No Country For Old Men

#34

I found ET extra terrifying

#35

As a 10 year old, I watched „Spirited Away” and even I really love horror this movie gives me a strange feeling... but still an absolute masterpiece

#36

All dogs go to heaven

Saw the first 20-30 mins in the theatre when I was about 5... 30ish years later still havent watched it, and still can picture the scene that caused me to lose it

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#37

Gravity. Scared the bajeesuz outta me. The idea of being untethered in space and just floating away with no way to do anything? F**k that

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#38

Not really a movie, but I have a pathological fear of the Teletubbies

#39

Melancholia

#40

Watership Down

#41

Click. I was expecting a very low, LOW-brow comedy, not a drama movie about the consequences of our actions, how time is not only finite, but the time we have with our loved ones is limited. It made me scared that one day I might look back and see that I wasted my life.

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#42

A Little Princess. That movie had me terrified I’d become some abused servant if my parents went missing.

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#43

James and the giant peach

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#44

Well that part in Inception where Ellen Page is watching Leonardo and his wife from like an elevator or something and the wife suddenly turns and looks right at her was pretty terrifying.

#45

I watched Contagion the other day and that definitely kept me awake

#46

The movie “9”. The way that machine just sucked the soul through the dolls’ eyes and mouth were burned into me.

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#47

Francis Coppola's *The Conversation* (1974) with Gene Hackman, John Cazale, Frederic Forrest, Cindy Williams, Terri Garr, and Harrison Ford.

All of the paranoia we have about the devices we carry in our pockets began to take root in the technology featured in this tense thriller. There's a lot of cool filmmaking going on here, and one of the most upsetting seconds-long toilet scenes ever filmed. The monsters in this movie are us, and the tools we have created.

#48

The Brave Little Toaster. Terrifying clown monster traumatized me as a child.

#49

Not a movie, but Courage the Cowardly Dog was terrifying

#50

The Witches

#51

The scene in Peter Jackson's King Kong when they encounter the villagers gave me nightmares as a kid.

#52

Jumanji.

Watched it for the first time as an adult and I was seriously uncomfortable for long parts of it.

#53

Threads - Nobody's mentioned it yet, it will give you nightmares. It is relentlessly bleak. You've seen nothing like it, I promise. It's the lead up to and long aftermath of a nuclear war presented as a factual documentary. It is not a date movie.

EDIT - It's on Shudder (7 day free trial) and Amazon Prime, apparently, for anyone who wants to see for themselves.

#54

The Spiderwick Chronicles scared the s**t out of me when I was young. It’s a PG kids movie, but I swear in some of the scenes the tension and jump scares felt like they were for a horror movie.

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#55

The Polar Express. Those creepy f*****g elves that looked like they just escaped prison

#56

Dear Zachary

#57

The Garbage Pail Kids Movie

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100 Of The Most Stunning Pics That Nailed Minimalism https://www.blogonian.com/100-of-the-most-stunning-pics-that-nailed-minimalism https://www.blogonian.com/100-of-the-most-stunning-pics-that-nailed-minimalism Enthusiasts can benefit a lot from surrounding themselves with like-minded people. It helps them fuel each other's passion for the craft and continue to get better at it.

The Facebook group 'Minimalist Photography' is a perfect example of such a place. It embraces both classical minimalism and post-minimalism, or the so-called artistic (or conceptual) minimalism, and invites people to share their works.

"We look for uncluttered artistic images of quality and originality," the team running the group writes in its 'About' section.

Founded all the way back in March 2005, the community now unites 285K members. "We have evolved [our] rules over several years and they seem to work to keep the timeline focused on the artwork and the room a civil, respectful, and enlightening place."

Continue scrolling to check out our hand-picked collection of some of the group's most popular images.

#1

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#2 I N S O M N I A

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#3 Gray With Yellow

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#4 First Post

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#5 Rain Incoming

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#6 Landscapers Palette

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#7 Queuing

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#8 Weathering The Storm

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#9

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#10 Figures In The Mist

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#11 After Light

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#12 Different Ways

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#13 Summer Perspective

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#14 Blue On Blue. The Mediterranean

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#15 Hunza Pakistan

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#16 New Mexico, USA

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#17 Cyan & Red

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#18 Next Station

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#19

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#20 Empty

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#21 My First Post

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#22 The Edge

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#23 Ligt Line

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#24 *

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#25 Daylilly Droplets

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#26 Rondini

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#27 Misty Blue

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#28

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#29 Feather

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#30 Simple And Beautiful

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#31 Perfect Storm

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#32 Santa Cruz. Oran, Algeria

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#33 Cc Welcome

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#34 Shadows…

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#35 Old Dock

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#36 Sunrise Through A Leaf

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#37 Magic Touch

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#38 1st Post Here

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#39 Only One Cosmic Thing

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#40

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#41 Under The Eiffel Tower, Paris France

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#42 But At Least Tried

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#43 Sunset

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#44 Alentejo - Portugal

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#45 Architecture In Amsterdam

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#46

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#47 Minimalist Portrait

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#48 Heron Reflects

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#49

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#50 Together

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#51

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#52 Morning Coffee

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#53 Hope This Qualifies

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#54 Taken From The Plane

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#55

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#56 Stairway To Heaven!

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#57 Floating

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#58 Squaring The Circle(S)

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#59 Colors, Lines And Shapes

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#60 Tree In A Field

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#61 Just A Tree!

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#62 Grand Egyptian Museum’s Minimal Architecture

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#63 Touch And Go

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#64 Standing Tall

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#65 Blue And White

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#66 Sahara

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#67

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#68 Snowstorm

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#69 Oaxaca, México

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#70 Qualcuno Emerge Sempre

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#71 Solitude

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#72 Stop And Reflect

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#73 Untitled

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#74 Intense Sunlight

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#75 Declined Again?

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#76 Self Portrait

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#77 Eclipse

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#78 Water Grass

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#79

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#80

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#81

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#82

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#83 Black & White

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#84 Boat Alone On Sunrise

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#85 Lotus

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#86

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#87 Shibuya Crossing Tokyo

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#88 The Gates Of Delirium

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#89

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#90 Rainbow Alley

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#91 Grass In The Water

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#92 Storm Is Comming

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#93 It's Complicated

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#94 Rain Incoming

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#95 Serenity

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#96

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#97 "Inside Out" - Versailles

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#98 L'arbre Est Plus Gros Que Vous Le Pensez

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#99 Eclipse

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#100 Knocking On Heavens Door

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Mon, 29 May 2023 21:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
Bride Looks For Support Online After Revealing Her Wish For Her Fiancé’s Grandma To Skip Their Wedding Reception, Gets Dragged Instead https://www.blogonian.com/bride-looks-for-support-online-after-revealing-her-wish-for-her-fiances-grandma-to-skip-their-wedding-reception-gets-dragged-instead https://www.blogonian.com/bride-looks-for-support-online-after-revealing-her-wish-for-her-fiances-grandma-to-skip-their-wedding-reception-gets-dragged-instead Despite the classic Hollywood wedding, in reality, people tend to have all sorts of ceremonies, receptions, after-parties, and after-after parties. Each couple ends up deciding what is important to them, but a disagreement over the wedding can be a necessary first test of a marriage.

A bride-to-be caused quite a stir when she told her fiancé that she didn’t want his elderly, 98-year-old grandmother to attend their wedding. She believed that the reception would be too much of a party for her to enjoy. Both commenters and the groom both thought the request was entitled, selfish, and downright mean.

While there is no set standard for a wedding, having family there is pretty standard

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So one bride-to-be caused some drama when she revealed to her fiancé that she didn’t want his grandmother to attend

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Wedding planning is a pressure test for each couple

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While all the rituals, symbolism and other features might make it seem like weddings are an outdated relic of the past, this story goes to prove that it does function as a great test of a couple’s ability to manage expectations, organization and compromise. As un-romantic as it sounds, compromise is key to any functioning relationship. This is just as true for conflict management, even if the conflict isn’t a hostile shouting match. The “happy” couple needs to decide what hills they are willing to die on and if this is one of them, better for the relationship to end not, not four, wasted years later. Studies have shown that the higher the expectations for the wedding itself, whether the ceremony or the partying, as OP indicated, the more likely the marriage will fail.

It’s not that a big wedding will magically make the couple fall out, rather, often a big wedding is used to mask some potential doubts about the union. This isn’t to say that a fairytale wedding is bad, but as costs continue to rise, it does become something of a sticking point unless you are fabulously rich. For example, in the US, the home of doing things big, the average wedding might end up costing just shy of forty thousand dollars. Across the entire nation, over $72 billion dollars are spent just on ceremonies alone each year, a number that has likely grown due to cost of living increases. Any successful marriage needs to be able to balance finances, no matter who is the breadwinner. So planning and organizing a wedding is a vital test to see if the relationship will have legs or is destined to burn out pretty quickly.

Honest communication and compromise are necessary for any healthy relationship

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Some readers might see OP as entitled, but to assess her side, there are some psychological factors that could be clouding her judgment. While we do not know the precise details, the bride is often enough putting in the majority of wedding planning labor, creating undue stress. As a result, she might feel that she should get a bit more of a say in how the entire event will actually go. When we are under stress, we tend to underestimate the pressure our partners are under, which is a recipe for relationship disaster if people don’t communicate honestly and empathetically. While OP’s request was missguided and possibly entitled, it is possible that she just was not in the right headspace to consider the position carefully. To err is human after all.

While we do not (yet) have a follow-up to this tale, it’s pretty clear that the bride needs to understand where her fiancé is coming from. Sometimes, your in-laws are truly terrible people, but in this case she simply wants to party. Instead of something drastic, like banning a literal family member, she instead should have considered some other options, like finding someone who would be willing to keep her company while the younger people party. Or to have an after-party for those who want to drink and dance, as some people see the reception as a time for some long-winded toasts and free food. It’s unknown how the discussion actually went down in the end, but hopefully the couple resolved this question and found a way to include grandma.

Commenters almost universally thought she was absolutely out of line and most definitely being a jerk

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Mon, 29 May 2023 21:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
Woman Goes Back To Work After Grieving Her Daughter, Learns There Were Donations Collected For Her That She Never Got https://www.blogonian.com/woman-goes-back-to-work-after-grieving-her-daughter-learns-there-were-donations-collected-for-her-that-she-never-got https://www.blogonian.com/woman-goes-back-to-work-after-grieving-her-daughter-learns-there-were-donations-collected-for-her-that-she-never-got Mother and Reddit user u/throwawaymom-65 went through a devastating tragedy — her daughter died.

But instead of trying to support the woman, her manager decided to contribute to her unbearable pain.

Upon her return to the office, she learned that the low-life went around collecting donations from everyone and then pocketed the money and left the company.

“Who steals from a deceased child?” the mom asked in her post on r/antiwork, where she explained what happened.

After this woman lost her daughter, her coworkers put together a grievance fund

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But her manager took all the money and quit

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It’s hard to know for certain the exact reason behind the manager’s behavior, but according to lawyer Vince Scopelliti, who holds degrees in law and psychology and has more than 27 years of experience working within and managing investigations, some of the most common motivations for commiting fraud are:

  • Financial pressure. A person might commit fraud due to their own money problems. This can be a result of unfortunate circumstances, such as in the case of a relationship breakdown, or more strongly self-inflicted, from living a lavish lifestyle beyond their means or getting into serious gambling debt.
  • Peer pressure. A person might be pressured to collaborate in a fraud at work, and go along with it to be accepted in the ‘in group’ or to avoid harassment.
  • Personality traits. Certain personality types may be more inclined towards committing fraud – such as opportunists, narcissists, or people who like to lord it over or manipulate other people, and who enjoy the challenge of beating the system and fooling others.
  • Disgruntlement. In some cases, resentment can be involved – such as where an employee feels overlooked for a promotion or pay increase they feel they deserved, or where they feel victimised or treated unfairly (whether real or imagined).

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Scopelliti said rationalization can also play a part, with a perpetrator justifying their actions to alleviate guilt, telling themselves things like “I deserve it.”

As her story went viral, the mom provided more information on the situation

We can’t blame the Redditor’s coworkers for not seeing this coming, either. There’s a popular stereotype, saying that older people with reduced cognitive abilities are the most likely to be scammed. But according to research published by the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority (FINRA) and the American Association of Retired Persons (AARP), many other people are vulnerable, too.

In fact, according to their data, self-confidence is one factor that causes people to fall for scams. People of any age who believe they are too smart or well-informed to be tricked are very likely to become victims.

Many schemes depend on a psychological technique that’s now called social engineering. People make bad decisions when an emotion becomes so strong that the higher-level thinking parts of the brain essentially shut down. Strong feelings, such as fear or anger can cause people to make choices they wouldn’t make at other times.

Only in this particular case, the con artist didn’t need to invent a scenario, they just played on people’s existing emotions.

And people shared advice on how she should proceed

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Mon, 29 May 2023 21:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
“Then Came A Crash”: House Owners Left Shocked After Entitled House Cleaners Bring Their 3 Kids And Let Them Go Wild https://www.blogonian.com/then-came-a-crash-house-owners-left-shocked-after-entitled-house-cleaners-bring-their-3-kids-and-let-them-go-wild https://www.blogonian.com/then-came-a-crash-house-owners-left-shocked-after-entitled-house-cleaners-bring-their-3-kids-and-let-them-go-wild If you’ve ever ordered something online – be it a tank top from Amazon or babysitting services from Sittercity – you know well there’s a significant possibility that it won’t be what you expect. In rare cases, it might even come with an entitled pair of parents as a bonus.

As u/abysmalrotoscoping shared with the ‘Entitled Parents‘ community, she hired a local husband-and-wife tag team to look after her house temporarily. To her surprise, the couple decided to bring their children along for the job. Initially, she didn’t think it was a major issue. However, what truly astounded her was the havoc the kids unleashed and their parents’ relaxed approach towards the resulting chaos. We get a sense there won’t be a second meeting after this.

When ordering services online, it’s important to go through everything thoroughly if you don’t want any surprises

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A woman shared how her house was turned upside down after potential cleaners paid her home a visit and brought all their kids along

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Unruly children or not, people are very supportive of small businesses in America

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It goes without saying that small businesses are the beating heart of our economy. According to the University Of Minnesota, they generate about half of America’s GDP and even saw a boom after the pandemic. And while there’s no shortage of them shutting their operation each year – a natural part of the economy, Gene Marks, the author of ‘The Small Business Desk Reference,’ argues – it mostly comes down to luck and how people conduct their businesses.

Seeing how the pair presented themselves to the story’s author, then, it’s not really a surprise that 87% of consumers read online reviews for local businesses, according to Bright Local. Sure, supporting local businesses enhances community well-being and keeps the dollar where it should belong (in the community) – something that was particularly prevalent during the pandemic years, when one-third of small businesses in the US had no other choice but to close down. But if you bring your unruly kids to a business transaction, what else can you expect?

Perhaps these parents are afraid that they’re not spending enough time with their little ones and so they try to juggle both at the same time? Well, the good news is that a recent study has found that it doesn’t matter how much time parents spend with their kids and has “virtually no relationship to how children turn out.”

Of course, there’s a fine line between conducting your business and choosing to let your kids be part of it

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The same report, then, also sheds some light on the negative effects of spending time with stressed parents on children. Guilty, anxiety-ridden parents grappling with the delicate balance of work and childcare have been found to be associated with undesirable outcomes, including diminished math scores and behavioral issues. However, intriguingly, the study’s authors suggest that the quantity of time spent with parents holds little significance, except during the tumultuous teenage years, when an engaged mother or father can potentially reduce the temptation for unlawful behavior.

Then, is a child’s behavior always a reflection of its folks? We can understand why a parent who “doesn’t bat an eyelash” upon witnessing their children’s carnage can create a worrying impression of them in front of other adults, more so when they are your potential customers. As Peggy Drexler, the author of ‘Our Fathers, Ourselves: Daughters, Fathers, and the Changing American Family,’ argues in her article: “When they’re acting out in the supermarket or throwing a fit on the playground or being cruel to other kids, we worry what everyone around us is thinking, fearing the worst: What sort of mother is she? Can’t she control him? Even if, of course, we didn’t teach him to behave in such a way.”

But here’s the thing: many parents can’t help but feel like their parenting methods are constantly under scrutiny. Surprisingly, a whopping 9 out of 10 non-parents in America openly admit to passing judgment on others based on how their children behave. While it may be somewhat understandable, considering those without kids might struggle to grasp the challenges of keeping little ones in line, it actually speaks more to parents’ ability to stay organized rather than their parenting choices. After all, it says more about parents’ organization skills, rather than their parenting decisions, if they choose to conduct a business meeting with their kids roaming free and uncontrolled in a stranger’s home.

The homeowner filled in people with more info about the chaotic visit

People were no less disturbed about the situation and offered the author some useful suggestions

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Mon, 29 May 2023 20:30:05 +0530 Blogonian
Twitter Is Cracking Up At Hilariously Accurate Posts About Costco, Here Are 90 Of The Best https://www.blogonian.com/twitter-is-cracking-up-at-hilariously-accurate-posts-about-costco-here-are-90-of-the-best https://www.blogonian.com/twitter-is-cracking-up-at-hilariously-accurate-posts-about-costco-here-are-90-of-the-best Some people consider shopping a form of torture; however, others thrive as they make their way from aisle to aisle looking for the best offer. For the latter, Costco is often a popular choice. With an abundance of goods and discount deals, it might mesmerize the shopper and make them lose track of their time—some people can spend hours roaming the store, and there are Tweets to prove it.

We have gathered some of the best Twitter posts that sum up all that shopping at Costco entails. Whether it’s losing track of time or buying things in quantities you never expected to, you might find them quite amusing yet painfully accurate. Scroll down to find the Tweets on the list below and see if you can relate to any of them.

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The history of Costco, or Costco Wholesale Corporation in full, can be traced back to 1976. That’s when, under the name of Price Club, the first store was opened in a converted airplane hangar located on Morena Boulevard in San Diego. Originally, it only served small businesses; however, the company soon realized it made sense to serve a certain number of non-business members as well.

By 1983, the first Costco warehouse was up and running in Seattle and in ten years time, Costco and Price Club merged to become Price/Costco that was in charge of 206 stores generating $16 billion in annual sales.

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A large number of situations in these Tweets are likely familiar to anyone who has ever stepped foot into a Costco. The huge maze of aisles filled with piles of all sorts of products provides a spectacular shopping experience for someone who enjoys buying in bulk.

However, in order to be allowed to go crazy at such a store, one has to become a Costco member for a certain yearly fee. According to Zippia’s 2023 data, over 68 million households globally own such a membership, adding up to roughly 123 million people in total.

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Investopedia revealed that membership dues comprise the majority of Costco’s profits. The clients are interested in taking full advantage of their memberships, costing them $60 or $120 dollars per year (Gold Star and Executive memberships respectively), which leads to high retention rates and nearly no money spent on advertising.

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Investopedia pointed out that traditional advertising that encourages customers to return to the store doesn’t make sense for Costco, as memberships bought once a year bring most of the profit rather than people coming back to shop repeatedly. Moreover, having invested in the membership, customers are inclined to come back themselves.

Saving on advertising is likely one of the reasons Costco can pay its employees a rather competitive hourly wage, which, according to Investopedia, leads to a highly motivated workforce. The latter in turn provides a good shopping experience for the customer, who is then more likely to renew their membership.

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Author and behavior change strategist, Jennifer Clinehens, uncovered Costco’s surprising psychological strategies that allow the company to reach rather impressive numbers in the industry, despite their seemingly counterintuitive business model (it makes its customers pay for the opportunity to shop, the store itself doesn’t present much decor wise, and quite a lot of products are sold in absurdly large quantities—a point that has been made in quite a few of these amusing Tweets).

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Jennifer Clinehens believes there are five strategies at play when it comes to Costco’s success: scarcity, ‘Sunk Cost Fallacy”, reciprocity, ‘Peak-end Rule’, and salience. The author refers to the first one as the psychological principle that powers the store. According to her, Costco memberships create a feeling of scarcity and a fear of missing out, which leads to people wanting to be included in the group that receives special treatment, or special offers in this case.

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Second on Clinehens’s list, the principle of ‘Sunk Cost Fallacy’ describes the phenomenon of people tending to stick with something they’ve already invested time and money in—an annual membership, for instance. The third strategy relates to the abundance of free sample booths—another feature lots of Twitter users seem to enjoy—scattered all over the store. Known as reciprocity, it is a persuasion technique based on the social norm of responding to positive actions with positive actions.

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Another one of Costco’s approaches, according to the behavior change strategist, is known as the ‘Peak-end Rule’. It suggests that people judge an entire experience on two main points—the emotional peak and its end, rather than the average of the overall experience. This strategy works well for Costco due to its excellent customer service and a returns policy that is favorable to the client. Wanting to return a faulty device, for instance, can be a common endpoint to some consumers, which is why it’s important to handle it in the right way.

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The last point mentioned by Jennifer Clinehens is salience, which describes how prominent or emotionally striking something is. It applies to the “treasure hunt” Costco’s customers have to embark on after something they buy regularly is relocated in the store. That way, they have to walk around trying to find the product, which might make them notice something else that stands out and maybe even buy it.

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A 2022 survey revealed that as much as 75% consumers buy certain products in bulk. The most common categories of goods typically bought in large quantities include paper products (55%), household cleaning products (35%), shelf stables (26%), and personal care items (22%).

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Mon, 29 May 2023 20:30:05 +0530 Blogonian
88 Hilarious Memes That Combine The Internet’s Two Most Favorite Things – Animals And Humor https://www.blogonian.com/88-hilarious-memes-that-combine-the-internets-two-most-favorite-things-animals-and-humor https://www.blogonian.com/88-hilarious-memes-that-combine-the-internets-two-most-favorite-things-animals-and-humor The world we live in wouldn’t be that great without animals. While we believe we are the ones dominating it, the truth is that animals bring incomparable beauty, warmth and laughter to our daily lives. At the same time, they are kinda weird and funny, making us try to figure out their behavior or just simply chuckle at their shenanigans. 

Our animal admirers here at Bored Panda have collected the funniest and most adorable animal memes shared by an Imgur account called “Obsessed With Animals”. As the owner of the page introduced herself, she is a girl from Denmark “who loves animals”. As do we!

So, without further ado, take a look at this chucklesome collection of our crazy friends. Don’t forget to upvote your favorite images and let us know your thoughts in the comments!

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We believe that all the animal lovers out there would agree that there’s nothing better than sharing life with our furry, feathered, or scaly companions. Especially when they bring so much laughter and cuteness into our world. From a guilty-looking dog to a moose caught on camera stealing popcorn, they surely enrich our routines.

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While these memes are surely entertaining, it is crucial to recognize that the purpose of animals extends beyond mere amusement. They do not exist for our entertainment but to coexist harmoniously with us.

According to National Geographic, it’s possible that species extinction is occurring at a rate a thousand times faster because of humans. “Extinction happens when environmental factors or evolutionary problems cause a species to die out. The disappearance of species from Earth is ongoing, and rates have varied over time.” The IUCN Red List of Threatened Species estimated that more than 42,100 species are threatened with extinction. That is 28% of all assessed species. This alarming reality forces us to reflect upon our actions and their consequences for animals and nature.

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According to Endangered Species Coalition, there are ways to help protect endangered species and their habitats. One of the most obvious steps is to stop litter, recycle and buy sustainable products. It is also important to be vocal about threatened and endangered species and ask for the implementation of protection measures. Let’s not forget that without them, there would be no us. You can read more about ways to help protect endangered species here.

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On a lighter note, there are still many conservation success stories to be celebrated. Over the last century, thanks to various committed organizations and communities, we have saved many animals and plants from extinction. Among others, the population of peregrine falcons, sea otters, blue whales, and Siberian tigers has slowly increased! You can learn more about that here.

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We hope these memes have brightened up your day a little bit. We are curious to know which image has made you chuckle the most. Let us know in the comments! For similar content, check out our other posts by clicking here and here.

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Mon, 29 May 2023 19:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
“Wendy’s Next Door, Their Management Is Hiring”: Guy Shares Why It’s Best To Keep Your Opinions About Management To Yourself https://www.blogonian.com/wendys-next-door-their-management-is-hiring-guy-shares-why-its-best-to-keep-your-opinions-about-management-to-yourself https://www.blogonian.com/wendys-next-door-their-management-is-hiring-guy-shares-why-its-best-to-keep-your-opinions-about-management-to-yourself Life continues to happen, despite the best wishes of managers worldwide, so a good boss will find ways to make time for those periods when a worker might be struggling. And a bad boss might be defined by the ways they don’t accommodate an employee with out-of-work problems.

An ex-Subway worker shared his anger at being terminated for speaking poorly about his manager to a coworker in a TikTok that went viral. This was the result of a buildup of grievances after his cat got seriously ill and he requested time off to take care of it. As usual with power-tripping managers, nothing was as easy as it should have been.
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Managers often spend too much time thinking about working hours and forget that employees have lives as well

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“Guess who got fired from Subway”

Listen to this s**t. It’s crazy, y’all won’t believe it. My cat Garfield, you guys know he’s sick, he got diagnosed with AIDS about a month ago, so it’s very very unfortunate, but he’s still trying to pull through, still trying to make the best life that he can.

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It all started a month and a half ago. I called off one of my shifts. I called off a couple days in advance. It’s cool, right? I got my shift covered. No problem, at all. Two weeks later go by, I go into work, Emily calls me around 10 o’clock saying “Garfield is very sick. He looks like he’s not doing good whatsoever. He can’t even get up. He can’t walk.” I’m at work, I’m like, “Oh s**t,” so I’m trying to find coverage.

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I asked my manager if I can leave early. I didn’t find coverage, but she allowed me to leave early. But get this – before I walked out and left early, she looked at me and said “Just like Austin said though, this is the second time you’ve called off in two weeks over a cat.” Keep that in mind. Okay. I blew it off my shoulder, Garfield’s more important than arguing over a dumb b****.

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So fast forward all the way to two days ago. I go into work again. Same thing. Emily calls me around 9, 10 o’clock in the morning, saying “Babe, Garfield is tremoring, he’s actually shaking. He’s doing way worse than before.” He won’t move, every time she touches him he’s screaming in agony, he’s in so much pain. I start crying, I start getting freaked out at work and I call the vet instantly and say “Hey, I’m trying to leave work early, I’m gonna get him in ASAP.” They said “Yeah, bring him in. But by the sound of it, don’t get your hopes up. He might not make it.” That’s what the vet said. You do not understand the amount of stress that put on me as soon as I heard that.

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So I’m kind of freaking out a little bit and I’m trying to call off of work. I message the huge Subway group chat around our district that has everybody in the group chat, people that’s not even at my location. Like, people are in it from out-of-town locations. So I’m like, “Something very urgent has came up. Can somebody please come in from now until four and cover the rest of my shift? I would greatly appreciate it.” Tell me why my manager messages me personally and says “I should have been your first notification.” I said, “No,” but this is what her little “rule” is. When you call off, you gotta find coverage and then let your management know after. After! This is what I messaged word for word.

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She replied back with “Ok” – had nothing else to say. I’m pi**ed. When she sent me that message, we’re going back and forth. I’m ranting to her little f**king puppy dog. I didn’t know that she was telling her everything in the book. Get it – I’m ranting with her, so me and this girl that I’m working with at the moment are cool. Like, she even asked me, “You aren’t mad at me, right Pres?” and I’m like “No, you haven’t done anything wrong to me.”

So I’m ranting with her about what my manager just texted me, I’m pi**ed, so in the middle of ranting I said a few slurs but it was nothing like intent— I was just mad. And I kind of slammed the proofer door shut because I was putting bread into the proofer. I got little upset because everything is making me emotional right now. So I slammed the proofer door shut.

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30 minutes later, my manager comes storming in the door. First thing she says to me: “Clock out. Leave, now.” She’s pi**ed. I’m making a sandwich, she looks over at my employee and says, “You finish that sandwich right now, he’s clocking out.” Little did I know, the employee that I was working with had just called her and said that I’m scaring her, to get here because she’s terrified. Guess me slamming the door and cussing was scaring her. I was just ranting to her. I say “f**k that.” I didn’t even say deuces or nothing. I walked right out the door. You want me to go, I’m gonna go. A cat is more important.

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Fast forward, I take Garfield to the vet, then I go into work yesterday, which was the next day after I just had the whole ordeal. As soon as I pulled into the parking lot I see nothing but trouble. All the big boss’s vehicles are there, my manager’s vehicle, the employees – I knew it was bad. Unfortunately. I walk in to go straight to the back and clock in, and then I hear “Preston.”

I’m like, “Oh f**k.” So I turned around and they’re both sitting right there in the booth. He points at the seat in front of him, right next to Austin, and says “Take a seat,” and then he asks, “How are you doing?” And I was like “I’m doing, I’m doing, bro.” And get this – it’s just the two district managers at that booth.

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My manager, my store manager, is hiding in the back avoiding everything. He proceeds to ask, “What happened yesterday?” I said “I have nothing to say, bro. Everybody around here is a hypocrite.” Word for word. That’s all I had to say. They asked why I was yelling slurs and slamming stuff yesterday, I said “What do you mean? I wasn’t just yelling slurs, I was ranting, and I didn’t just slam things around. I just slammed the proofer door shut once.”

So then he tells me “That’s why your manager came in yesterday, because your employee was scared of you yelling and slamming [stuff].” That’s how I figured out why my manager came in. She didn’t come in to cover me, she came in because my other employee felt “threatened.” Yeah, makes sense to feel threatened by me. This was my reaction to it: “Are you serious? She felt threatened? Okay, okay.” Anyways, I was letting them know how stressful it’s been and how nobody understands and Austin was like “We understand.” I look at him – I was like “You did not just say that. You’re the last person that should say that, bro.”

Image credits: prestonwalker__

And remember Austin’s sitting next to me. I’m talking same booth, shoulder to shoulder. I asked him “Just like Katie said, ‘just like Austin said, it’s just a cat.’ What the f**k does that mean, bro?”

He looked back at me and said, word for word, “Preston, I totally understand that you’re upset right now.” That right there? That proved to me and it pi**ed me off. After that, I just cut to the chase, looked at both of them and said “So what’s the word, bro? Am I fired? What am I doing here?” He said, “Yeah, we’re gonna have to terminate you.”

Image credits: prestonwalker__

I was like “Yeah, screw that.” I went to get up and walk out, no question about it. They were like, “Whoa, wait, we need your key.” Oh my god. I was struggling to get it off my keychain. So I walk to the very back behind the counter, where we make sandwiches. I grabbed a knife, and I bet they were like, “What the f**k is he doing?” I got it pried off and walk up to the table, sat it down, slid it towards them, walked out, no question about it.

They were like “Wait, wait, wait, Preston! Come here, man! Come here, man! Come here, man!” They had the audacity to tell me “Wendy’s next door, their management is hiring.” I said “No. F**k that. I don’t even want that.” They were like “You don’t want it?” They were like, “Alright man. Well, we wish you the best of luck. Have a good day. Take care.” I was like, “Yep, have a good one.” And I just walked out, that was it.

You can watch the full video here

@prestonwalker__ I Got Fired From Subway OVER THIS?! What an ABSOLUTE JOKE of a job!????????‍♂️ #prestontalks #subwaypreston ♬ original sound – Preston Walker

Fast-food management is notorious for its mistreatment of employees

As many of the comments showed, fast food is rife with managers who act like they are running a warship at sea, not a smallish restaurant for cheap eats. Most fast-food restaurants are franchises, which come with their own set of difficulties for management, and unfortunately, it’s the employees who take the brunt of the “damage.” First and foremost, these leaders are appointed by owners who mostly just see the restaurant through the lens of cash flow. The only metric is “Are we making enough money?” Managers are chosen almost exclusively by this criteria, so it’s not too surprising that they would disregard employee feelings so easily.

Unfortunately, the fast-food industry has a stigma of being a place for entry-level workers, high-schoolers getting some pocket cash, or people without skills. This has not been true for a long time, but this image is still likely what many owners have in mind. So employee retention is pretty low on the list of priorities. The (predictable) result has been the “great resignation,” where thousands of workers have quit their jobs due to satisfactory conditions, treatment, or a slew of other issues. Management, typically, has not caught up to this problem, and stores all over are suddenly hit with labor shortages. This puts pressure on the remaining workers, who are then more likely to quit instead of doing more labor for the same wage.

In the long run, OP might get the last laugh

This is little comfort for OP who lost his job in a trying time, but in the long run, he will probably be vindicated. Employee morale at his old store is not likely to be high, after all his ex-coworkers see that time off for a sick, beloved pet is nonexistent and that one can be fired just for venting. It would not be surprising if this particular Subway continues to bleed workers, putting more and more pressure on the existing employee, until it finally falls apart and the power-tripping manager is left to explain why his or her store now makes no money to an owner who won’t care about their excuses.

Commenters shared similar stories of unreasonable managers and empathized with OP

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Mon, 29 May 2023 18:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
“I Am The Bride After All”: Woman Causes Family Drama By Trying To Ban Her Fiancé’s Grandmother From The Wedding https://www.blogonian.com/i-am-the-bride-after-all-woman-causes-family-drama-by-trying-to-ban-her-fiances-grandmother-from-the-wedding https://www.blogonian.com/i-am-the-bride-after-all-woman-causes-family-drama-by-trying-to-ban-her-fiances-grandmother-from-the-wedding Despite the classic Hollywood wedding, in reality, people tend to have all sorts of ceremonies, receptions, after-parties, and after-after parties. Each couple ends up deciding what is important to them, but a disagreement over the wedding can be a necessary first test of a marriage.

A bride-to-be caused quite a stir when she told her fiancé that she didn’t want his elderly, 98-year-old grandmother to attend their wedding. She believed that the reception would be too much of a party for her to enjoy. Both commenters and the groom both thought the request was entitled, selfish, and downright mean.

While there is no set standard for a wedding, having family there is pretty standard

Image credits: Álvaro CvG (not the actual photo)

So one bride-to-be caused some drama when she revealed to her fiancé that she didn’t want his grandmother to attend

Image credits: Danie Franco (not the actual photo)

Image source: Legitimate_Scar_8747

Wedding planning is a pressure test for each couple

Image credits: Shardayyy Photography (not the actual photo)

While all the rituals, symbolism and other features might make it seem like weddings are an outdated relic of the past, this story goes to prove that it does function as a great test of a couple’s ability to manage expectations, organization and compromise. As un-romantic as it sounds, compromise is key to any functioning relationship. This is just as true for conflict management, even if the conflict isn’t a hostile shouting match. The “happy” couple needs to decide what hills they are willing to die on and if this is one of them, better for the relationship to end not, not four, wasted years later. Studies have shown that the higher the expectations for the wedding itself, whether the ceremony or the partying, as OP indicated, the more likely the marriage will fail.

It’s not that a big wedding will magically make the couple fall out, rather, often a big wedding is used to mask some potential doubts about the union. This isn’t to say that a fairytale wedding is bad, but as costs continue to rise, it does become something of a sticking point unless you are fabulously rich. For example, in the US, the home of doing things big, the average wedding might end up costing just shy of forty thousand dollars. Across the entire nation, over $72 billion dollars are spent just on ceremonies alone each year, a number that has likely grown due to cost of living increases. Any successful marriage needs to be able to balance finances, no matter who is the breadwinner. So planning and organizing a wedding is a vital test to see if the relationship will have legs or is destined to burn out pretty quickly.

Honest communication and compromise are necessary for any healthy relationship

Image credits: August de Richelieu (not the actual photo)

Some readers might see OP as entitled, but to assess her side, there are some psychological factors that could be clouding her judgment. While we do not know the precise details, the bride is often enough putting in the majority of wedding planning labor, creating undue stress. As a result, she might feel that she should get a bit more of a say in how the entire event will actually go. When we are under stress, we tend to underestimate the pressure our partners are under, which is a recipe for relationship disaster if people don’t communicate honestly and empathetically. While OP’s request was missguided and possibly entitled, it is possible that she just was not in the right headspace to consider the position carefully. To err is human after all.

While we do not (yet) have a follow-up to this tale, it’s pretty clear that the bride needs to understand where her fiancé is coming from. Sometimes, your in-laws are truly terrible people, but in this case she simply wants to party. Instead of something drastic, like banning a literal family member, she instead should have considered some other options, like finding someone who would be willing to keep her company while the younger people party. Or to have an after-party for those who want to drink and dance, as some people see the reception as a time for some long-winded toasts and free food. It’s unknown how the discussion actually went down in the end, but hopefully the couple resolved this question and found a way to include grandma.

Commenters almost universally thought she was absolutely out of line and most definitely being a jerk

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Mon, 29 May 2023 18:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
66 Hilarious Nonsensical Comics By Harris Fishman https://www.blogonian.com/66-hilarious-nonsensical-comics-by-harris-fishman https://www.blogonian.com/66-hilarious-nonsensical-comics-by-harris-fishman Let's kick off this week with a dose of unpredictable comics by none other than the hilarious comics artist Harris Fishman.

Harris is the creative mind behind the comics Beetlemoses, which gained online popularity during the summer of 2022. His comics incorporate elements of memes and pop culture moments to which Harris adds a flare of dark turns, leading to unexpected endings.

So without further ado, we invite you to scroll down for Beetlemoses comics, as well as an interview with Harris himself.

More info: Instagram | twitter.com | beetlemoses.bigcartel.com

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Bored Panda reached out to Harris, who was kind enough to answer our questions, to learn more about him and his comics. We asked him to share a bit about his background: “I've been drawing my whole life, but I only decided about a year ago to take a risk and commit to my art full-time. I didn't attend art school, and I don't have any formal training beyond high school art classes. I just have an enormous appreciation for art. I've been extremely blessed to have found an audience that appreciates my drawings and humor over the last year," shared the artist.

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While Harris has gained recent recognition in the comics world, like any other artist, he tends to experience uninspiring days. We are curious about how he copes with creative blocks and what his creative process looks like. Harris shared: “When an idea pops into my head, no matter how strange/dull/incomplete it might be, I write it down immediately in my notes. Sometimes I'll have an idea that I can picture so vividly I have to draw it right away. More often, however, I'll have a 'dry spell' for new ideas, so I'll go digging through some of the ideas I wrote down but disregarded for one reason or another. Ironically, these ideas tend to receive the most praise. You never know what's going to click with people, so I'm in the habit of drawing any idea as long as I think they're funny.”

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The ideas are always the most challenging part of the creative process; however, once they are written down, Harris shared how long it takes for him to transform them into fully realized creations.

“It really depends. Webcomics are a breezy format, and I try to condense the joke to three panels at the most. Coming up with the idea is the hard part, because you can't force it, and you never know when inspiration will strike. Once I have an idea, it only takes me a couple of hours to draw and color a comic. I have some long-form comics I've been working on as well, which obviously take a bit more time. I'm hoping to have some of those finished in the coming months.”

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We were also wondering how his artistic style evolved over time and what influences have shaped his unique approach to creating comics. Harris shared: “Since I've been drawing full time, this past year I've probably spent more hours making art than the rest of my life combined. My biggest realization this year has been to stop trying to draw like someone else. I know and follow so many incredible artists, and sometimes I have those nagging thoughts: "Why can't I draw like this person? How do they do that?" It took me a long time to realize that your artistic journey doesn't begin until you let go of these ideas and commit to being the absolute best version of YOU. It might sound a bit dramatic in regards to my silly comics, but that epiphany was really important to me this year.”

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And lastly, Harris added: “I would just like to give a huge thanks to everyone who has supported me this year, including you guys at Bored Panda! I'm only at the beginning of my journey as an artist, and I have so much more coming up! If you'd like to see or hear more from me, you can check me out on my Twitter and Instagram accounts. I also teach free art classes once a week on twitch.tv/beetlemoses, and I co-host a podcast about art/memes/the internet called Cold Cuts, which can be found on YouTube and Spotify. Thank you again!”

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Mon, 29 May 2023 17:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
Texas Girl Overcomes Poverty And Achieves Her Goals: Despite Being Born In Jail, She Will Study At Prestigious Harvard University https://www.blogonian.com/texas-girl-overcomes-poverty-and-achieves-her-goals-despite-being-born-in-jail-she-will-study-at-prestigious-harvard-university https://www.blogonian.com/texas-girl-overcomes-poverty-and-achieves-her-goals-despite-being-born-in-jail-she-will-study-at-prestigious-harvard-university A Texas teenager, born in Galveston County Jail, is bound for Harvard in the fall after graduating high school summa cum laude. The 18-year-old from Montgomery County, Aurora Sky Castner, was among the top of her class at Conroe High School as she closed the chapter during the graduation ceremony last week.

The student is headed for a new adventure as she’s looking forward to attending Harvard Law School on a full scholarship—a goal she set back in elementary school. Since her mother was incarcerated, Sky grew up with her dad as a single parent; however, throughout the years since her childhood, she was supported by her mentor, Mona Hamby.

After graduating at the top of her class, Sky is bound for Harvard Law School in the fall

Image credits: ACADEMY FOR SCIENCE & HEALTH, CONROE ISD

Image credits: Daniel Hartwig

The bright young woman set the goal of going to Harvard back in elementary school

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Sky was supported by her long-term mentor, Mona Hamby

Image credits: MCCFoundation TX

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People were generous with kind and encouraging words for the graduate

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Mon, 29 May 2023 14:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
66 Hilarious Comics With Unexpected Endings By Harris Fishman https://www.blogonian.com/66-hilarious-comics-with-unexpected-endings-by-harris-fishman https://www.blogonian.com/66-hilarious-comics-with-unexpected-endings-by-harris-fishman Let's kick off this week with a dose of unpredictable comics by none other than the hilarious comics artist Harris Fishman.

Harris is the creative mind behind the comics Beetlemoses, which gained online popularity during the summer of 2022. His comics incorporate elements of memes and pop culture moments to which Harris adds a flare of dark turns, leading to unexpected endings.

So without further ado, we invite you to scroll down for Beetlemoses comics, as well as an interview with Harris himself.

More info: Instagram | twitter.com | beetlemoses.bigcartel.com

#1

Image credits: beetlemoses

Bored Panda reached out to Harris, who was kind enough to answer our questions, to learn more about him and his comics. We asked him to share a bit about his background: “I've been drawing my whole life, but I only decided about a year ago to take a risk and commit to my art full-time. I didn't attend art school, and I don't have any formal training beyond high school art classes. I just have an enormous appreciation for art. I've been extremely blessed to have found an audience that appreciates my drawings and humor over the last year," shared the artist.

#2

Image credits: beetlemoses

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While Harris has gained recent recognition in the comics world, like any other artist, he tends to experience uninspiring days. We are curious about how he copes with creative blocks and what his creative process looks like. Harris shared: “When an idea pops into my head, no matter how strange/dull/incomplete it might be, I write it down immediately in my notes. Sometimes I'll have an idea that I can picture so vividly I have to draw it right away. More often, however, I'll have a 'dry spell' for new ideas, so I'll go digging through some of the ideas I wrote down but disregarded for one reason or another. Ironically, these ideas tend to receive the most praise. You never know what's going to click with people, so I'm in the habit of drawing any idea as long as I think they're funny.”

#4

Image credits: beetlemoses

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Image credits: beetlemoses

The ideas are always the most challenging part of the creative process; however, once they are written down, Harris shared how long it takes for him to transform them into fully realized creations.

“It really depends. Webcomics are a breezy format, and I try to condense the joke to three panels at the most. Coming up with the idea is the hard part, because you can't force it, and you never know when inspiration will strike. Once I have an idea, it only takes me a couple of hours to draw and color a comic. I have some long-form comics I've been working on as well, which obviously take a bit more time. I'm hoping to have some of those finished in the coming months.”

#6

Image credits: beetlemoses

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We were also wondering how his artistic style evolved over time and what influences have shaped his unique approach to creating comics. Harris shared: “Since I've been drawing full time, this past year I've probably spent more hours making art than the rest of my life combined. My biggest realization this year has been to stop trying to draw like someone else. I know and follow so many incredible artists, and sometimes I have those nagging thoughts: "Why can't I draw like this person? How do they do that?" It took me a long time to realize that your artistic journey doesn't begin until you let go of these ideas and commit to being the absolute best version of YOU. It might sound a bit dramatic in regards to my silly comics, but that epiphany was really important to me this year.”

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Image credits: beetlemoses

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And lastly, Harris added: “I would just like to give a huge thanks to everyone who has supported me this year, including you guys at Bored Panda! I'm only at the beginning of my journey as an artist, and I have so much more coming up! If you'd like to see or hear more from me, you can check me out on my Twitter and Instagram accounts. I also teach free art classes once a week on twitch.tv/beetlemoses, and I co-host a podcast about art/memes/the internet called Cold Cuts, which can be found on YouTube and Spotify. Thank you again!”

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Mon, 29 May 2023 13:30:06 +0530 Blogonian
100 Pics From This “Minimalist Photography” Facebook Page https://www.blogonian.com/100-pics-from-this-minimalist-photography-facebook-page https://www.blogonian.com/100-pics-from-this-minimalist-photography-facebook-page Enthusiasts can benefit a lot from surrounding themselves with like-minded people. It helps them fuel each other's passion for the craft and continue to get better at it.

The Facebook group 'Minimalist Photography' is a perfect example of such a place. It embraces both classical minimalism and post-minimalism, or the so-called artistic (or conceptual) minimalism, and invites people to share their works.

"We look for uncluttered artistic images of quality and originality," the team running the group writes in its 'About' section.

Founded all the way back in March 2005, the community now unites 285K members. "We have evolved [our] rules over several years and they seem to work to keep the timeline focused on the artwork and the room a civil, respectful, and enlightening place."

Continue scrolling to check out our hand-picked collection of some of the group's most popular images.

#1 I N S O M N I A

Image credits: Jayakumar MN

#2 New Mexico, USA

Image credits: Larry Malam

#3

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#4 Landscapers Palette

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#5 First Post

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#6 Next Station

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#7 1st Post Here

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#8 Rain Incoming

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#9 Cyan & Red

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#10 Blue On Blue. The Mediterranean

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#11 Summer Perspective

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#12 Weathering The Storm

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#13 Hunza Pakistan

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#14 Different Ways

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#16 Empty

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#17 Figures In The Mist

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#18 Gray With Yellow

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#19 Rondini

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#20 But At Least Tried

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#21 Under The Eiffel Tower, Paris France

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#22 *

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#23 Queuing

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#24 Feather

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#25 Together

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#26 Squaring The Circle(S)

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#27 Cc Welcome

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#32 Santa Cruz. Oran, Algeria

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#33 Architecture In Amsterdam

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#34 Ligt Line

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#35 Heron Reflects

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#36 Daylilly Droplets

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#37 My First Post

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#38 Magic Touch

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#39 Sahara

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#40 Self Portrait

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#41 Simple And Beautiful

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#42 Floating

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#43 The Edge

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#44 Qualcuno Emerge Sempre

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#45 Perfect Storm

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#47 The Gates Of Delirium

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#48 Touch And Go

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#50 Storm Is Comming

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#52 Just A Tree!

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#53 After Light

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#54 Standing Tall

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#55 Taken From The Plane

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#58 It's Complicated

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#60 Grass In The Water

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#61 Sunrise Through A Leaf

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#62 Morning Coffee

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#64 Minimalist Portrait

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#65 Serenity

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#66 "Inside Out" - Versailles

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#69 Eclipse

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#70 Declined Again?

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#71 Intense Sunlight

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#72 Old Dock

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#73 Alentejo - Portugal

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#74 Misty Blue

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#75 Stairway To Heaven!

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#77 Black & White

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#78 Boat Alone On Sunrise

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#85 Grand Egyptian Museum’s Minimal Architecture

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Mon, 29 May 2023 13:30:06 +0530 Blogonian
90 Tweets That You Might Relate To If You Love Costco https://www.blogonian.com/90-tweets-that-you-might-relate-to-if-you-love-costco https://www.blogonian.com/90-tweets-that-you-might-relate-to-if-you-love-costco Some people consider shopping a form of torture; however, others thrive as they make their way from aisle to aisle looking for the best offer. For the latter, Costco is often a popular choice. With an abundance of goods and discount deals, it might mesmerize the shopper and make them lose track of their time—some people can spend hours roaming the store, and there are Tweets to prove it.

We have gathered some of the best Twitter posts that sum up all that shopping at Costco entails. Whether it’s losing track of time or buying things in quantities you never expected to, you might find them quite amusing yet painfully accurate. Scroll down to find the Tweets on the list below and see if you can relate to any of them.

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Mon, 29 May 2023 12:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
“Guess Who Got Fired From Subway”: Guy Goes Viral After Losing His Job For Venting About Manager To A Coworker https://www.blogonian.com/guess-who-got-fired-from-subway-guy-goes-viral-after-losing-his-job-for-venting-about-manager-to-a-coworker https://www.blogonian.com/guess-who-got-fired-from-subway-guy-goes-viral-after-losing-his-job-for-venting-about-manager-to-a-coworker Life continues to happen, despite the best wishes of managers worldwide, so a good boss will find ways to make time for those periods when a worker might be struggling. And a bad boss might be defined by the ways they don’t accommodate an employee with out-of-work problems.

An ex-Subway worker shared his anger at being terminated for speaking poorly about his manager to a coworker in a TikTok that went viral. This was the result of a buildup of grievances after his cat got seriously ill and he requested time off to take care of it. As usual with power-tripping managers, nothing was as easy as it should have been.
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Managers often spend too much time thinking about working hours and forget that employees have lives as well

Image credits: Shane Raynor (not the actual photo)

“Guess who got fired from Subway”

Listen to this s**t. It’s crazy, y’all won’t believe it. My cat Garfield, you guys know he’s sick, he got diagnosed with AIDS about a month ago, so it’s very very unfortunate, but he’s still trying to pull through, still trying to make the best life that he can.

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It all started a month and a half ago. I called off one of my shifts. I called off a couple days in advance. It’s cool, right? I got my shift covered. No problem, at all. Two weeks later go by, I go into work, Emily calls me around 10 o’clock saying “Garfield is very sick. He looks like he’s not doing good whatsoever. He can’t even get up. He can’t walk.” I’m at work, I’m like, “Oh s**t,” so I’m trying to find coverage.

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I asked my manager if I can leave early. I didn’t find coverage, but she allowed me to leave early. But get this – before I walked out and left early, she looked at me and said “Just like Austin said though, this is the second time you’ve called off in two weeks over a cat.” Keep that in mind. Okay. I blew it off my shoulder, Garfield’s more important than arguing over a dumb b****.

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So fast forward all the way to two days ago. I go into work again. Same thing. Emily calls me around 9, 10 o’clock in the morning, saying “Babe, Garfield is tremoring, he’s actually shaking. He’s doing way worse than before.” He won’t move, every time she touches him he’s screaming in agony, he’s in so much pain. I start crying, I start getting freaked out at work and I call the vet instantly and say “Hey, I’m trying to leave work early, I’m gonna get him in ASAP.” They said “Yeah, bring him in. But by the sound of it, don’t get your hopes up. He might not make it.” That’s what the vet said. You do not understand the amount of stress that put on me as soon as I heard that.

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So I’m kind of freaking out a little bit and I’m trying to call off of work. I message the huge Subway group chat around our district that has everybody in the group chat, people that’s not even at my location. Like, people are in it from out-of-town locations. So I’m like, “Something very urgent has came up. Can somebody please come in from now until four and cover the rest of my shift? I would greatly appreciate it.” Tell me why my manager messages me personally and says “I should have been your first notification.” I said, “No,” but this is what her little “rule” is. When you call off, you gotta find coverage and then let your management know after. After! This is what I messaged word for word.

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She replied back with “Ok” – had nothing else to say. I’m pi**ed. When she sent me that message, we’re going back and forth. I’m ranting to her little f**king puppy dog. I didn’t know that she was telling her everything in the book. Get it – I’m ranting with her, so me and this girl that I’m working with at the moment are cool. Like, she even asked me, “You aren’t mad at me, right Pres?” and I’m like “No, you haven’t done anything wrong to me.”

So I’m ranting with her about what my manager just texted me, I’m pi**ed, so in the middle of ranting I said a few slurs but it was nothing like intent— I was just mad. And I kind of slammed the proofer door shut because I was putting bread into the proofer. I got little upset because everything is making me emotional right now. So I slammed the proofer door shut.

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30 minutes later, my manager comes storming in the door. First thing she says to me: “Clock out. Leave, now.” She’s pi**ed. I’m making a sandwich, she looks over at my employee and says, “You finish that sandwich right now, he’s clocking out.” Little did I know, the employee that I was working with had just called her and said that I’m scaring her, to get here because she’s terrified. Guess me slamming the door and cussing was scaring her. I was just ranting to her. I say “f**k that.” I didn’t even say deuces or nothing. I walked right out the door. You want me to go, I’m gonna go. A cat is more important.

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Fast forward, I take Garfield to the vet, then I go into work yesterday, which was the next day after I just had the whole ordeal. As soon as I pulled into the parking lot I see nothing but trouble. All the big boss’s vehicles are there, my manager’s vehicle, the employees – I knew it was bad. Unfortunately. I walk in to go straight to the back and clock in, and then I hear “Preston.”

I’m like, “Oh f**k.” So I turned around and they’re both sitting right there in the booth. He points at the seat in front of him, right next to Austin, and says “Take a seat,” and then he asks, “How are you doing?” And I was like “I’m doing, I’m doing, bro.” And get this – it’s just the two district managers at that booth.

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My manager, my store manager, is hiding in the back avoiding everything. He proceeds to ask, “What happened yesterday?” I said “I have nothing to say, bro. Everybody around here is a hypocrite.” Word for word. That’s all I had to say. They asked why I was yelling slurs and slamming stuff yesterday, I said “What do you mean? I wasn’t just yelling slurs, I was ranting, and I didn’t just slam things around. I just slammed the proofer door shut once.”

So then he tells me “That’s why your manager came in yesterday, because your employee was scared of you yelling and slamming [stuff].” That’s how I figured out why my manager came in. She didn’t come in to cover me, she came in because my other employee felt “threatened.” Yeah, makes sense to feel threatened by me. This was my reaction to it: “Are you serious? She felt threatened? Okay, okay.” Anyways, I was letting them know how stressful it’s been and how nobody understands and Austin was like “We understand.” I look at him – I was like “You did not just say that. You’re the last person that should say that, bro.”

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And remember Austin’s sitting next to me. I’m talking same booth, shoulder to shoulder. I asked him “Just like Katie said, ‘just like Austin said, it’s just a cat.’ What the f**k does that mean, bro?”

He looked back at me and said, word for word, “Preston, I totally understand that you’re upset right now.” That right there? That proved to me and it pi**ed me off. After that, I just cut to the chase, looked at both of them and said “So what’s the word, bro? Am I fired? What am I doing here?” He said, “Yeah, we’re gonna have to terminate you.”

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I was like “Yeah, screw that.” I went to get up and walk out, no question about it. They were like, “Whoa, wait, we need your key.” Oh my god. I was struggling to get it off my keychain. So I walk to the very back behind the counter, where we make sandwiches. I grabbed a knife, and I bet they were like, “What the f**k is he doing?” I got it pried off and walk up to the table, sat it down, slid it towards them, walked out, no question about it.

They were like “Wait, wait, wait, Preston! Come here, man! Come here, man! Come here, man!” They had the audacity to tell me “Wendy’s next door, their management is hiring.” I said “No. F**k that. I don’t even want that.” They were like “You don’t want it?” They were like, “Alright man. Well, we wish you the best of luck. Have a good day. Take care.” I was like, “Yep, have a good one.” And I just walked out, that was it.

You can watch the full video here

@prestonwalker__ I Got Fired From Subway OVER THIS?! What an ABSOLUTE JOKE of a job!????????‍♂️ #prestontalks #subwaypreston ♬ original sound – Preston Walker

Fast-food management is notorious for its mistreatment of employees

As many of the comments showed, fast food is rife with managers who act like they are running a warship at sea, not a smallish restaurant for cheap eats. Most fast-food restaurants are franchises, which come with their own set of difficulties for management, and unfortunately, it’s the employees who take the brunt of the “damage.” First and foremost, these leaders are appointed by owners who mostly just see the restaurant through the lens of cash flow. The only metric is “Are we making enough money?” Managers are chosen almost exclusively by this criteria, so it’s not too surprising that they would disregard employee feelings so easily.

Unfortunately, the fast-food industry has a stigma of being a place for entry-level workers, high-schoolers getting some pocket cash, or people without skills. This has not been true for a long time, but this image is still likely what many owners have in mind. So employee retention is pretty low on the list of priorities. The (predictable) result has been the “great resignation,” where thousands of workers have quit their jobs due to satisfactory conditions, treatment, or a slew of other issues. Management, typically, has not caught up to this problem, and stores all over are suddenly hit with labor shortages. This puts pressure on the remaining workers, who are then more likely to quit instead of doing more labor for the same wage.

In the long run, OP might get the last laugh

This is little comfort for OP who lost his job in a trying time, but in the long run, he will probably be vindicated. Employee morale at his old store is not likely to be high, after all his ex-coworkers see that time off for a sick, beloved pet is nonexistent and that one can be fired just for venting. It would not be surprising if this particular Subway continues to bleed workers, putting more and more pressure on the existing employee, until it finally falls apart and the power-tripping manager is left to explain why his or her store now makes no money to an owner who won’t care about their excuses.

Commenters shared similar stories of unreasonable managers and empathized with OP

The post “Guess Who Got Fired From Subway”: Guy Goes Viral After Losing His Job For Venting About Manager To A Coworker first appeared on Bored Panda.

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Mon, 29 May 2023 12:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
88 Of The Funniest Animal Memes To Put A Smile On Your Face, As Shared By “Obsessed With Animals” https://www.blogonian.com/88-of-the-funniest-animal-memes-to-put-a-smile-on-your-face-as-shared-by-obsessed-with-animals https://www.blogonian.com/88-of-the-funniest-animal-memes-to-put-a-smile-on-your-face-as-shared-by-obsessed-with-animals The world we live in wouldn’t be that great without animals. While we believe we are the ones dominating it, the truth is that animals bring incomparable beauty, warmth and laughter to our daily lives. At the same time, they are kinda weird and funny, making us try to figure out their behavior or just simply chuckle at their shenanigans. 

Our animal admirers here at Bored Panda have collected the funniest and most adorable animal memes shared by an Imgur account called “Obsessed With Animals”. As the owner of the page introduced herself, she is a girl from Denmark “who loves animals”. As do we!

So, without further ado, take a look at this chucklesome collection of our crazy friends. Don’t forget to upvote your favorite images and let us know your thoughts in the comments!

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Mon, 29 May 2023 12:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
95 Of The World’s Most Useless, Unsuccessful And/Or Unpopular Signs (New Pics) https://www.blogonian.com/95-of-the-worlds-most-useless-unsuccessful-andor-unpopular-signs-new-pics https://www.blogonian.com/95-of-the-worlds-most-useless-unsuccessful-andor-unpopular-signs-new-pics Occasionally, however, we are lucky enough to stumble upon signs that are so poorly made, their primary goal seems to be simply entertaining us. Lucky for us, the Facebook group Useless, Unsuccessful, and/or Unpopular Signage catalogs all of these terrible signs from around the world, so below, you’ll find some of the gems group members have recently shared. Enjoy viewing these pics, and be sure to upvote the signs you can’t believe actually exist!

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What is it about making signs that proves to be so challenging? Typically, there’s a clear message that needs to be communicated, and in theory, it’s easy to get it across. “No parking.” “No dogs allowed.” “Deer cross here.” “Out of order.” Yet for some unknown reason, sign makers across the globe seem to have trouble getting their point across often, and we thank them for their terrible service at their jobs. Because now we get to enjoy all of these hilarious signs! 

The Useless, Unsuccessful, and/or Unpopular Signage Facebook group has been around since February 20, 2021, and it has a simple mission statement: “This group is for bad/dumb/down right stupid signage found anywhere.” That’s all the group needs though, as it has amassed 6.3 thousand members in the past couple of years and continues to grow all the time. 214 new members have been added in the past week! So if you’re looking for a place to find comically bad signs, we highly recommend joining. And even if you’re not very active on Facebook, you can enjoy some of the best finds from the page right here!

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We’re big fans of Useless, Unsuccessful, and/or Unpopular Signage here at Bored Panda, so this isn’t our first time covering the group. And the last time we featured this hilarious community, we were lucky enough to get in touch with Jerome Davis, one of the group's administrators. Jerome was kind enough to have a chat with us and explain how the page began in the first place. 

“UUUs got started, honestly, after another group got a little too pushy and was kicking people out for silly reasons, and sometimes for no reason at all,” he shared.

And when it comes to why group members love these silly signs so much, Jerome says, “Many just think it’s funny to see how laziness and carelessness becomes immortalized in signage!”

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Jerome also provided some insight into what the Useless, Unsuccessful, and/or Unpopular Signage community is like. “We’re a friendly group managed by a handful of friends,” he previously told Bored Panda. “We don’t do the hateful stuff and try hard not to ‘ban hammer’ if we can help it. Most are fairly active with membership from across the globe.”

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We also asked Jerome if he had any personal favorite UUU signs. “Stupid road signs and shop signs are hands down the best!” he shared. And finally, the administrator noted that he’s always on the lookout for new signs to share with the group as well. “All the time!" he says. "It’s a challenge to find new ones.” Something tells me this article will inspire others to start keeping their eyes peeled for hilarious signs as well.

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In a previous Bored Panda article, we were lucky enough to get in touch with CEO of the South Carolina-based company The Sign Chef, Tim Harrelson. Tim, the Sign Chef himself, was kind enough to have a chat with us about why great signage is so important. “Between the physical world and the online world, the competition for attention is at an all time high,” he shared. “Simultaneously, attention spans seem to be at an all time low. Our senses are constantly being bombarded! Moving forward, organizations need to be strategic in how the content is displayed on their signs.”

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The Sign Chef also explained his company’s process for designing the best signs. “Most graphic designers start with the size of the sign - then the lettering & graphics are added. Think backwards," Tim explained. "A more strategic approach can be taken by having the design reverse engineered for maximum impact. This design strategy starts with the viewing distance. How far away does your target audience need to be able to read the sign?”

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“Once the distance is measured, a Letter Sizing Calculator can be used to scientifically determine the very best letter sizes,” Tim continued. “As an example, what is the best letter size if the viewing distance is 110 feet? When you type 110 feet into the calculator, you’ll instantly see 22 inches is recommended for maximum impact - easy.”

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Tim also shared about some of the most amazing signs him and his team have had the pleasure of creating. “We recently created the World’s Largest Dibond Sign Display for Mahopac High School in New York,” he shared with pride. In his email to me, Tim attached a photo of the impressive sign that looks easily over 15 feet tall, featuring the school’s logo of a massive M with an arrow across it. He also shared a beautiful retro, flashing neon sign to go on Route 66 advertising Eufloria dispensary in Oklahoma. 

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Are you feeling inspired to be on the lookout for all of the poorly made signs you can find around you now, pandas? I’m sure if you keep your eyes peeled, you’re certain to stumble on some terrible spelling or questionable messages. We hope you’re enjoying these pics, and please remember to keep upvoting all of your favorites! Then, if you’re interested in checking out Bored Panda’s last article featuring this hilarious Facebook group dedicated to useless, unsuccessful and/or unpopular signage, you can find it right here!

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30 Unbelievably Strange Encounters With Random Strangers That These People Still Can’t Believe https://www.blogonian.com/30-unbelievably-strange-encounters-with-random-strangers-that-these-people-still-cant-believe https://www.blogonian.com/30-unbelievably-strange-encounters-with-random-strangers-that-these-people-still-cant-believe Most of the memories that stick with us are of pivotal moments in our lives, perhaps getting that job that kickstarted your career or the day you met your soulmate. However, memories are a fickle thing and some people have the unfortunate experience of meeting a stranger so horrible that they still carry the story with them. 

An internet user, out of morbid curiosity no doubt, wanted to hear other’s worst experiences with total strangers. And people delivered, with stories ranging from bizarre to downright terrifying. So be warned, some potential unpleasantness ahead. If you do stay, be sure to upvote your favorite (however you choose to interpret that) and share your own stories in the comments. 

#1

Me, a child: playing with toys in Walmart

a random stranger: "I'd like you to play with my little boy toy."

My Dad, just on the other end, watching me doesn't say a word to the man just grabs him and throws him across the aisle. Then screams out, "If you want to play with him. You're gonna have to play with me first!"

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#2

When I started 3rd grade, I transferred to a new school. The school I went to prior was an abnormally small private catholic school. I think they only had about 5 teachers and under 30 students total. This school was so small, the cafeteria doubled as an art classroom. With the size of the school, it was also very protected. Everyone in the school was friends with each other. There were no such things as bullies, because everyone's parents were friends, and those parents were also great friends of the teachers. Aside from the occasional pre-pubescent children nagging and whining amongst ourselves and outbursts that young kids have, it was pretty great of an atmosphere.


When I got to my new school on the first day, which was a public school in Pittsburgh. I was so out of my element it was insane. I couldn't comprehend why everyone wore different clothes, why there were so many people, why the teachers were so brash and somewhat aggressive. Nobody seemed friendly, nothing made sense. It was a total culture shock.

Fast forward to lunch, they announced they had a salad bar. This was the most normal part of the day for me, because at my old school we usually had lunches like salad bars. I made a few acquaintances prior to lunch which gave me tremendous relief as the biggest worry I had that day was wondering if i'd have to eat lunch by myself or with a table of people i dont know. Me and the two other kids at the time made it through the lunch line and got to the salad bar. I started to fix up my tray with the most wonderful salad a kid could ask for - lettuce, ranch, croutons, bacon bits. As soon as i turned away from the salad bar, a very tall and lanky girl with zany pigtails in braids just stood in front of me and practically made sure i would "accidentally" walk right into her. The obvious outcome; My tray collided with her tray, which sent the salad flying, covering her mostly in ranch dressing. I lost all of my salad, and everyone was f*****g chuckling about it. She decided to start crying and it went from bad to even worse, because i had the teachers rush over to me and grab me by my arm and drag me to the principles office.

I got yelled at for about 10 minutes and was told that my first impression was certainly not a good one, and the girl had to have her parents come in and bring her a change of clothes. Nobody would listen to my side of the story, and this idiot told everyone that i threw my salad at her so she would "get out of my way". I never met this girl in my life, i didnt even know she existed prior to her sabotaging me and making me go hungry. When i explained that it was an accident, they would retort with "how? You saw her standing there".

I sat in the office, starving, crying, and scared that my mom would beat my a*s. She came down to the school shortly after, and this was the light at the end of the tunnel. The principle takes her into her office, and i start to hear yelling. I start crying harder, because now momma is in trouble... but then i realized the yelling wasnt from the principle, it was my mom. My mom went the f**k off on the principle. I heard things such as "It's his first day, do you really think he would throw his f*****g salad in her face?" and "How dare you not let my son eat?!"


My mom took me home, got me mcdonalds, and i lived in total fear for the rest of 3rd grade. Mom cant always be there to save me, but goddamnit mom... you f*****g killed it.

Happy mothers day.

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My grandmother was at the movies, and a guy walked up the aisle and punched her on the side of the head. He told the cops he was mad because he was on a bad blind date. Like...great excuse to wallop a 75-year-old woman minding her own business?

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Unfortunately, there are people out there who are somehow entirely blind to social norms and will flagrantly break them without a thought. In a few cases, this could be simple ignorance or lack of ability to read social cues. Everyone knows someone who is probably well-meaning but ends up being downright annoying to be around. 

But many of the cases listed here go much further than, say, a loud belch at a dinner table or an awkward question about one’s love life. These encounters veer into downright antisocial behavior, which at “best” are a nuisance and at worst, could be seen as a crime. Traditionally, this is seen as part of a personality disorder, but more contemporary psychologists believe it could, instead, be a result of certain issues in upbringing. 

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I work in retail and once a customer jiggled my belly and said 'I see the diet stuff doesn't work here' I know it doesn't seem much but I keep comeing back to it. It was just so IDK invasive?

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Back in the '70s, I was riding in a car that my best friend's mother was driving on a highway. There was me, my friend, her brother, and a couple of other kids in the car. The age range for the kids was about 7 to 9 years old. It was a warm day, and my friend's mother had her window rolled down (no air conditioning). A car full of teenagers pulled alongside of her, and someone threw a full cup of ice water through the window at her. I got hit by it, too, because I was sitting in the front seat next to her. She managed not to lose control of the car. In retrospect, it was incredibly fucked up to try and cause a lady with a car full of kids to crash.

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A guy sneezed in my face on the subway, and after s******g on him verbally he just shrugged and made it out to be no big deal. Since i couldnt do anything but verbally abuse him i left to find another seat. 2 days later i almost reachter 41 degrees.... Havent been sick like that my whole life. Literally and figuratively. Im still wearing masks in subs cuz of this s**t.

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The generally accepted cause of antisocial behavior is upbringing or a lack thereof. This is a sort of double-edged sword, as it lets us pinpoint how to prevent it, but unfortunately, it offers little hope for people who are already adults. The upside is the policymakers, social workers and just people who live in a community can all do their part to help, but it also means they generally have to suffer at the hands of existing, antisocial adults. 

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I was about 11 and me and some friends were standing on a small bridge over a lake. All of a sudden I was picked up and thrown over the railing into the lake below. I tried to grab onto anything I could as I fell and scrapped my arms up pretty good. I still have scars 30 years later. So I swim to the side and some older kid comes up to me and just say - sorry, I thought you were someone else.

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I was in London on business and my hotel was hosting a Christmas party for a bunch of Russians also there on business. I was sitting at the bar by myself and one of the Russian women invited me to sit with her and her friends. Her table had her, three other women and two men. I don’t speak Russian but they were all very nice and welcoming to me. The woman sitting across from me was passed out drunk with her head on the table. No one paid any attention to her. After 30 minutes me and the woman who invited me were flirting pretty good. Suddenly the drunk woman sits up straight, points at me, scowls and begins yelling what obviously were Russian swear words. She does this for about a minute while the rest of us just stare at her and say nothing. Then she plops her head back down on the table and goes to sleep. I asked everyone collectively “what was that all about?” One of the guys replied “she doesn’t know why you are sitting with us, she hates you and she called your mother some very bad names. But don’t pay her any attention, she’s a crazy Russian. We’re happy to party with an American.

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Complimented my penis. I was at a camp shower at a campground. I was around 12 some random guy walked in and just stared at me and watched me take a shower making weird small talk. This was the late 70's, early 80's. Kids werent special yet and we basically were raised you just be polite to adults so I was "yes sir" and "no sir" the creep. The Adam Walsh TV movie changed all of that and parents were like, hey, maybe we should watch our kids a little bit? He didn't rape me so I guess that's a plus.

The rapid social changes brought on by technology have made it hard to track exactly what stimulus ends up causing kids to start behaving poorly. In the age of regular TV consumption, some studies found that for every additional hour of TV a teen watched, the risk of them exhibiting some antisocial behavior rose by roughly 30%. However, as most parents now know, young people aren’t really watching hours and hours of TV, but it’s unclear if, say, video games or streaming has the same effect as TV used to. 

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Dude parked his 18 wheeler in the middle of the road and started walking into Dunkin Donuts. I told him to move his truck, and the guy ran to my car and started punching my drivers window calling me a “f*****g liberal pussy”. Then he stopped and rubbed his hand in pain and I pointed and laughed at him and said “Try the other hand now!” He said something else I didn’t hear because I was still laughing and he walked away. Cops came and gave the guy a summons and made him move the truck.

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Sit next to me on the bus when there's a single seat on the other side

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I was sitting at a cafe with my then partner. A man came up to our table, held finger guns at my temple and whispered "I wish I f*****g could." And then yanked my hair and rushed out. It was completely unprovoked. I've technically had more violent and scary things happen to me, but that's stuck with me for a really long time. I think it's because I had been having a lovely day until that point. I was so excited to be sitting in a cute cafe, eating pie with my date. And now I can't get the image of her face falling as she looked at the man out of my head. We went home after that.

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It’s not fair, however, to pin all the blame on media. Media only raise a child if the parents are absent in some form, which might be a more significant trigger than, say, Cartoon Network or Minecraft. Even more significantly, parental abuse is pretty closely tied with the victim “passing on” the abuse to another, creating a spiraling cycle of violence and bad behavior. Even smaller things, like poor nutrition and poverty, can cause an environment where normal social behavior is not learned, leading to the sorts of adults we see in these stories. 

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Some asshole tossed a lock (like the combination type) out of a car at me and hit me in the knee. I had trouble walking correctly for a month. I always thought if they had stopped at a light, I'd have hurled that bitch right back (good thing they didn't — I wasn't in any condition for a fight)

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I was with 2 of my friends walking out of a Walmart at 10pm. I was about 17/18 years old at the time. Some dude came out and full on made out with me. Just beelined for me and grabed the back of my head and proceeded to kiss me for about 30 seconds. I froze, my friends froze and then he ran off laughing. We stood there in disbelief for a minute or two. I went home and brushed my teeth repeatedly. F*****g strange and very invasive.

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One time I was in south Philly and a car pulled up with two guys in it. They called out to me asking for directions so I walked over. As I was explaining where to go the dude in the passenger seat spit in my face and they sped off.

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There are also some genetic factors that ultimately might lead to people behaving in ways that others find annoying or downright horrible. The bottom line is that antisocial behavior, ultimately, needs to be cut off at the source. This means that all of us have to look for ways to help dysfunctional families, to make sure children can live in a safe environment and that psychological help like Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is available to those in need. 

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I'm gay and my husband and I married in the rotunda of the courthouse. As we said I do and kissed a group of Mennonite kids started spitballing us and throwing stuff down at us. Hit the judge too. It was a really crappy way to remember our wedding. No witnesses, just us which is how we wanted - but then what was essentially a hate crime. The children's parents were amused.

My husband chased down security and they had it on video. Security stopped the family and then asked my husband if he wanted to prosecute. I was turning in our marriage certificate at that moment so I wasn't there to threaten 'yes'. My husband said no of course. I didn't want to really prosecute, but I wanted to put some fear in them.

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I had just recently got my driver's license. I was driving down a back road going the speed limit (55) and I was the only car on the road. When I checked my mirror a few seconds later, a red car was directly on my a*s, so close I couldn't see his front plate. He began slowing down and speeding towards the back end of my car repeatedly. After a few minutes, he sped past me in a no passing zone and started brake checking me (speeding up and slamming his brakes to try getting me to hit him). After a minute or so of that, he slammed his brakes and we both came to a full stop. He got out of his vehicle and started pounding on the driver's side window screaming and cursing me out before getting back in his car and speeding off. I pulled over and stayed there for a few minutes to insure he was long gone before proceeding...

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Punched me, for no reason. I was standing. Waiting for the community bus. A stranger got out of the car and punched me. I filed the Police report but nothing happened.

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#19

I work at a hotel as a housekeeper. Yesterday we had a baseball team checking out and I had a bunch of their rooms on my list. The rooms were reasonably messy, nothing too bad. But the last room…they trashed the place. Trash thrown everywhere and hidden in some places, food ground into the carpet, p**s on the bathroom floor, greasy hand prints on the windows and mirrors. The whole shebang. This was s****y, sure, but what made it f****d up was how they tipped me. They dragged a chair into the middle of the room, faced it towards the door, and left a stack of fake hundred dollar bills in the seat in plain sight.

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I was waiting for my girlfriend at the bus terminal in order to go to her home to meet her parents for the 1st time. This one random old dude aproaches me, askes me about the boat schedules (it's a boat and bus terminal), and I'm happy to help him out. Since it's still a while for the next boat and it takes a while for my girlfriend to arrive, the dude keeps talking to me and I didn't mind about it and was having a conversation with him. He asks me for a cigarette (I don't smoke) and offers me a beer (I don't drink). Out of the blue he asks me "Do you want to go to my house while you wait for your girlfriend?". I'm like "Is this dude hitting on me or something? wtf..." and try my best to be polite and shut down and move away from him because it was getting a bit unconfortable. Not long after, the bus is arriving and I use it as an excuse to gtfo of the conversation. By my face my GF can tell that something happened and I tell her wtf just happened and when I look back to tell her who the dude was, the dude just vanished like a ghost. I'm even more confused by this. Next thing I know, she's describing me the old dude "Is the man you talked to like this and that, and wearing this and that?" and I'm like "Yeah, how do you know?" and she blank stares at me "That's my dad and he's right there". Not a bad f****d up thing, but f****d up to do to an unsuspecting person in a stressing situation like meeting your SOs parents for the 1st time. In his defense tho, he did make a joke when we "officially" met and said "Well, we're going to my house after all!"

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I was walking in a mall with my sister and this really huge guy walked past me and as he walked past he basically groped me down there. I'm a female for reference. I asked wtf really loudly and looked back and he just kept walking on and didn't look back. I wasn't sure what to make of that situation.

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Got a phone call from my wife’s number, it was a random dude telling me my wife ran a red light and got t-boned. Kept saying “yeah she really f****d up man.”

It was the guy that t-boned her. He ran the red light. He was inebriated. I rushed over to the address he gave me, cops and ambulance and everything. They let the guy drive off in his smashed up truck. No insurance. F*****g prick.

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#23

Pulled her pants halfway down her butt and asked me to check the size on her underwear.

I hated being a cashier.

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I was walking home pretty late one night and noticed one of my new neighbors walking up towards me from the opposite end of the street. As we were passing each other I said a friendly hello- in response this grown man silently turned his a*s towards me and let out the most repulsive, bombastic fart I’ve ever heard. I was too shocked to speak, to move, to defend myself. He didn’t even say anything, just calmly walked into his house afterwards. As far as I’m aware he still lives there, and I’ve never gotten an explanation lmao

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#25

Stopped at a red light one time. Someone from a building adjacent to the light threw a bag of ice and water on my car, from a few stories up. Dented the roof and shattered the windshield.

Wasn't even a nice car, I was driving a Dodge neon shitbox

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Put "something" in both my gf and my drinks. Probably GHB.

Something kicked in and I managed to get us home. Don't remember how.

We are actually lucky to still be alive after that. Put me off concerts for a long time.

Was even weirder that it happened at a metal gig.

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Walking home from school when I was a kid.

Two boys I never met before were behind me and threw a rock straight into the middle of my back for no reason. All I remember is them laughing about it and approaching me telling to try something so they could beat me and impress the girl who was with them.

The other thing was being randomly shot.

I'm not sure which is worse but those aren't the worst things to ever happen to me, just the worst things done by strangers.

#28

Stole a piece of chicken from my plate as I was eating at the counter of a restaurant in NYC. Seems funny now ?

#29

First day of senior year I held the door open for someone. As he walks in he goes, “thanks. Your hair’s gay btw” and I’ve never forgotten that.

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Tapped me on the shoulder in a club and when I turned around, he headbutted me with all his might. Before I could even process what had happened, two bouncers had a hold of him, dragging him outside.

I was just stood there, dazed and confused with my nose pissing blood everywhere - then I was lead into a room by one of the bouncers and given tissues to stop my nose bleeding. He said to me that the guy had struck one of their guys on the way out and the police were going to arrest him if I wanted to talk to them. Automatically said no, not wanting to be a grass (snitch).

I never left my feet and my nose wasn't broken, so it wasn't really *that* big a deal - but it lives rent free in my head because I don't know who it was or why he did it.

I seen his face momentarily and didn't recognise him, and as such wouldn't be able to pick him out a crowd now. I wasn't dancing with any girls as I was already with my now Fiancé and very happy, so I didn't make moves on his girlfriend or love interest. Me and my friends keep ourselves to ourselves and aren't involved in any beefs or anything. I wasn't stumbling drunk, so couldn't have barged into him or spilled his drink or anything.

My best theory is mistaken identity. I look like my Brother and he and his crowd are a bit more nefarious. Either that or he just thought I was someone else completely.

Why did you headbutt me Mr Stranger!?

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50 Times People Didn’t Think Their Message Through And It Resulted In These Fails (New Pics) https://www.blogonian.com/50-times-people-didnt-think-their-message-through-and-it-resulted-in-these-fails-new-pics https://www.blogonian.com/50-times-people-didnt-think-their-message-through-and-it-resulted-in-these-fails-new-pics Brevity! Clarity! Proper kerning (that’s the spacing between letters)! And no silly business with the fonts! At their core, signs are supposed to impart the biggest amount of information in the least amount of time. That sounds simple enough on paper (pun intended), but not everyone manages to rise to the challenge.

They follow through with their [cough] artistic vision [cough] and the result is a hot mess of utterly illegible chaos. The worst of the bunch end up being featured on the r/dontdeadopeninside subreddit, an online community that is dedicated to nonsense signs if read normally. We’ve collected some of their best posts to share with you. Scroll down, but be careful—if you’re a fan of order, you might end up facepalming way too much.

#1 We Stand With No Standing Ukraine

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#2 Asia Rden Ensb Vgio Ocko

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#3 Left No Turn Right Only Turn

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The r/dontdeadopeninside subreddit has been up and running for nearly a decade, all the way since mid-2014. Since then, the community has grown to encompass over 681k members from all over the world.

The name of the group is rooted in the hit TV series, ‘The Walking Dead,’ which had a promotional poster that had the words ‘Don’t Open’ on one half of the chained doors and ‘Dead Inside’ on the other. When read from left to right, due to the weird spacing, the message becomes ‘Don’t Dead Open Inside’ instead of the intended ‘Don’t Open Dead Inside.’

#4 You If Going Lost You’re Me Together Get Can’t Know Don’t

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#5 Love Is Watching & Watching Someone Someone Die Is Hard

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#6 Honk Ha Against Te

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According to Know Your Meme, ‘Don’t Dead Open Inside’ is one of the most well-recognized examples of messages that aren’t read as they should be because there’s no instantly-recognizable, clear way to tell what order the words ought to be in. It takes a moment to really get the message, by which time the impact the sign could have had is lost.

The meme spread on Twitter in 2010 as more and more people started realizing this. Throughout the next few years, internet users started coming up with memes and jokes based on this. Eventually, this led to the creation of r/dontdeadopeninside in 2014, which continues to be very popular to this day.

#7 Ly Paer Soils Ca

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#8 Jesus Save Can Even You

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#9 Go Citd Wals!

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There are a few main rules that the members of the DDOI community ought to follow. “Signs must be read correctly top to bottom, and incorrectly left to right, like any text usually. Though it does not matter how easily you can read them, it is highly encouraged to only post images with little separation or spacing between the columns of words,” the moderator team running the group explains.

#10 Satan Jesus Is Is Defeated Lord! [oc]

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#11 Redshe Neckshed

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#12 The Tim Hoe Use

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Meanwhile, redditors are encouraged to be original with their content: reposting the most popular pics of all time or signs from the last 4 months isn’t tolerated. Your posts might end up getting removed. Moreover, signs that have been staged or faked also have no place on this sub. Finally, internet users are asked to be civil to each other and to put the wrong way to read the message in the titles of their posts.

#13 Sophisticated Ho

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#14 Eggmnnaeet

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#15 Noki Parng

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As we’ve covered on Bored Panda previously, clarity and brevity are absolutely vital when creating signs. Essentially, you only have a moment to get your message across. So if you cause even the slightest amount of confusion, you’ve basically negated the whole point of your sign, and it's best to start over.

#16 Feed Animals School Kids Parties Groups

Image credits: Mineral_myco_medic

#17 The Love Is Sweeter Of Than Any Jesus Candy!

Image credits: baggymaggie

#18 Hot Sharp Water Needles!!

Image credits: dkreidler

What really helps avoid these errors is being patient and diligent. First of all, you need to put in the time and care to create the best possible version of the sign possible, along with a few alternatives. Then, take a break, come back to your design, and look at it with fresh eyes. You’re bound to see things very differently than when you’re face-deep into drafting the sign.

#19 You Give Chances Kid Voice Are

Image credits: The_missing_link_69

#20 We Hold That All Man, These Truths, And Women To Be, Are Created Self-Evident... Equal

Image credits: 5W1TCHY

#21 Wildphot Lifeography

Image credits: sta015

Secondly, you should definitely take the time to show your design to a few different people, whether they’re your relatives, close friends, coworkers, or—heck—even some passersby on the street. You’re essentially conducting a bit of research with tiny focus groups. They might catch a silly mistake you left in or might end up interpreting the entire sign very differently than you intended. It’s better to deal with a dash of embarrassment now than tons of it later.

#22 Burger Better Cause Maker You Built It

Image credits: Whatabeezy

#23 Always Forgotten Remembered Never

Image credits: godhatesanna

#24 Do Not Thanks; Turn Off Randy

Image credits: jabe25

If you’re working on a very important project, you might want to consider hiring some professionals to help you, instead of doing everything yourself. Find a designer with a decent reputation to flesh out some of your ideas. Meanwhile, consider getting in touch with a proofreader or editor as well. We all make silly mistakes from time to time, and it helps to have a real pro in your corner.

#25 Pine Man Apple Go Nada Nada

Image credits: Reckless-Ambition

#26 Ever Ythin Gisa B Rt E Kind

Image credits: Cuddha

#27 I Don't Know Why Everyone Has Been Complaining. My Cage Large Eggs Have Been Very Affordable

Image credits: derydoca

The fact is that if you just wing it, you might end up losing your audience or potential customers. The more fluent your font is, the clearer your message. And vice versa! How trustworthy and likable you and your business are depends a lot on how you brand everything. Ideally, everything should be as legible as possible. With a focus on readable fonts, good kerning, and an overall design that focuses people’s attention where you want it to.

#28 Dream Work Stay Big Hard Kind X.x

Image credits: OutOfDutchGaming

#29 Tog Tog Eth Eth Er! Er!

Image credits: Papa-Palps

#30 Love, Askv, Grsenofr? Ihty

Image credits: TheMoonMoth

Here at Bored Panda, we’re very big fans of poorly designed signs—we can’t get enough of these trainwrecks! As such, we’ve featured the genius of r/dontdeadopeninside time and again. If you’d like to see some more chaotic signs that are definitely going to be misinterpreted, check out our earlier lists here and here, as well as here and here.

#31 Trees Trees Warn Have Fellow Musical Trees Taste

Image credits: miguelgts2

#32 Artcolumbůs Makes Makes Columbusart

Image credits: svgcbbg

#33 Drinks Ice Sorry We Machine

Image credits: risingsky111

#34 Time Spent Second With Family Is Worthevery

Image credits: a_pinch_of_sarcasm

#35 Pibu Zzarger

Image credits: Directorshaggy

#36 Never Always Open Look

Image credits: phurt77

#37 Waste Energy Today Tomorrow

Image credits: amberarah

#38 Hot Makes Me Want A Dog

Image credits: cjoll4

#39 My Religion Is My Religion. Very Simple Is Kindness

Image credits: Get-Wrecked-By-Shrek

#40 Scan Me To View Our Nu

Image credits: aak2137

#41 He She Asked Said 10-4

Image credits: Biblegrill

#42 I'm ?on Stuck You!

Image credits: flopsychops

#43 I Love The Sound When You Make Up Shut

Image credits: McDudles

#44 Holo Meve

Image credits: philpsy26

#45 It’s Hard To Be When Humble You’re From Texas

Image credits: _Skum

#46 At Least Irma It Ain't Ian 17 Snowin 22

Image credits: Richie311

#47 Eng English Lish Gram Grammar Mar

Image credits: leinad00

#48 Traditional Free Glass Horse Meat Of Wine

Image credits: Ohwait11

#49 You're Like The Now One I

Image credits: phullofit1

#50 Donut Be Happy Worry

Image credits: IFB83

#51 Is The Jesus Reason For The Season?

Image credits: leolacakes

#52 Palm For Trees Sale

Image credits: carbonx

#53 Together Is Together, Powerful You Win

Image credits: haribo2001

#54 We Are No One Dare With You To Harm You

Image credits: yussma

#55 Not Sure If This Has Been Posted Here Already But Yeahh.. Lohovo Vepete

Image credits: synecdokie

#56 Critic The Ink Ersal

Image credits: Reddituser0346

#57 Families Are And It’s Being Forced Not Just To Flee

Image credits: eviltimeban

#58 “Fun” Dasn Riig!

Image credits: AFabulousNarwhal

#59 Cry • Give Up

Image credits: Epacs

#60 Moviforw Ngard

Image credits: myman_soulbrotha

#61 Working Like To Support The Crazy Lazy

Image credits: t-readyroc

#62 Roll Dice The

Image credits: mpmwrites

#63 Red Blood Hot Sugar Chili Sex Peppers Magic

Image credits: experimentalshoes

#64 Vac Cer Cination Tificate

Image credits: WitchBLUNT

#65 You’re Do Not Next Enter

Image credits: ILikeColdSoup

#66 Don’t This Paint Side!

Image credits: HoeDownClown

#67 Lat Ame Tro

Image credits: Noise_Loop

#68 Make No Art War

Image credits: Dogeishuman

#69 Tis It True? His It Hhelpful?

Image credits: G33kyArmy

#70 Mr.mon Lemade

Image credits: oinkpiggyoink

#71 Bang Naruto Head Style Here (At Work)

Image credits: swinkyy_x

#72 Wht Pink Ey

Image credits: jeremy_lrd

#73 Elv Perf Is Ect

Image credits: BurnDivision

#74 Same Same Game Dead Diff Erent Levels Devils

Image credits: EmotionalTeabaggage

#75 Blackwhite Beachbeach

Image credits: fpfx

#76 Why Would Me You Marry For Wanna Anyhow?

Image credits: BABNN

#77 Don’t Do Park Park Here Here

Image credits: tenmillionfreckles

#78 9/11 Was Arrest Treason The Bankers

Image credits: Madcat6679

#79 At Day At Night I’m You’re Your My Angel Slave

Image credits: TypicalYankeeScum

#80 Because I’m Me

Image credits: TiptoeingElephants

#81 Honk You If Fart

Image credits: cyx6six

#82 Cheat Yonur GF Not Yonur Workouts

Image credits: misterecgamer

#83 Great Great Food! People

Image credits: Beantowndreamt0wn

#84 Gas Store Open Is Open

Image credits: iHaruku

#85 Pro Pro Pro Life God Gun

Image credits: theblazingkoala

#86 Xeln Eclet

Image credits: ViddyFanUK

#87 Postal Are Workers Thieves

Image credits: RevDudeistPancake

#88 Work Love Prank Boss Sass Drink Sing Eat

Image credits: papayathemaya

#89 God Save #not The Working My Class King

Image credits: counterc

#90 My Religion Is My Religion, Very Simple Is Kindness

Image credits: kindabllue

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Sun, 28 May 2023 17:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
90 Times People Didn’t Think Their Message Through And It Resulted In These Fails (New Pics) https://www.blogonian.com/90-times-people-didnt-think-their-message-through-and-it-resulted-in-these-fails-new-pics https://www.blogonian.com/90-times-people-didnt-think-their-message-through-and-it-resulted-in-these-fails-new-pics Brevity! Clarity! Proper kerning (that’s the spacing between letters)! And no silly business with the fonts! At their core, signs are supposed to impart the biggest amount of information in the least amount of time. That sounds simple enough on paper (pun intended), but not everyone manages to rise to the challenge.

They follow through with their [cough] artistic vision [cough] and the result is a hot mess of utterly illegible chaos. The worst of the bunch end up being featured on the r/dontdeadopeninside subreddit, an online community that is dedicated to nonsense signs if read normally. We’ve collected some of their best posts to share with you. Scroll down, but be careful—if you’re a fan of order, you might end up facepalming way too much.

#1 Asia Rden Ensb Vgio Ocko

Image credits: acrawf1

#2 We Stand With No Standing Ukraine

Image credits: jaber-allen

#3 Left No Turn Right Only Turn

Image credits: thatrotteneggsmell

The r/dontdeadopeninside subreddit has been up and running for nearly a decade, all the way since mid-2014. Since then, the community has grown to encompass over 681k members from all over the world.

The name of the group is rooted in the hit TV series, ‘The Walking Dead,’ which had a promotional poster that had the words ‘Don’t Open’ on one half of the chained doors and ‘Dead Inside’ on the other. When read from left to right, due to the weird spacing, the message becomes ‘Don’t Dead Open Inside’ instead of the intended ‘Don’t Open Dead Inside.’

#4 You If Going Lost You’re Me Together Get Can’t Know Don’t

Image credits: 1mnotcrying

#5 Love Is Watching & Watching Someone Someone Die Is Hard

Image credits: haevy_mental

#6 Ly Paer Soils Ca

Image credits: igethejoke

According to Know Your Meme, ‘Don’t Dead Open Inside’ is one of the most well-recognized examples of messages that aren’t read as they should be because there’s no instantly-recognizable, clear way to tell what order the words ought to be in. It takes a moment to really get the message, by which time the impact the sign could have had is lost.

The meme spread on Twitter in 2010 as more and more people started realizing this. Throughout the next few years, internet users started coming up with memes and jokes based on this. Eventually, this led to the creation of r/dontdeadopeninside in 2014, which continues to be very popular to this day.

#7 Honk Ha Against Te

Image credits: bela_okmyx

#8 Jesus Save Can Even You

Image credits: Slaidn

#9 Redshe Neckshed

Image credits: WishboneUnlikely1963

There are a few main rules that the members of the DDOI community ought to follow. “Signs must be read correctly top to bottom, and incorrectly left to right, like any text usually. Though it does not matter how easily you can read them, it is highly encouraged to only post images with little separation or spacing between the columns of words,” the moderator team running the group explains.

#10 Noki Parng

Image credits: LegoYoda777

#11 The Tim Hoe Use

Image credits: JohnnyAlabama

#12 Satan Jesus Is Is Defeated Lord! [oc]

Image credits: not_quite_creative

Meanwhile, redditors are encouraged to be original with their content: reposting the most popular pics of all time or signs from the last 4 months isn’t tolerated. Your posts might end up getting removed. Moreover, signs that have been staged or faked also have no place on this sub. Finally, internet users are asked to be civil to each other and to put the wrong way to read the message in the titles of their posts.

#13 Feed Animals School Kids Parties Groups

Image credits: Mineral_myco_medic

#14 Sophisticated Ho

Image credits: Xendran

#15 Hot Sharp Water Needles!!

Image credits: dkreidler

As we’ve covered on Bored Panda previously, clarity and brevity are absolutely vital when creating signs. Essentially, you only have a moment to get your message across. So if you cause even the slightest amount of confusion, you’ve basically negated the whole point of your sign, and it's best to start over.

#16 Eggmnnaeet

Image credits: JTUkko

#17 Go Citd Wals!

Image credits: ijustsailedaway

#18 You Give Chances Kid Voice Are

Image credits: The_missing_link_69

What really helps avoid these errors is being patient and diligent. First of all, you need to put in the time and care to create the best possible version of the sign possible, along with a few alternatives. Then, take a break, come back to your design, and look at it with fresh eyes. You’re bound to see things very differently than when you’re face-deep into drafting the sign.

#19 We Hold That All Man, These Truths, And Women To Be, Are Created Self-Evident... Equal

Image credits: 5W1TCHY

#20 Wildphot Lifeography

Image credits: sta015

#21 Burger Better Cause Maker You Built It

Image credits: Whatabeezy

Secondly, you should definitely take the time to show your design to a few different people, whether they’re your relatives, close friends, coworkers, or—heck—even some passersby on the street. You’re essentially conducting a bit of research with tiny focus groups. They might catch a silly mistake you left in or might end up interpreting the entire sign very differently than you intended. It’s better to deal with a dash of embarrassment now than tons of it later.

#22 The Love Is Sweeter Of Than Any Jesus Candy!

Image credits: baggymaggie

#23 Pine Man Apple Go Nada Nada

Image credits: Reckless-Ambition

#24 Do Not Thanks; Turn Off Randy

Image credits: jabe25

If you’re working on a very important project, you might want to consider hiring some professionals to help you, instead of doing everything yourself. Find a designer with a decent reputation to flesh out some of your ideas. Meanwhile, consider getting in touch with a proofreader or editor as well. We all make silly mistakes from time to time, and it helps to have a real pro in your corner.

#25 Ever Ythin Gisa B Rt E Kind

Image credits: Cuddha

#26 Dream Work Stay Big Hard Kind X.x

Image credits: OutOfDutchGaming

#27 Always Forgotten Remembered Never

Image credits: godhatesanna

The fact is that if you just wing it, you might end up losing your audience or potential customers. The more fluent your font is, the clearer your message. And vice versa! How trustworthy and likable you and your business are depends a lot on how you brand everything. Ideally, everything should be as legible as possible. With a focus on readable fonts, good kerning, and an overall design that focuses people’s attention where you want it to.

#28 Drinks Ice Sorry We Machine

Image credits: risingsky111

#29 Tog Tog Eth Eth Er! Er!

Image credits: Papa-Palps

#30 I Don't Know Why Everyone Has Been Complaining. My Cage Large Eggs Have Been Very Affordable

Image credits: derydoca

Here at Bored Panda, we’re very big fans of poorly designed signs—we can’t get enough of these trainwrecks! As such, we’ve featured the genius of r/dontdeadopeninside time and again. If you’d like to see some more chaotic signs that are definitely going to be misinterpreted, check out our earlier lists here and here, as well as here and here.

#31 Artcolumbůs Makes Makes Columbusart

Image credits: svgcbbg

#32 Time Spent Second With Family Is Worthevery

Image credits: a_pinch_of_sarcasm

#33 Trees Trees Warn Have Fellow Musical Trees Taste

Image credits: miguelgts2

#34 Holo Meve

Image credits: philpsy26

#35 Love, Askv, Grsenofr? Ihty

Image credits: TheMoonMoth

#36 Never Always Open Look

Image credits: phurt77

#37 It’s Hard To Be When Humble You’re From Texas

Image credits: _Skum

#38 I Love The Sound When You Make Up Shut

Image credits: McDudles

#39 I'm ?on Stuck You!

Image credits: flopsychops

#40 Pibu Zzarger

Image credits: Directorshaggy

#41 Scan Me To View Our Nu

Image credits: aak2137

#42 Hot Makes Me Want A Dog

Image credits: cjoll4

#43 You're Like The Now One I

Image credits: phullofit1

#44 Waste Energy Today Tomorrow

Image credits: amberarah

#45 Eng English Lish Gram Grammar Mar

Image credits: leinad00

#46 Donut Be Happy Worry

Image credits: IFB83

#47 At Least Irma It Ain't Ian 17 Snowin 22

Image credits: Richie311

#48 He She Asked Said 10-4

Image credits: Biblegrill

#49 My Religion Is My Religion. Very Simple Is Kindness

Image credits: Get-Wrecked-By-Shrek

#50 Not Sure If This Has Been Posted Here Already But Yeahh.. Lohovo Vepete

Image credits: synecdokie

#51 Traditional Free Glass Horse Meat Of Wine

Image credits: Ohwait11

#52 At Day At Night I’m You’re Your My Angel Slave

Image credits: TypicalYankeeScum

#53 Roll Dice The

Image credits: mpmwrites

#54 Palm For Trees Sale

Image credits: carbonx

#55 We Are No One Dare With You To Harm You

Image credits: yussma

#56 Together Is Together, Powerful You Win

Image credits: haribo2001

#57 Don’t Do Park Park Here Here

Image credits: tenmillionfreckles

#58 Blackwhite Beachbeach

Image credits: fpfx

#59 Moviforw Ngard

Image credits: myman_soulbrotha

#60 Vac Cer Cination Tificate

Image credits: WitchBLUNT

#61 Same Same Game Dead Diff Erent Levels Devils

Image credits: EmotionalTeabaggage

#62 Red Blood Hot Sugar Chili Sex Peppers Magic

Image credits: experimentalshoes

#63 Critic The Ink Ersal

Image credits: Reddituser0346

#64 Bang Naruto Head Style Here (At Work)

Image credits: swinkyy_x

#65 You’re Do Not Next Enter

Image credits: ILikeColdSoup

#66 Cheat Yonur GF Not Yonur Workouts

Image credits: misterecgamer

#67 Don’t This Paint Side!

Image credits: HoeDownClown

#68 Families Are And It’s Being Forced Not Just To Flee

Image credits: eviltimeban

#69 Lat Ame Tro

Image credits: Noise_Loop

#70 Is The Jesus Reason For The Season?

Image credits: leolacakes

#71 Wht Pink Ey

Image credits: jeremy_lrd

#72 Elv Perf Is Ect

Image credits: BurnDivision

#73 Mr.mon Lemade

Image credits: oinkpiggyoink

#74 9/11 Was Arrest Treason The Bankers

Image credits: Madcat6679

#75 Make No Art War

Image credits: Dogeishuman

#76 Working Like To Support The Crazy Lazy

Image credits: t-readyroc

#77 Why Would Me You Marry For Wanna Anyhow?

Image credits: BABNN

#78 Gas Store Open Is Open

Image credits: iHaruku

#79 Cry • Give Up

Image credits: Epacs

#80 Tis It True? His It Hhelpful?

Image credits: G33kyArmy

#81 “Fun” Dasn Riig!

Image credits: AFabulousNarwhal

#82 Pro Pro Pro Life God Gun

Image credits: theblazingkoala

#83 Honk You If Fart

Image credits: cyx6six

#84 Great Great Food! People

Image credits: Beantowndreamt0wn

#85 Because I’m Me

Image credits: TiptoeingElephants

#86 Xeln Eclet

Image credits: ViddyFanUK

#87 Work Love Prank Boss Sass Drink Sing Eat

Image credits: papayathemaya

#88 Postal Are Workers Thieves

Image credits: RevDudeistPancake

#89 God Save #not The Working My Class King

Image credits: counterc

#90 My Religion Is My Religion, Very Simple Is Kindness

Image credits: kindabllue

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Sun, 28 May 2023 12:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
“Am I A Jerk For Embarrassing A Plus&Sized Passenger On A Flight?” https://www.blogonian.com/am-i-a-jerk-for-embarrassing-a-plus-sized-passenger-on-a-flight https://www.blogonian.com/am-i-a-jerk-for-embarrassing-a-plus-sized-passenger-on-a-flight Airplane seats are notorious for being less than comfortable. Being crammed between two strangers in a seat that doesn’t recline more than a few inches is not anyone’s ideal way to spend a few hours, so most of us do what we can to find some semblance of comfort when flying.

But after one woman seated between two plus-sized passengers politely asked if she could relocate, she ended up being accused of fatphobia. Below, you’ll find the flyer’s full story, which she recently shared on the “Am I the [Jerk]?” subreddit, as well as a conversation between her and Bored Panda.

After being seated between two plus-sized passengers on a flight, this woman decided to politely find a more comfortable seat

Image credits: Darina Belonogova (not the actual image)

Upon arrival, however, one of her former seat neighbors made it clear that she was offended by her relocation

Image credits: Pew Nguyen (not the actual image)

Image credits: Kostiantyn Voitenko (not the actual image)

Image credits: Mason McCall (not the actual image)

Image credits: throwawayonaplane

Later, the passenger clarified some details about the situation

“I would imagine that the confrontation was a result of her feeling anxious about other people having seen me move”

To learn more about this specific situation, we reached out to the Reddit user who shared this story, Throwawayonaplane, who was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda. As far as how she relocated on the plane, the woman explained that she tried to do it as discreetly as possible, but there wasn’t much privacy in the cabin. “It’s entirely possible that a couple people saw and could assume why I moved, but nobody was told anything about the situation except for the flight attendant,” the OP shared. “I would imagine that the confrontation was a result of her feeling anxious about other people having seen me move, and as some commenters might have pointed out, it might have just been her way of venting out a frustrating day of travel.”

We also asked the OP what her thoughts were on the reactions her post received. Throwawayonaplane shared that she was relieved to hear that most commenters didn’t think she had done anything wrong, but a lot of the replies were upsetting. “I had posted this situation for some insight on if or how I could have handled the situation better or what other people would have done, but far too many people in the comments took my story as an excuse to generalize and bully all larger people. I’m unable to delete the post because of AITA’s rule on active discussions, but I truly feel terrible about the nature of so many of the comments,” she explained, adding that she is grateful for the nicer, helpful replies.

Image credits: reisetopia (not the actual image)

“While it’s not fair to take that stress out on the people around you, in situations like those, it’s best to just be patient and understanding”

We were also curious how the OP might handle a situation like this again in the future. “The biggest thing I might change is to say something like, ‘Sorry, I just have to grab my bag, there’s an available seat next to my friend’ or a similar white lie to avoid any additional stress,” she told Bored Panda, adding that her biggest tip for handling situations like these is to be compassionate. “Flying is so stressful for so many people and for so many reasons, and you never know what someone might have gone through before or during their flight,” she noted. “While it’s not fair to take that stress out on the people around you, in situations like those, it’s best to just be patient and understanding.”

The OP also urges readers not to take what happened to her as an example of all plus-sized people. “It’s not fair to generalize or use this one story about this one person to ‘prove’ that all larger people are lazy, entitled, or whatever else some people have been saying,” she noted. “This same situation could have happened with a tall person in behind me or the parent of a fussy child across from me, or the plus-sized person next to me could have been super nice. What a person’s body looks like has absolutely zero to do with their character.”

Airplane seats have only gotten smaller over the past few decades, making them increasingly more uncomfortable

Flying on an airplane is uncomfortable for everyone. Whether you’re tall, short, skinny, plus-sized, young or old, nobody enjoys those narrow seats with minimal leg room and barely any room to recline. That’s why most passengers go out of their way to snag a row to themselves, or at least one open seat next to them, any chance they get. Plus, we all know that the dreaded middle seat is widely considered the worst seat on a plane. As many of the commenters mentioned, this woman was not being prejudiced towards her fellow passengers in trying to seek comfort. If anyone in this situation was fatphobic, it was the airline. Have you ever heard your parents talk about how pleasant and luxurious flying used to be? Well, it was! In fact, seats today have on average 2-5 inches less leg room and are 2 inches narrower than airplane seats from the 1980s, despite the fact that we’ve gotten bigger.

And according to Paul Hudson, president of passenger advocacy group FlyersRights, these tiny seats can even be a safety issue for the smallest of passengers. “[Airlines] only narrowly define safety as if it has something to do with evacuation speed,” Hudson told CNN. “But they ignore health risks, especially blood clots, which are known to increase dramatically when you’re in a confined space for more than two or three hours. They ignore completely the forced intrusion that you have now on your neighbor.”

Image credits: Sami Aksu (not the actual image)

These tiny seats can make traveling as a plus-sized person particularly difficult

Of course, plus-sized passengers do tend to have a much more difficult time traveling than smaller individuals. Some of the discomforts they might encounter while flying are tight squeezes into tiny seats, seat belts that either don’t fit or need an extender to fit and arm rests jabbing into their sides. “I don’t want to have to ask for a seat belt extender or worry that they’ll make me buy an extra seat,” size-inclusive TikTok star Mary Fran Donnelly told the New York Post. “The traveling industry should outfit planes to suit everybody’s needs without bigger people having to be embarrassed or uncomfortable.”

Thankfully, however, there are ways plus-sized people can travel just as much as their hearts’ desire. They just need to know the tricks of the trade, until the airline industry becomes more inclusive. When it comes to which companies plus-sized passengers trust the most, Southwest Airlines seems to be the fan favorite. The airline encourages larger passengers to purchase an extra seat prior to boarding, which they can be reimbursed for after their journey has been completed. Or, if there are still seats available for purchase, they can simply request an extra seat at no additional cost once they’re at the airport. 

Image credits: cottonbro studio (not the actual image)

But there are ways plus-sized flyers can ensure that they, and their fellow passengers, are as comfortable as possible

“We are very proud of our policy, as we feel it provides comfort and hospitality for all of our customers,” a Southwest spokesperson told the New York Post. “It was a creative solution to what can be a sensitive topic, and we’ve found that our customers appreciate it.” And if you’re a plus-sized traveler who is looking for even more tips on how to have the best flying experience possible, Halee and Jeff at Plus Size Travel Guide recommend researching the airplane ahead of time to know exactly what you’re getting yourself into, asking for seat belt extenders upon boarding, picking the right shoes and socks to keep you as comfortable as possible, doing your research on whether a first class seat is worth it or if two economy seats would be better, and having all of your inflight items ready and accessible to limit how often you have to bend over or move around in-flight.

We all just want to find comfort in any way we can when on a plane, and that can be difficult to accomplish, regardless of your body size. It’s never appropriate to shame others, and fatphobia is a real issue. But in this particular case, the consensus of readers was that the woman was simply trying to help herself, not judge anyone else. We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments, pandas, but please remember to be respectful of all parties involved in the story. Then, if you’re interested in reading another Bored Panda article featuring airplane seat drama, look no further than right here!

Readers assured the woman that she had done nothing wrong, and some plus-sized folks noted that having more space benefits everyone

The post “Am I A Jerk For Embarrassing A Plus-Sized Passenger On A Flight?” first appeared on Bored Panda.

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Sun, 28 May 2023 11:30:05 +0530 Blogonian
“She Would Lose Her Spot In School”: Mom Shares How She’s Still Keeping Her Toddler In Childcare Even Though She’s On Maternity Leave https://www.blogonian.com/she-would-lose-her-spot-in-school-mom-shares-how-shes-still-keeping-her-toddler-in-childcare-even-though-shes-on-maternity-leave https://www.blogonian.com/she-would-lose-her-spot-in-school-mom-shares-how-shes-still-keeping-her-toddler-in-childcare-even-though-shes-on-maternity-leave It’s important to learn not to judge other people before you get their entire story. Especially when it comes to parenting, a topic that pretty much everyone seems to have an opinion about. Sometimes, decisions that might initially sound a bit unusual are actually for the best once you think about them.

Redditor u/edamommy_, a mother of two, recently went viral on the r/workingmoms online community. She shared how she’s on maternity leave after giving birth to her second child, however, she and her husband decided that their first kid should continue to stay in daycare during this time. Many internet users were very supportive of this decision and pointed out that maternity leave isn’t the same as a vacation. Read on for the full story and to see what people had to say about it.

Many parents are critical of how everyone else raises their kids

Image credits: Prostock-studio (not the actual photo)

One mom shared how she decided to keep her firstborn in daycare while she’s on maternity leave with her second child

Image credits: lithiumphoto (not the actual photo)

Image credits: edamommy_

It’s essential to stay practical, instead of giving in to social pressure

The OP shared on Reddit how some people are very critical of her decision to keep her toddler in daycare while she’s on maternity leave. “Most of the people who question this decision are either people who don’t have kids, or were/are stay-at-home parents (my mom chief among them),” she shared.

However, she points out that it makes a lot of sense from a practical point of view to keep her first child at the nursery. This has given the mom more time to focus on her second baby. What’s more, she revealed that she’s finished up plenty of house projects and family to-do’s. Something that she might not have had the time and energy for if she was taking care of both children at home.

And that’s what lies at the core of the story: no matter how much people might love their children, this doesn’t mean that it’s feasible to spend 24/7 around them. Chores, work, hobbies, travel, exercise, meeting up with others—all of these things still happen and responsibilities pile up. Life goes on, and every family needs to find a balance between what’s great for all the kids, and how to keep the couple thriving, too. Because—and let’s not forget it—parents aren’t just parents.

It’s completely understandable if a new parent is feeling overwhelmed by, well, absolutely everything. Not only do they have to battle insomnia as they’re changing diapers, but they might also need to balance their other important commitments, like work. It’s not a weakness to ask for help or to look for ways to catch a breather. Daycare and school can free up a large chunk of the day. As can asking your family and friends to come over and babysit for a little while. Meanwhile, the parents can have a romantic date night, catch up on some sleep, or take some time off to work on their passion projects… or simply be alone with their thoughts. Everyone needs rest. Wanting it doesn’t make you a ‘bad’ parent.

The situation with (un)paid parental leave is very chaotic in the US

In an ideal world, both parents should be able to take long-lasting parental leave once their child is born. This time can be spent bonding with the baby and supporting one another at the start of that wonderful journey called parenthood.

In many developed countries, there are laws protecting a person’s right to paternal or maternal leave. Unfortunately, the situation in the United States is… messy. To say the least. It speaks volumes about how great of a company redditor u/edamommy_ works at that she’s been given a whopping 24 weeks of leave! Not everyone is as lucky.

The US does not have mandated paid maternity or paternity leave. It is up to each individual employer to decide whether to offer parental leave. Meanwhile, Federal employees are granted a mere 12 weeks of paid parental leave. To put it somewhat bluntly, this is beyond peculiar in a developed Western nation.

The idea of taking time off to be with the baby is very popular in the US. According to Investopedia, 7 out of 10 Americans support the idea of paid parental leave. Meanwhile, 55% of employers offer paid maternity leave while 45% of businesses also offer paid paternity leave. The key word here is ‘paid.’

On the flip side, to qualify for unpaid parental leave in the US, you have to have worked for the company for at least a year, and the business has to employ at least 50 employees within 75 miles of the HQ. You can have a maximum of 12 weeks of unpaid leave.

Many readers showed their support for the mom of two with their comments

Some parents who pulled their toddlers out of school and babysitting shared their stories

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90 Hilariously Bad Signs That Should Have Been Questioned Before Being Put Up https://www.blogonian.com/90-hilariously-bad-signs-that-should-have-been-questioned-before-being-put-up https://www.blogonian.com/90-hilariously-bad-signs-that-should-have-been-questioned-before-being-put-up Brevity! Clarity! Proper kerning (that’s the spacing between letters)! And no silly business with the fonts! At their core, signs are supposed to impart the biggest amount of information in the least amount of time. That sounds simple enough on paper (pun intended), but not everyone manages to rise to the challenge.

They follow through with their [cough] artistic vision [cough] and the result is a hot mess of utterly illegible chaos. The worst of the bunch end up being featured on the r/dontdeadopeninside subreddit, an online community that is dedicated to nonsense signs if read normally. We’ve collected some of their best posts to share with you. Scroll down, but be careful—if you’re a fan of order, you might end up facepalming way too much.

#1 We Stand With No Standing Ukraine

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#2 Asia Rden Ensb Vgio Ocko

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#3 Left No Turn Right Only Turn

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The r/dontdeadopeninside subreddit has been up and running for nearly a decade, all the way since mid-2014. Since then, the community has grown to encompass over 681k members from all over the world.

The name of the group is rooted in the hit TV series, ‘The Walking Dead,’ which had a promotional poster that had the words ‘Don’t Open’ on one half of the chained doors and ‘Dead Inside’ on the other. When read from left to right, due to the weird spacing, the message becomes ‘Don’t Dead Open Inside’ instead of the intended ‘Don’t Open Dead Inside.’

#4 Love Is Watching & Watching Someone Someone Die Is Hard

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#5 Honk Ha Against Te

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#6 You If Going Lost You’re Me Together Get Can’t Know Don’t

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According to Know Your Meme, ‘Don’t Dead Open Inside’ is one of the most well-recognized examples of messages that aren’t read as they should be because there’s no instantly-recognizable, clear way to tell what order the words ought to be in. It takes a moment to really get the message, by which time the impact the sign could have had is lost.

The meme spread on Twitter in 2010 as more and more people started realizing this. Throughout the next few years, internet users started coming up with memes and jokes based on this. Eventually, this led to the creation of r/dontdeadopeninside in 2014, which continues to be very popular to this day.

#7 Redshe Neckshed

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#8 Ly Paer Soils Ca

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#9 Do Not Thanks; Turn Off Randy

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There are a few main rules that the members of the DDOI community ought to follow. “Signs must be read correctly top to bottom, and incorrectly left to right, like any text usually. Though it does not matter how easily you can read them, it is highly encouraged to only post images with little separation or spacing between the columns of words,” the moderator team running the group explains.

#10 Burger Better Cause Maker You Built It

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#11 Noki Parng

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#12 Go Citd Wals!

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Meanwhile, redditors are encouraged to be original with their content: reposting the most popular pics of all time or signs from the last 4 months isn’t tolerated. Your posts might end up getting removed. Moreover, signs that have been staged or faked also have no place on this sub. Finally, internet users are asked to be civil to each other and to put the wrong way to read the message in the titles of their posts.

#13 Hot Sharp Water Needles!!

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#14 Jesus Save Can Even You

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#15 The Tim Hoe Use

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As we’ve covered on Bored Panda previously, clarity and brevity are absolutely vital when creating signs. Essentially, you only have a moment to get your message across. So if you cause even the slightest amount of confusion, you’ve basically negated the whole point of your sign, and it's best to start over.

#16 Satan Jesus Is Is Defeated Lord! [oc]

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#17 Sophisticated Ho

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#18 We Hold That All Man, These Truths, And Women To Be, Are Created Self-Evident... Equal

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What really helps avoid these errors is being patient and diligent. First of all, you need to put in the time and care to create the best possible version of the sign possible, along with a few alternatives. Then, take a break, come back to your design, and look at it with fresh eyes. You’re bound to see things very differently than when you’re face-deep into drafting the sign.

#19 Feed Animals School Kids Parties Groups

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#20 Pine Man Apple Go Nada Nada

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#21 I Don't Know Why Everyone Has Been Complaining. My Cage Large Eggs Have Been Very Affordable

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Secondly, you should definitely take the time to show your design to a few different people, whether they’re your relatives, close friends, coworkers, or—heck—even some passersby on the street. You’re essentially conducting a bit of research with tiny focus groups. They might catch a silly mistake you left in or might end up interpreting the entire sign very differently than you intended. It’s better to deal with a dash of embarrassment now than tons of it later.

#22 At Least Irma It Ain't Ian 17 Snowin 22

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#23 It’s Hard To Be When Humble You’re From Texas

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#24 Holo Meve

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If you’re working on a very important project, you might want to consider hiring some professionals to help you, instead of doing everything yourself. Find a designer with a decent reputation to flesh out some of your ideas. Meanwhile, consider getting in touch with a proofreader or editor as well. We all make silly mistakes from time to time, and it helps to have a real pro in your corner.

#25 Always Forgotten Remembered Never

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#26 Wildphot Lifeography

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#27 The Love Is Sweeter Of Than Any Jesus Candy!

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The fact is that if you just wing it, you might end up losing your audience or potential customers. The more fluent your font is, the clearer your message. And vice versa! How trustworthy and likable you and your business are depends a lot on how you brand everything. Ideally, everything should be as legible as possible. With a focus on readable fonts, good kerning, and an overall design that focuses people’s attention where you want it to.

#28 Never Always Open Look

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#29 Eggmnnaeet

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#30 You Give Chances Kid Voice Are

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Here at Bored Panda, we’re very big fans of poorly designed signs—we can’t get enough of these trainwrecks! As such, we’ve featured the genius of r/dontdeadopeninside time and again. If you’d like to see some more chaotic signs that are definitely going to be misinterpreted, check out our earlier lists here and here, as well as here and here.

#31 Drinks Ice Sorry We Machine

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#32 I'm ?on Stuck You!

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#33 Artcolumbůs Makes Makes Columbusart

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#34 Ever Ythin Gisa B Rt E Kind

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#35 Pibu Zzarger

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#36 Tog Tog Eth Eth Er! Er!

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#37 He She Asked Said 10-4

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#38 I Love The Sound When You Make Up Shut

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#39 Dream Work Stay Big Hard Kind X.x

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#40 Love, Askv, Grsenofr? Ihty

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#41 Blackwhite Beachbeach

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#42 Why Would Me You Marry For Wanna Anyhow?

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#43 Same Same Game Dead Diff Erent Levels Devils

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#44 You're Like The Now One I

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#45 My Religion Is My Religion. Very Simple Is Kindness

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#46 Hot Makes Me Want A Dog

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#47 Time Spent Second With Family Is Worthevery

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#48 Don’t Do Park Park Here Here

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#49 At Day At Night I’m You’re Your My Angel Slave

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#50 Trees Trees Warn Have Fellow Musical Trees Taste

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#52 Vac Cer Cination Tificate

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#53 Donut Be Happy Worry

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#54 Mr.mon Lemade

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#55 Is The Jesus Reason For The Season?

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#56 Make No Art War

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#57 Lat Ame Tro

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#59 Don’t This Paint Side!

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#60 “Fun” Dasn Riig!

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#61 Work Love Prank Boss Sass Drink Sing Eat

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#62 Critic The Ink Ersal

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#63 Tis It True? His It Hhelpful?

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#64 We Are No One Dare With You To Harm You

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#65 Together Is Together, Powerful You Win

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#66 Scan Me To View Our Nu

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#67 Postal Are Workers Thieves

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#68 Eng English Lish Gram Grammar Mar

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#69 Elv Perf Is Ect

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#70 Traditional Free Glass Horse Meat Of Wine

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#71 Great Great Food! People

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#72 Palm For Trees Sale

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#73 Waste Energy Today Tomorrow

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#74 Working Like To Support The Crazy Lazy

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#75 Honk You If Fart

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#76 Red Blood Hot Sugar Chili Sex Peppers Magic

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#77 Not Sure If This Has Been Posted Here Already But Yeahh.. Lohovo Vepete

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#78 Pro Pro Pro Life God Gun

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#79 Gas Store Open Is Open

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#80 Cry • Give Up

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#81 Moviforw Ngard

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#82 Bang Naruto Head Style Here (At Work)

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#83 You’re Do Not Next Enter

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#84 Cheat Yonur GF Not Yonur Workouts

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#85 Families Are And It’s Being Forced Not Just To Flee

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#86 Xeln Eclet

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#87 9/11 Was Arrest Treason The Bankers

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#88 Because I’m Me

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#89 God Save #not The Working My Class King

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#90 My Religion Is My Religion, Very Simple Is Kindness

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Sun, 28 May 2023 10:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
46 Unbelievably Strange Encounters With Random Strangers That These People Still Can’t Believe https://www.blogonian.com/46-unbelievably-strange-encounters-with-random-strangers-that-these-people-still-cant-believe https://www.blogonian.com/46-unbelievably-strange-encounters-with-random-strangers-that-these-people-still-cant-believe Most of the memories that stick with us are of pivotal moments in our lives, perhaps getting that job that kickstarted your career or the day you met your soulmate. However, memories are a fickle thing and some people have the unfortunate experience of meeting a stranger so horrible that they still carry the story with them. 

An internet user, out of morbid curiosity no doubt, wanted to hear other’s worst experiences with total strangers. And people delivered, with stories ranging from bizarre to downright terrifying. So be warned, some potential unpleasantness ahead. If you do stay, be sure to upvote your favorite (however you choose to interpret that) and share your own stories in the comments. 

#1

I work in retail and once a customer jiggled my belly and said 'I see the diet stuff doesn't work here' I know it doesn't seem much but I keep comeing back to it. It was just so IDK invasive?

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#2

A guy sneezed in my face on the subway, and after s******g on him verbally he just shrugged and made it out to be no big deal. Since i couldnt do anything but verbally abuse him i left to find another seat. 2 days later i almost reachter 41 degrees.... Havent been sick like that my whole life. Literally and figuratively. Im still wearing masks in subs cuz of this s**t.

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#3

Me, a child: playing with toys in Walmart

a random stranger: "I'd like you to play with my little boy toy."

My Dad, just on the other end, watching me doesn't say a word to the man just grabs him and throws him across the aisle. Then screams out, "If you want to play with him. You're gonna have to play with me first!"

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Unfortunately, there are people out there who are somehow entirely blind to social norms and will flagrantly break them without a thought. In a few cases, this could be simple ignorance or lack of ability to read social cues. Everyone knows someone who is probably well-meaning but ends up being downright annoying to be around. 

But many of the cases listed here go much further than, say, a loud belch at a dinner table or an awkward question about one’s love life. These encounters veer into downright antisocial behavior, which at “best” are a nuisance and at worst, could be seen as a crime. Traditionally, this is seen as part of a personality disorder, but more contemporary psychologists believe it could, instead, be a result of certain issues in upbringing. 

#4

My grandmother was at the movies, and a guy walked up the aisle and punched her on the side of the head. He told the cops he was mad because he was on a bad blind date. Like...great excuse to wallop a 75-year-old woman minding her own business?

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#5

Some asshole tossed a lock (like the combination type) out of a car at me and hit me in the knee. I had trouble walking correctly for a month. I always thought if they had stopped at a light, I'd have hurled that bitch right back (good thing they didn't — I wasn't in any condition for a fight)

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#6

Sit next to me on the bus when there's a single seat on the other side

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The generally accepted cause of antisocial behavior is upbringing or a lack thereof. This is a sort of double-edged sword, as it lets us pinpoint how to prevent it, but unfortunately, it offers little hope for people who are already adults. The upside is the policymakers, social workers and just people who live in a community can all do their part to help, but it also means they generally have to suffer at the hands of existing, antisocial adults. 

#7

Back in the '70s, I was riding in a car that my best friend's mother was driving on a highway. There was me, my friend, her brother, and a couple of other kids in the car. The age range for the kids was about 7 to 9 years old. It was a warm day, and my friend's mother had her window rolled down (no air conditioning). A car full of teenagers pulled alongside of her, and someone threw a full cup of ice water through the window at her. I got hit by it, too, because I was sitting in the front seat next to her. She managed not to lose control of the car. In retrospect, it was incredibly fucked up to try and cause a lady with a car full of kids to crash.

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#8

Dude parked his 18 wheeler in the middle of the road and started walking into Dunkin Donuts. I told him to move his truck, and the guy ran to my car and started punching my drivers window calling me a “f*****g liberal pussy”. Then he stopped and rubbed his hand in pain and I pointed and laughed at him and said “Try the other hand now!” He said something else I didn’t hear because I was still laughing and he walked away. Cops came and gave the guy a summons and made him move the truck.

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#9

I was about 11 and me and some friends were standing on a small bridge over a lake. All of a sudden I was picked up and thrown over the railing into the lake below. I tried to grab onto anything I could as I fell and scrapped my arms up pretty good. I still have scars 30 years later. So I swim to the side and some older kid comes up to me and just say - sorry, I thought you were someone else.

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The rapid social changes brought on by technology have made it hard to track exactly what stimulus ends up causing kids to start behaving poorly. In the age of regular TV consumption, some studies found that for every additional hour of TV a teen watched, the risk of them exhibiting some antisocial behavior rose by roughly 30%. However, as most parents now know, young people aren’t really watching hours and hours of TV, but it’s unclear if, say, video games or streaming has the same effect as TV used to. 

#10

One time I was in south Philly and a car pulled up with two guys in it. They called out to me asking for directions so I walked over. As I was explaining where to go the dude in the passenger seat spit in my face and they sped off.

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#11

I work at a hotel as a housekeeper. Yesterday we had a baseball team checking out and I had a bunch of their rooms on my list. The rooms were reasonably messy, nothing too bad. But the last room…they trashed the place. Trash thrown everywhere and hidden in some places, food ground into the carpet, p**s on the bathroom floor, greasy hand prints on the windows and mirrors. The whole shebang. This was s****y, sure, but what made it f****d up was how they tipped me. They dragged a chair into the middle of the room, faced it towards the door, and left a stack of fake hundred dollar bills in the seat in plain sight.

#12

I was in London on business and my hotel was hosting a Christmas party for a bunch of Russians also there on business. I was sitting at the bar by myself and one of the Russian women invited me to sit with her and her friends. Her table had her, three other women and two men. I don’t speak Russian but they were all very nice and welcoming to me. The woman sitting across from me was passed out drunk with her head on the table. No one paid any attention to her. After 30 minutes me and the woman who invited me were flirting pretty good. Suddenly the drunk woman sits up straight, points at me, scowls and begins yelling what obviously were Russian swear words. She does this for about a minute while the rest of us just stare at her and say nothing. Then she plops her head back down on the table and goes to sleep. I asked everyone collectively “what was that all about?” One of the guys replied “she doesn’t know why you are sitting with us, she hates you and she called your mother some very bad names. But don’t pay her any attention, she’s a crazy Russian. We’re happy to party with an American.

It’s not fair, however, to pin all the blame on media. Media only raise a child if the parents are absent in some form, which might be a more significant trigger than, say, Cartoon Network or Minecraft. Even more significantly, parental abuse is pretty closely tied with the victim “passing on” the abuse to another, creating a spiraling cycle of violence and bad behavior. Even smaller things, like poor nutrition and poverty, can cause an environment where normal social behavior is not learned, leading to the sorts of adults we see in these stories. 

#13

I'm gay and my husband and I married in the rotunda of the courthouse. As we said I do and kissed a group of Mennonite kids started spitballing us and throwing stuff down at us. Hit the judge too. It was a really crappy way to remember our wedding. No witnesses, just us which is how we wanted - but then what was essentially a hate crime. The children's parents were amused.

My husband chased down security and they had it on video. Security stopped the family and then asked my husband if he wanted to prosecute. I was turning in our marriage certificate at that moment so I wasn't there to threaten 'yes'. My husband said no of course. I didn't want to really prosecute, but I wanted to put some fear in them.

#14

I was sitting at a cafe with my then partner. A man came up to our table, held finger guns at my temple and whispered "I wish I f*****g could." And then yanked my hair and rushed out. It was completely unprovoked. I've technically had more violent and scary things happen to me, but that's stuck with me for a really long time. I think it's because I had been having a lovely day until that point. I was so excited to be sitting in a cute cafe, eating pie with my date. And now I can't get the image of her face falling as she looked at the man out of my head. We went home after that.

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#15

A foreigner was sitting behind me and sniffing my hair on the bus. I noticed some pulling and saw some fingers in the corner of my vision when I turned my head. As soon as I realized someone was touching my hair- I stood up and looked back to see what’s going on and he was looking right at me, scared/guilty

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There are also some genetic factors that ultimately might lead to people behaving in ways that others find annoying or downright horrible. The bottom line is that antisocial behavior, ultimately, needs to be cut off at the source. This means that all of us have to look for ways to help dysfunctional families, to make sure children can live in a safe environment and that psychological help like Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is available to those in need. 

#16

Got a phone call from my wife’s number, it was a random dude telling me my wife ran a red light and got t-boned. Kept saying “yeah she really f****d up man.”

It was the guy that t-boned her. He ran the red light. He was inebriated. I rushed over to the address he gave me, cops and ambulance and everything. They let the guy drive off in his smashed up truck. No insurance. F*****g prick.

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#17

When I started 3rd grade, I transferred to a new school. The school I went to prior was an abnormally small private catholic school. I think they only had about 5 teachers and under 30 students total. This school was so small, the cafeteria doubled as an art classroom. With the size of the school, it was also very protected. Everyone in the school was friends with each other. There were no such things as bullies, because everyone's parents were friends, and those parents were also great friends of the teachers. Aside from the occasional pre-pubescent children nagging and whining amongst ourselves and outbursts that young kids have, it was pretty great of an atmosphere.


When I got to my new school on the first day, which was a public school in Pittsburgh. I was so out of my element it was insane. I couldn't comprehend why everyone wore different clothes, why there were so many people, why the teachers were so brash and somewhat aggressive. Nobody seemed friendly, nothing made sense. It was a total culture shock.

Fast forward to lunch, they announced they had a salad bar. This was the most normal part of the day for me, because at my old school we usually had lunches like salad bars. I made a few acquaintances prior to lunch which gave me tremendous relief as the biggest worry I had that day was wondering if i'd have to eat lunch by myself or with a table of people i dont know. Me and the two other kids at the time made it through the lunch line and got to the salad bar. I started to fix up my tray with the most wonderful salad a kid could ask for - lettuce, ranch, croutons, bacon bits. As soon as i turned away from the salad bar, a very tall and lanky girl with zany pigtails in braids just stood in front of me and practically made sure i would "accidentally" walk right into her. The obvious outcome; My tray collided with her tray, which sent the salad flying, covering her mostly in ranch dressing. I lost all of my salad, and everyone was f*****g chuckling about it. She decided to start crying and it went from bad to even worse, because i had the teachers rush over to me and grab me by my arm and drag me to the principles office.

I got yelled at for about 10 minutes and was told that my first impression was certainly not a good one, and the girl had to have her parents come in and bring her a change of clothes. Nobody would listen to my side of the story, and this idiot told everyone that i threw my salad at her so she would "get out of my way". I never met this girl in my life, i didnt even know she existed prior to her sabotaging me and making me go hungry. When i explained that it was an accident, they would retort with "how? You saw her standing there".

I sat in the office, starving, crying, and scared that my mom would beat my a*s. She came down to the school shortly after, and this was the light at the end of the tunnel. The principle takes her into her office, and i start to hear yelling. I start crying harder, because now momma is in trouble... but then i realized the yelling wasnt from the principle, it was my mom. My mom went the f**k off on the principle. I heard things such as "It's his first day, do you really think he would throw his f*****g salad in her face?" and "How dare you not let my son eat?!"


My mom took me home, got me mcdonalds, and i lived in total fear for the rest of 3rd grade. Mom cant always be there to save me, but goddamnit mom... you f*****g killed it.

Happy mothers day.

#18

One time I was walking to my car. An old man approached me and asked if the church bells meant it was noon. I told him that it was noon. Then he asked me if I knew where the Jewish center is. I said, "I don't know, I'm protestant." Then he yelled, "IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU DON'T EVEN CARE!". Then I started running away and he shouted, "YEAH! YOU GET LOST AND GO FIND YOURSELF!"

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#19

Punched me, for no reason. I was standing. Waiting for the community bus. A stranger got out of the car and punched me. I filed the Police report but nothing happened.

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#20

First day of senior year I held the door open for someone. As he walks in he goes, “thanks. Your hair’s gay btw” and I’ve never forgotten that.

#21

I had just recently got my driver's license. I was driving down a back road going the speed limit (55) and I was the only car on the road. When I checked my mirror a few seconds later, a red car was directly on my a*s, so close I couldn't see his front plate. He began slowing down and speeding towards the back end of my car repeatedly. After a few minutes, he sped past me in a no passing zone and started brake checking me (speeding up and slamming his brakes to try getting me to hit him). After a minute or so of that, he slammed his brakes and we both came to a full stop. He got out of his vehicle and started pounding on the driver's side window screaming and cursing me out before getting back in his car and speeding off. I pulled over and stayed there for a few minutes to insure he was long gone before proceeding...

#22

Tapped me on the shoulder in a club and when I turned around, he headbutted me with all his might. Before I could even process what had happened, two bouncers had a hold of him, dragging him outside.

I was just stood there, dazed and confused with my nose pissing blood everywhere - then I was lead into a room by one of the bouncers and given tissues to stop my nose bleeding. He said to me that the guy had struck one of their guys on the way out and the police were going to arrest him if I wanted to talk to them. Automatically said no, not wanting to be a grass (snitch).

I never left my feet and my nose wasn't broken, so it wasn't really *that* big a deal - but it lives rent free in my head because I don't know who it was or why he did it.

I seen his face momentarily and didn't recognise him, and as such wouldn't be able to pick him out a crowd now. I wasn't dancing with any girls as I was already with my now Fiancé and very happy, so I didn't make moves on his girlfriend or love interest. Me and my friends keep ourselves to ourselves and aren't involved in any beefs or anything. I wasn't stumbling drunk, so couldn't have barged into him or spilled his drink or anything.

My best theory is mistaken identity. I look like my Brother and he and his crowd are a bit more nefarious. Either that or he just thought I was someone else completely.

Why did you headbutt me Mr Stranger!?

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#23

Pulled her pants halfway down her butt and asked me to check the size on her underwear.

I hated being a cashier.

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#24

Out at a bar in my mid 20s, my friend started talking to this girl. I let him do his thing for a while until he finally included me in the conversation and introduced me. The girl took one look at me at said “if you’re going to have any chance with a girl like me, you have to lose a few pounds and shave that goatee”. I was completely stunned. I had some very unkind words for her and eventually told my buddy to take her home and screw out what little brains he had left before I left the bar.

That was over ten years ago and unfortunately, that moment has stuck with me for a long time and probably contributes to why I have trouble meeting girls while out, even to introduce myself. I’ve dealt with rejection before and it hurts, but that comment hit me to my core.

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#25

I was walking home pretty late one night and noticed one of my new neighbors walking up towards me from the opposite end of the street. As we were passing each other I said a friendly hello- in response this grown man silently turned his a*s towards me and let out the most repulsive, bombastic fart I’ve ever heard. I was too shocked to speak, to move, to defend myself. He didn’t even say anything, just calmly walked into his house afterwards. As far as I’m aware he still lives there, and I’ve never gotten an explanation lmao

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#26

Stopped at a red light one time. Someone from a building adjacent to the light threw a bag of ice and water on my car, from a few stories up. Dented the roof and shattered the windshield.

Wasn't even a nice car, I was driving a Dodge neon shitbox

#27

Complimented my penis. I was at a camp shower at a campground. I was around 12 some random guy walked in and just stared at me and watched me take a shower making weird small talk. This was the late 70's, early 80's. Kids werent special yet and we basically were raised you just be polite to adults so I was "yes sir" and "no sir" the creep. The Adam Walsh TV movie changed all of that and parents were like, hey, maybe we should watch our kids a little bit? He didn't rape me so I guess that's a plus.

#28

Drugged out couple walked up to me and touched my nipples at a festival.

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#29

I was with 2 of my friends walking out of a Walmart at 10pm. I was about 17/18 years old at the time. Some dude came out and full on made out with me. Just beelined for me and grabed the back of my head and proceeded to kiss me for about 30 seconds. I froze, my friends froze and then he ran off laughing. We stood there in disbelief for a minute or two. I went home and brushed my teeth repeatedly. F*****g strange and very invasive.

#30

Stole a piece of chicken from my plate as I was eating at the counter of a restaurant in NYC. Seems funny now ?

#31

I parked completely WITHIN the lines of a parking space. Did nothing wrong. Received a note on my car: “Learn to park, A*****E!”. Rolled up to this note after a long day of dealing with young children. A man was walking by and I showed him the note and asked him if he thought it was warranted. He told me to crumble the note up and forget about it, I parked completely fine. Hope whoever wrote that note got some nice karma coming to them.

Meanwhile, one of my biggest pet peeves is when people park straddling the parking lines. And yet I am the one who received a note. Cool.

Edit. Now I’ve read a few of the replies on here and maybe I should just delete mine. I didn’t get punched in the face or hurt. Just felt the inconsideration and unjust rudeness from a stranger.

#32

I was walking in a mall with my sister and this really huge guy walked past me and as he walked past he basically groped me down there. I'm a female for reference. I asked wtf really loudly and looked back and he just kept walking on and didn't look back. I wasn't sure what to make of that situation.

#33

Put "something" in both my gf and my drinks. Probably GHB.

Something kicked in and I managed to get us home. Don't remember how.

We are actually lucky to still be alive after that. Put me off concerts for a long time.

Was even weirder that it happened at a metal gig.

#34

Smashed me in the face with a glass bottle and left me bleeding on the sidewalk

#35

I was waiting for my girlfriend at the bus terminal in order to go to her home to meet her parents for the 1st time. This one random old dude aproaches me, askes me about the boat schedules (it's a boat and bus terminal), and I'm happy to help him out. Since it's still a while for the next boat and it takes a while for my girlfriend to arrive, the dude keeps talking to me and I didn't mind about it and was having a conversation with him. He asks me for a cigarette (I don't smoke) and offers me a beer (I don't drink). Out of the blue he asks me "Do you want to go to my house while you wait for your girlfriend?". I'm like "Is this dude hitting on me or something? wtf..." and try my best to be polite and shut down and move away from him because it was getting a bit unconfortable. Not long after, the bus is arriving and I use it as an excuse to gtfo of the conversation. By my face my GF can tell that something happened and I tell her wtf just happened and when I look back to tell her who the dude was, the dude just vanished like a ghost. I'm even more confused by this. Next thing I know, she's describing me the old dude "Is the man you talked to like this and that, and wearing this and that?" and I'm like "Yeah, how do you know?" and she blank stares at me "That's my dad and he's right there". Not a bad f****d up thing, but f****d up to do to an unsuspecting person in a stressing situation like meeting your SOs parents for the 1st time. In his defense tho, he did make a joke when we "officially" met and said "Well, we're going to my house after all!"

#36

7 years old…dad took us to a Boston Bruins/Atlanta Flames game in Atlanta (1978ish?). Drunk guy grabbed my hand an put his cigarette out on the top of my hand.

#37

Walking home from school when I was a kid.

Two boys I never met before were behind me and threw a rock straight into the middle of my back for no reason. All I remember is them laughing about it and approaching me telling to try something so they could beat me and impress the girl who was with them.

The other thing was being randomly shot.

I'm not sure which is worse but those aren't the worst things to ever happen to me, just the worst things done by strangers.

#38

was a kid trying my best to become the next Tony Hawk, i tried doing an oillie on the side walk next to a busy road... ate s**t infront of a bunch of people and some dude driving by with his window down yells out "you suck!"

#39

I was dropping off a friend at their apartment late one night. They live on a pretty quiet side street so we’re talking on the street outside for a few minutes. Two guys show up and one completely unprovoked attacks me with a tire iron. Never seen them before in my life. Fought them off but he grazed me with the tire iron. Ended up with a nasty concussion, ten staples and no answers on why it happened

#40

Drove with a blood alcohol level of .1 and then rear ended me at a stop light going about 50 mph. Totaled my car when I was 21, living on my own and struggling financially. He had no insurance or license because he got drunk and caused a car accident 3 months prior. Then he died of alcohol poisoning. I got $157.63 from his estate 2 years later for the damages.

But, it was that event that taught me to drive a standard transmission car.

#41

When I was ten or so a man started to scream at me and hit me with a newspaper. Afterwards I think I managed to figure out what happened. He angrily said that I was "smelling" being a bullied kid I assumed he meant that I was dirty, I was in actuality suffering from hay fever and he assumed my sniffling was me mocking him. He was an immigrant and it was "normal" for racist people to say that immigrants were smelly.

Several adults intervened and helped me run out from the subway train.

#42

Some old guy went really close to me and started whispering slurs into my ear

#43

I had a dude/dudette throw a full unopened beer can at me from a moving car while I was standing on the sidewalk. Hit me right in the chest. Scared the hell out of me. I wasnt sure if I had been shot or was having a heart attack.

#44

Not me, but some years ago my (middle-aged bordering on elderly) mother came off the bus one day when a guy straight-up punched her in the eye and left. She didn't know him, hadn't done anything to set him off to her knowledge and he was never caught. (edit: scrolled down and realized there's another person with a similar story)

EDIT: When it comes to me personally then the worst that comes to mind is some blokes with a car trying to steal my newspaper cart during a summer job once upon a time. When I was doing the rounds at around 4-5 am. It wasn't too scary at the time, I was mainly angry at them, but thinking back I can imagine how the situation might've escalated if they hadn't been clearly high off their asses and scared of me calling the cops.

#45

Was on an escalator and a woman farted in my face.

#46

I was a cycle courier in Central London 2005/7 and amongst the litany of s**t that people did to me whilst riding through W1 my top three are:

3. Riding through Soho someone tried to snatch my bag and yanked me off the bike I came off and the bag was on me new york style when they couldn't get it off me the person squired a bottle of stewed p**s on me. F*****g junkies.

2. At Leicester Square I was taking a break on a slow Thursday afternoon and a couple of kids ( no older than 14) snatched my bike and tried to ride off but it was a 21inch frame and they stacked it in the road resulting in it being run over by ta bendy bus. ?

1. Riding down Godge street on my last run of the day a car pulled up at a red light and threw a milkshake (Macdonalds chocolate ) in my face it smacked me and it really shocked me, I saw red and chased it for two blocks just raging at the next light I threw my lock through the back window. The car just drove off I was expecting a fight, harsh words something but nope just drove off. ]]>
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Woman Changes Seats On A Plane To Be More Comfortable, Plus&Sized Passenger Takes It Personally https://www.blogonian.com/woman-changes-seats-on-a-plane-to-be-more-comfortable-plus-sized-passenger-takes-it-personally https://www.blogonian.com/woman-changes-seats-on-a-plane-to-be-more-comfortable-plus-sized-passenger-takes-it-personally Airplane seats are notorious for being less than comfortable. Being crammed between two strangers in a seat that doesn’t recline more than a few inches is not anyone’s ideal way to spend a few hours, so most of us do what we can to find some semblance of comfort when flying.

But after one woman seated between two plus-sized passengers politely asked if she could relocate, she ended up being accused of fatphobia. Below, you’ll find the flyer’s full story, which she recently shared on the “Am I the [Jerk]?” subreddit, as well as a conversation between her and Bored Panda.

After being seated between two plus-sized passengers on a flight, this woman decided to politely find a more comfortable seat

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Upon arrival, however, one of her former seat neighbors made it clear that she was offended by her relocation

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Later, the passenger clarified some details about the situation

“I would imagine that the confrontation was a result of her feeling anxious about other people having seen me move”

To learn more about this specific situation, we reached out to the Reddit user who shared this story, Throwawayonaplane, who was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda. As far as how she relocated on the plane, the woman explained that she tried to do it as discreetly as possible, but there wasn’t much privacy in the cabin. “It’s entirely possible that a couple people saw and could assume why I moved, but nobody was told anything about the situation except for the flight attendant,” the OP shared. “I would imagine that the confrontation was a result of her feeling anxious about other people having seen me move, and as some commenters might have pointed out, it might have just been her way of venting out a frustrating day of travel.”

We also asked the OP what her thoughts were on the reactions her post received. Throwawayonaplane shared that she was relieved to hear that most commenters didn’t think she had done anything wrong, but a lot of the replies were upsetting. “I had posted this situation for some insight on if or how I could have handled the situation better or what other people would have done, but far too many people in the comments took my story as an excuse to generalize and bully all larger people. I’m unable to delete the post because of AITA’s rule on active discussions, but I truly feel terrible about the nature of so many of the comments,” she explained, adding that she is grateful for the nicer, helpful replies.

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“While it’s not fair to take that stress out on the people around you, in situations like those, it’s best to just be patient and understanding”

We were also curious how the OP might handle a situation like this again in the future. “The biggest thing I might change is to say something like, ‘Sorry, I just have to grab my bag, there’s an available seat next to my friend’ or a similar white lie to avoid any additional stress,” she told Bored Panda, adding that her biggest tip for handling situations like these is to be compassionate. “Flying is so stressful for so many people and for so many reasons, and you never know what someone might have gone through before or during their flight,” she noted. “While it’s not fair to take that stress out on the people around you, in situations like those, it’s best to just be patient and understanding.”

The OP also urges readers not to take what happened to her as an example of all plus-sized people. “It’s not fair to generalize or use this one story about this one person to ‘prove’ that all larger people are lazy, entitled, or whatever else some people have been saying,” she noted. “This same situation could have happened with a tall person in behind me or the parent of a fussy child across from me, or the plus-sized person next to me could have been super nice. What a person’s body looks like has absolutely zero to do with their character.”

Airplane seats have only gotten smaller over the past few decades, making them increasingly more uncomfortable

Flying on an airplane is uncomfortable for everyone. Whether you’re tall, short, skinny, plus-sized, young or old, nobody enjoys those narrow seats with minimal leg room and barely any room to recline. That’s why most passengers go out of their way to snag a row to themselves, or at least one open seat next to them, any chance they get. Plus, we all know that the dreaded middle seat is widely considered the worst seat on a plane. As many of the commenters mentioned, this woman was not being prejudiced towards her fellow passengers in trying to seek comfort. If anyone in this situation was fatphobic, it was the airline. Have you ever heard your parents talk about how pleasant and luxurious flying used to be? Well, it was! In fact, seats today have on average 2-5 inches less leg room and are 2 inches narrower than airplane seats from the 1980s, despite the fact that we’ve gotten bigger.

And according to Paul Hudson, president of passenger advocacy group FlyersRights, these tiny seats can even be a safety issue for the smallest of passengers. “[Airlines] only narrowly define safety as if it has something to do with evacuation speed,” Hudson told CNN. “But they ignore health risks, especially blood clots, which are known to increase dramatically when you’re in a confined space for more than two or three hours. They ignore completely the forced intrusion that you have now on your neighbor.”

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These tiny seats can make traveling as a plus-sized person particularly difficult

Of course, plus-sized passengers do tend to have a much more difficult time traveling than smaller individuals. Some of the discomforts they might encounter while flying are tight squeezes into tiny seats, seat belts that either don’t fit or need an extender to fit and arm rests jabbing into their sides. “I don’t want to have to ask for a seat belt extender or worry that they’ll make me buy an extra seat,” size-inclusive TikTok star Mary Fran Donnelly told the New York Post. “The traveling industry should outfit planes to suit everybody’s needs without bigger people having to be embarrassed or uncomfortable.”

Thankfully, however, there are ways plus-sized people can travel just as much as their hearts’ desire. They just need to know the tricks of the trade, until the airline industry becomes more inclusive. When it comes to which companies plus-sized passengers trust the most, Southwest Airlines seems to be the fan favorite. The airline encourages larger passengers to purchase an extra seat prior to boarding, which they can be reimbursed for after their journey has been completed. Or, if there are still seats available for purchase, they can simply request an extra seat at no additional cost once they’re at the airport. 

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But there are ways plus-sized flyers can ensure that they, and their fellow passengers, are as comfortable as possible

“We are very proud of our policy, as we feel it provides comfort and hospitality for all of our customers,” a Southwest spokesperson told the New York Post. “It was a creative solution to what can be a sensitive topic, and we’ve found that our customers appreciate it.” And if you’re a plus-sized traveler who is looking for even more tips on how to have the best flying experience possible, Halee and Jeff at Plus Size Travel Guide recommend researching the airplane ahead of time to know exactly what you’re getting yourself into, asking for seat belt extenders upon boarding, picking the right shoes and socks to keep you as comfortable as possible, doing your research on whether a first class seat is worth it or if two economy seats would be better, and having all of your inflight items ready and accessible to limit how often you have to bend over or move around in-flight.

We all just want to find comfort in any way we can when on a plane, and that can be difficult to accomplish, regardless of your body size. It’s never appropriate to shame others, and fatphobia is a real issue. But in this particular case, the consensus of readers was that the woman was simply trying to help herself, not judge anyone else. We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments, pandas, but please remember to be respectful of all parties involved in the story. Then, if you’re interested in reading another Bored Panda article featuring airplane seat drama, look no further than right here!

Readers assured the woman that she had done nothing wrong, and some plus-sized folks noted that having more space benefits everyone

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“I Don’t Feel Guilty About It”: Mom Is Expected To Pull Toddler Out Of Daycare While On Maternity Leave, But She’s Having None Of It https://www.blogonian.com/i-dont-feel-guilty-about-it-mom-is-expected-to-pull-toddler-out-of-daycare-while-on-maternity-leave-but-shes-having-none-of-it https://www.blogonian.com/i-dont-feel-guilty-about-it-mom-is-expected-to-pull-toddler-out-of-daycare-while-on-maternity-leave-but-shes-having-none-of-it It’s important to learn not to judge other people before you get their entire story. Especially when it comes to parenting, a topic that pretty much everyone seems to have an opinion about. Sometimes, decisions that might initially sound a bit unusual are actually for the best once you think about them.

Redditor u/edamommy_, a mother of two, recently went viral on the r/workingmoms online community. She shared how she’s on maternity leave after giving birth to her second child, however, she and her husband decided that their first kid should continue to stay in daycare during this time. Many internet users were very supportive of this decision and pointed out that maternity leave isn’t the same as a vacation. Read on for the full story and to see what people had to say about it.

Many parents are critical of how everyone else raises their kids

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One mom shared how she decided to keep her firstborn in daycare while she’s on maternity leave with her second child

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It’s essential to stay practical, instead of giving in to social pressure

The OP shared on Reddit how some people are very critical of her decision to keep her toddler in daycare while she’s on maternity leave. “Most of the people who question this decision are either people who don’t have kids, or were/are stay-at-home parents (my mom chief among them),” she shared.

However, she points out that it makes a lot of sense from a practical point of view to keep her first child at the nursery. This has given the mom more time to focus on her second baby. What’s more, she revealed that she’s finished up plenty of house projects and family to-do’s. Something that she might not have had the time and energy for if she was taking care of both children at home.

And that’s what lies at the core of the story: no matter how much people might love their children, this doesn’t mean that it’s feasible to spend 24/7 around them. Chores, work, hobbies, travel, exercise, meeting up with others—all of these things still happen and responsibilities pile up. Life goes on, and every family needs to find a balance between what’s great for all the kids, and how to keep the couple thriving, too. Because—and let’s not forget it—parents aren’t just parents.

It’s completely understandable if a new parent is feeling overwhelmed by, well, absolutely everything. Not only do they have to battle insomnia as they’re changing diapers, but they might also need to balance their other important commitments, like work. It’s not a weakness to ask for help or to look for ways to catch a breather. Daycare and school can free up a large chunk of the day. As can asking your family and friends to come over and babysit for a little while. Meanwhile, the parents can have a romantic date night, catch up on some sleep, or take some time off to work on their passion projects… or simply be alone with their thoughts. Everyone needs rest. Wanting it doesn’t make you a ‘bad’ parent.

The situation with (un)paid parental leave is very chaotic in the US

In an ideal world, both parents should be able to take long-lasting parental leave once their child is born. This time can be spent bonding with the baby and supporting one another at the start of that wonderful journey called parenthood.

In many developed countries, there are laws protecting a person’s right to paternal or maternal leave. Unfortunately, the situation in the United States is… messy. To say the least. It speaks volumes about how great of a company redditor u/edamommy_ works at that she’s been given a whopping 24 weeks of leave! Not everyone is as lucky.

The US does not have mandated paid maternity or paternity leave. It is up to each individual employer to decide whether to offer parental leave. Meanwhile, Federal employees are granted a mere 12 weeks of paid parental leave. To put it somewhat bluntly, this is beyond peculiar in a developed Western nation.

The idea of taking time off to be with the baby is very popular in the US. According to Investopedia, 7 out of 10 Americans support the idea of paid parental leave. Meanwhile, 55% of employers offer paid maternity leave while 45% of businesses also offer paid paternity leave. The key word here is ‘paid.’

On the flip side, to qualify for unpaid parental leave in the US, you have to have worked for the company for at least a year, and the business has to employ at least 50 employees within 75 miles of the HQ. You can have a maximum of 12 weeks of unpaid leave.

Many readers showed their support for the mom of two with their comments

Some parents who pulled their toddlers out of school and babysitting shared their stories

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This Online Community Pokes Fun At Signs That Are Complete Nonsense, And Here Are 90 Of The Worst (New Pics) https://www.blogonian.com/this-online-community-pokes-fun-at-signs-that-are-complete-nonsense-and-here-are-90-of-the-worst-new-pics https://www.blogonian.com/this-online-community-pokes-fun-at-signs-that-are-complete-nonsense-and-here-are-90-of-the-worst-new-pics Brevity! Clarity! Proper kerning (that’s the spacing between letters)! And no silly business with the fonts! At their core, signs are supposed to impart the biggest amount of information in the least amount of time. That sounds simple enough on paper (pun intended), but not everyone manages to rise to the challenge.

They follow through with their [cough] artistic vision [cough] and the result is a hot mess of utterly illegible chaos. The worst of the bunch end up being featured on the r/dontdeadopeninside subreddit, an online community that is dedicated to nonsense signs if read normally. We’ve collected some of their best posts to share with you. Scroll down, but be careful—if you’re a fan of order, you might end up facepalming way too much.

#1 Asia Rden Ensb Vgio Ocko

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#2 We Stand With No Standing Ukraine

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#3 Left No Turn Right Only Turn

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The r/dontdeadopeninside subreddit has been up and running for nearly a decade, all the way since mid-2014. Since then, the community has grown to encompass over 681k members from all over the world.

The name of the group is rooted in the hit TV series, ‘The Walking Dead,’ which had a promotional poster that had the words ‘Don’t Open’ on one half of the chained doors and ‘Dead Inside’ on the other. When read from left to right, due to the weird spacing, the message becomes ‘Don’t Dead Open Inside’ instead of the intended ‘Don’t Open Dead Inside.’

#4 Love Is Watching & Watching Someone Someone Die Is Hard

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#5 Honk Ha Against Te

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#6 You If Going Lost You’re Me Together Get Can’t Know Don’t

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According to Know Your Meme, ‘Don’t Dead Open Inside’ is one of the most well-recognized examples of messages that aren’t read as they should be because there’s no instantly-recognizable, clear way to tell what order the words ought to be in. It takes a moment to really get the message, by which time the impact the sign could have had is lost.

The meme spread on Twitter in 2010 as more and more people started realizing this. Throughout the next few years, internet users started coming up with memes and jokes based on this. Eventually, this led to the creation of r/dontdeadopeninside in 2014, which continues to be very popular to this day.

#7 Ly Paer Soils Ca

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#8 Do Not Thanks; Turn Off Randy

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#9 Jesus Save Can Even You

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There are a few main rules that the members of the DDOI community ought to follow. “Signs must be read correctly top to bottom, and incorrectly left to right, like any text usually. Though it does not matter how easily you can read them, it is highly encouraged to only post images with little separation or spacing between the columns of words,” the moderator team running the group explains.

#10 Burger Better Cause Maker You Built It

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#11 Redshe Neckshed

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#12 The Tim Hoe Use

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Meanwhile, redditors are encouraged to be original with their content: reposting the most popular pics of all time or signs from the last 4 months isn’t tolerated. Your posts might end up getting removed. Moreover, signs that have been staged or faked also have no place on this sub. Finally, internet users are asked to be civil to each other and to put the wrong way to read the message in the titles of their posts.

#13 We Hold That All Man, These Truths, And Women To Be, Are Created Self-Evident... Equal

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#14 Hot Sharp Water Needles!!

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#15 Wildphot Lifeography

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As we’ve covered on Bored Panda previously, clarity and brevity are absolutely vital when creating signs. Essentially, you only have a moment to get your message across. So if you cause even the slightest amount of confusion, you’ve basically negated the whole point of your sign, and it's best to start over.

#16 Feed Animals School Kids Parties Groups

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#17 Go Citd Wals!

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#18 Noki Parng

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What really helps avoid these errors is being patient and diligent. First of all, you need to put in the time and care to create the best possible version of the sign possible, along with a few alternatives. Then, take a break, come back to your design, and look at it with fresh eyes. You’re bound to see things very differently than when you’re face-deep into drafting the sign.

#19 Sophisticated Ho

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#20 Pine Man Apple Go Nada Nada

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#21 Satan Jesus Is Is Defeated Lord! [oc]

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Secondly, you should definitely take the time to show your design to a few different people, whether they’re your relatives, close friends, coworkers, or—heck—even some passersby on the street. You’re essentially conducting a bit of research with tiny focus groups. They might catch a silly mistake you left in or might end up interpreting the entire sign very differently than you intended. It’s better to deal with a dash of embarrassment now than tons of it later.

#22 Eggmnnaeet

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#23 Always Forgotten Remembered Never

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#24 The Love Is Sweeter Of Than Any Jesus Candy!

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If you’re working on a very important project, you might want to consider hiring some professionals to help you, instead of doing everything yourself. Find a designer with a decent reputation to flesh out some of your ideas. Meanwhile, consider getting in touch with a proofreader or editor as well. We all make silly mistakes from time to time, and it helps to have a real pro in your corner.

#25 Dream Work Stay Big Hard Kind X.x

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#26 Pibu Zzarger

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#27 Holo Meve

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The fact is that if you just wing it, you might end up losing your audience or potential customers. The more fluent your font is, the clearer your message. And vice versa! How trustworthy and likable you and your business are depends a lot on how you brand everything. Ideally, everything should be as legible as possible. With a focus on readable fonts, good kerning, and an overall design that focuses people’s attention where you want it to.

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Here at Bored Panda, we’re very big fans of poorly designed signs—we can’t get enough of these trainwrecks! As such, we’ve featured the genius of r/dontdeadopeninside time and again. If you’d like to see some more chaotic signs that are definitely going to be misinterpreted, check out our earlier lists here and here, as well as here and here.

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People Are Sharing The Weirdest Interactions They’ve Had With Random Strangers That They Just Can’t Get Out Of Their Heads (46 Stories) https://www.blogonian.com/people-are-sharing-the-weirdest-interactions-theyve-had-with-random-strangers-that-they-just-cant-get-out-of-their-heads-46-stories https://www.blogonian.com/people-are-sharing-the-weirdest-interactions-theyve-had-with-random-strangers-that-they-just-cant-get-out-of-their-heads-46-stories Most of the memories that stick with us are of pivotal moments in our lives, perhaps getting that job that kickstarted your career or the day you met your soulmate. However, memories are a fickle thing and some people have the unfortunate experience of meeting a stranger so horrible that they still carry the story with them. 

An internet user, out of morbid curiosity no doubt, wanted to hear other’s worst experiences with total strangers. And people delivered, with stories ranging from bizarre to downright terrifying. So be warned, some potential unpleasantness ahead. If you do stay, be sure to upvote your favorite (however you choose to interpret that) and share your own stories in the comments. 

#1

I work in retail and once a customer jiggled my belly and said 'I see the diet stuff doesn't work here' I know it doesn't seem much but I keep comeing back to it. It was just so IDK invasive?

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#2

A guy sneezed in my face on the subway, and after s******g on him verbally he just shrugged and made it out to be no big deal. Since i couldnt do anything but verbally abuse him i left to find another seat. 2 days later i almost reachter 41 degrees.... Havent been sick like that my whole life. Literally and figuratively. Im still wearing masks in subs cuz of this s**t.

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#3

Some asshole tossed a lock (like the combination type) out of a car at me and hit me in the knee. I had trouble walking correctly for a month. I always thought if they had stopped at a light, I'd have hurled that bitch right back (good thing they didn't — I wasn't in any condition for a fight)

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Unfortunately, there are people out there who are somehow entirely blind to social norms and will flagrantly break them without a thought. In a few cases, this could be simple ignorance or lack of ability to read social cues. Everyone knows someone who is probably well-meaning but ends up being downright annoying to be around. 

But many of the cases listed here go much further than, say, a loud belch at a dinner table or an awkward question about one’s love life. These encounters veer into downright antisocial behavior, which at “best” are a nuisance and at worst, could be seen as a crime. Traditionally, this is seen as part of a personality disorder, but more contemporary psychologists believe it could, instead, be a result of certain issues in upbringing. 

#4

Sit next to me on the bus when there's a single seat on the other side

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#5

One time I was in south Philly and a car pulled up with two guys in it. They called out to me asking for directions so I walked over. As I was explaining where to go the dude in the passenger seat spit in my face and they sped off.

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#6

I was about 11 and me and some friends were standing on a small bridge over a lake. All of a sudden I was picked up and thrown over the railing into the lake below. I tried to grab onto anything I could as I fell and scrapped my arms up pretty good. I still have scars 30 years later. So I swim to the side and some older kid comes up to me and just say - sorry, I thought you were someone else.

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The generally accepted cause of antisocial behavior is upbringing or a lack thereof. This is a sort of double-edged sword, as it lets us pinpoint how to prevent it, but unfortunately, it offers little hope for people who are already adults. The upside is the policymakers, social workers and just people who live in a community can all do their part to help, but it also means they generally have to suffer at the hands of existing, antisocial adults. 

#7

Me, a child: playing with toys in Walmart

a random stranger: "I'd like you to play with my little boy toy."

My Dad, just on the other end, watching me doesn't say a word to the man just grabs him and throws him across the aisle. Then screams out, "If you want to play with him. You're gonna have to play with me first!"

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#8

My grandmother was at the movies, and a guy walked up the aisle and punched her on the side of the head. He told the cops he was mad because he was on a bad blind date. Like...great excuse to wallop a 75-year-old woman minding her own business?

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#9

A foreigner was sitting behind me and sniffing my hair on the bus. I noticed some pulling and saw some fingers in the corner of my vision when I turned my head. As soon as I realized someone was touching my hair- I stood up and looked back to see what’s going on and he was looking right at me, scared/guilty

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The rapid social changes brought on by technology have made it hard to track exactly what stimulus ends up causing kids to start behaving poorly. In the age of regular TV consumption, some studies found that for every additional hour of TV a teen watched, the risk of them exhibiting some antisocial behavior rose by roughly 30%. However, as most parents now know, young people aren’t really watching hours and hours of TV, but it’s unclear if, say, video games or streaming has the same effect as TV used to. 

#10

Back in the '70s, I was riding in a car that my best friend's mother was driving on a highway. There was me, my friend, her brother, and a couple of other kids in the car. The age range for the kids was about 7 to 9 years old. It was a warm day, and my friend's mother had her window rolled down (no air conditioning). A car full of teenagers pulled alongside of her, and someone threw a full cup of ice water through the window at her. I got hit by it, too, because I was sitting in the front seat next to her. She managed not to lose control of the car. In retrospect, it was incredibly fucked up to try and cause a lady with a car full of kids to crash.

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#11

I was walking home pretty late one night and noticed one of my new neighbors walking up towards me from the opposite end of the street. As we were passing each other I said a friendly hello- in response this grown man silently turned his a*s towards me and let out the most repulsive, bombastic fart I’ve ever heard. I was too shocked to speak, to move, to defend myself. He didn’t even say anything, just calmly walked into his house afterwards. As far as I’m aware he still lives there, and I’ve never gotten an explanation lmao

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#12

Out at a bar in my mid 20s, my friend started talking to this girl. I let him do his thing for a while until he finally included me in the conversation and introduced me. The girl took one look at me at said “if you’re going to have any chance with a girl like me, you have to lose a few pounds and shave that goatee”. I was completely stunned. I had some very unkind words for her and eventually told my buddy to take her home and screw out what little brains he had left before I left the bar.

That was over ten years ago and unfortunately, that moment has stuck with me for a long time and probably contributes to why I have trouble meeting girls while out, even to introduce myself. I’ve dealt with rejection before and it hurts, but that comment hit me to my core.

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It’s not fair, however, to pin all the blame on media. Media only raise a child if the parents are absent in some form, which might be a more significant trigger than, say, Cartoon Network or Minecraft. Even more significantly, parental abuse is pretty closely tied with the victim “passing on” the abuse to another, creating a spiraling cycle of violence and bad behavior. Even smaller things, like poor nutrition and poverty, can cause an environment where normal social behavior is not learned, leading to the sorts of adults we see in these stories. 

#13

Tapped me on the shoulder in a club and when I turned around, he headbutted me with all his might. Before I could even process what had happened, two bouncers had a hold of him, dragging him outside.

I was just stood there, dazed and confused with my nose pissing blood everywhere - then I was lead into a room by one of the bouncers and given tissues to stop my nose bleeding. He said to me that the guy had struck one of their guys on the way out and the police were going to arrest him if I wanted to talk to them. Automatically said no, not wanting to be a grass (snitch).

I never left my feet and my nose wasn't broken, so it wasn't really *that* big a deal - but it lives rent free in my head because I don't know who it was or why he did it.

I seen his face momentarily and didn't recognise him, and as such wouldn't be able to pick him out a crowd now. I wasn't dancing with any girls as I was already with my now Fiancé and very happy, so I didn't make moves on his girlfriend or love interest. Me and my friends keep ourselves to ourselves and aren't involved in any beefs or anything. I wasn't stumbling drunk, so couldn't have barged into him or spilled his drink or anything.

My best theory is mistaken identity. I look like my Brother and he and his crowd are a bit more nefarious. Either that or he just thought I was someone else completely.

Why did you headbutt me Mr Stranger!?

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#14

Dude parked his 18 wheeler in the middle of the road and started walking into Dunkin Donuts. I told him to move his truck, and the guy ran to my car and started punching my drivers window calling me a “f*****g liberal pussy”. Then he stopped and rubbed his hand in pain and I pointed and laughed at him and said “Try the other hand now!” He said something else I didn’t hear because I was still laughing and he walked away. Cops came and gave the guy a summons and made him move the truck.

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#15

Got a phone call from my wife’s number, it was a random dude telling me my wife ran a red light and got t-boned. Kept saying “yeah she really f****d up man.”

It was the guy that t-boned her. He ran the red light. He was inebriated. I rushed over to the address he gave me, cops and ambulance and everything. They let the guy drive off in his smashed up truck. No insurance. F*****g prick.

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There are also some genetic factors that ultimately might lead to people behaving in ways that others find annoying or downright horrible. The bottom line is that antisocial behavior, ultimately, needs to be cut off at the source. This means that all of us have to look for ways to help dysfunctional families, to make sure children can live in a safe environment and that psychological help like Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is available to those in need. 

#16

One time I was walking to my car. An old man approached me and asked if the church bells meant it was noon. I told him that it was noon. Then he asked me if I knew where the Jewish center is. I said, "I don't know, I'm protestant." Then he yelled, "IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU DON'T EVEN CARE!". Then I started running away and he shouted, "YEAH! YOU GET LOST AND GO FIND YOURSELF!"

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#17

I was sitting at a cafe with my then partner. A man came up to our table, held finger guns at my temple and whispered "I wish I f*****g could." And then yanked my hair and rushed out. It was completely unprovoked. I've technically had more violent and scary things happen to me, but that's stuck with me for a really long time. I think it's because I had been having a lovely day until that point. I was so excited to be sitting in a cute cafe, eating pie with my date. And now I can't get the image of her face falling as she looked at the man out of my head. We went home after that.

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#18

Punched me, for no reason. I was standing. Waiting for the community bus. A stranger got out of the car and punched me. I filed the Police report but nothing happened.

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#19

Drugged out couple walked up to me and touched my nipples at a festival.

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#20

Pulled her pants halfway down her butt and asked me to check the size on her underwear.

I hated being a cashier.

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#21

I was in London on business and my hotel was hosting a Christmas party for a bunch of Russians also there on business. I was sitting at the bar by myself and one of the Russian women invited me to sit with her and her friends. Her table had her, three other women and two men. I don’t speak Russian but they were all very nice and welcoming to me. The woman sitting across from me was passed out drunk with her head on the table. No one paid any attention to her. After 30 minutes me and the woman who invited me were flirting pretty good. Suddenly the drunk woman sits up straight, points at me, scowls and begins yelling what obviously were Russian swear words. She does this for about a minute while the rest of us just stare at her and say nothing. Then she plops her head back down on the table and goes to sleep. I asked everyone collectively “what was that all about?” One of the guys replied “she doesn’t know why you are sitting with us, she hates you and she called your mother some very bad names. But don’t pay her any attention, she’s a crazy Russian. We’re happy to party with an American.

#22

Stopped at a red light one time. Someone from a building adjacent to the light threw a bag of ice and water on my car, from a few stories up. Dented the roof and shattered the windshield.

Wasn't even a nice car, I was driving a Dodge neon shitbox

#23

I work at a hotel as a housekeeper. Yesterday we had a baseball team checking out and I had a bunch of their rooms on my list. The rooms were reasonably messy, nothing too bad. But the last room…they trashed the place. Trash thrown everywhere and hidden in some places, food ground into the carpet, p**s on the bathroom floor, greasy hand prints on the windows and mirrors. The whole shebang. This was s****y, sure, but what made it f****d up was how they tipped me. They dragged a chair into the middle of the room, faced it towards the door, and left a stack of fake hundred dollar bills in the seat in plain sight.

#24

Walking home from school when I was a kid.

Two boys I never met before were behind me and threw a rock straight into the middle of my back for no reason. All I remember is them laughing about it and approaching me telling to try something so they could beat me and impress the girl who was with them.

The other thing was being randomly shot.

I'm not sure which is worse but those aren't the worst things to ever happen to me, just the worst things done by strangers.

#25

7 years old…dad took us to a Boston Bruins/Atlanta Flames game in Atlanta (1978ish?). Drunk guy grabbed my hand an put his cigarette out on the top of my hand.

#26

I'm gay and my husband and I married in the rotunda of the courthouse. As we said I do and kissed a group of Mennonite kids started spitballing us and throwing stuff down at us. Hit the judge too. It was a really crappy way to remember our wedding. No witnesses, just us which is how we wanted - but then what was essentially a hate crime. The children's parents were amused.

My husband chased down security and they had it on video. Security stopped the family and then asked my husband if he wanted to prosecute. I was turning in our marriage certificate at that moment so I wasn't there to threaten 'yes'. My husband said no of course. I didn't want to really prosecute, but I wanted to put some fear in them.

#27

I was with 2 of my friends walking out of a Walmart at 10pm. I was about 17/18 years old at the time. Some dude came out and full on made out with me. Just beelined for me and grabed the back of my head and proceeded to kiss me for about 30 seconds. I froze, my friends froze and then he ran off laughing. We stood there in disbelief for a minute or two. I went home and brushed my teeth repeatedly. F*****g strange and very invasive.

#28

I was walking in a mall with my sister and this really huge guy walked past me and as he walked past he basically groped me down there. I'm a female for reference. I asked wtf really loudly and looked back and he just kept walking on and didn't look back. I wasn't sure what to make of that situation.

#29

Smashed me in the face with a glass bottle and left me bleeding on the sidewalk

#30

Put "something" in both my gf and my drinks. Probably GHB.

Something kicked in and I managed to get us home. Don't remember how.

We are actually lucky to still be alive after that. Put me off concerts for a long time.

Was even weirder that it happened at a metal gig.

#31

First day of senior year I held the door open for someone. As he walks in he goes, “thanks. Your hair’s gay btw” and I’ve never forgotten that.

#32

Stole a piece of chicken from my plate as I was eating at the counter of a restaurant in NYC. Seems funny now ?

#33

I had just recently got my driver's license. I was driving down a back road going the speed limit (55) and I was the only car on the road. When I checked my mirror a few seconds later, a red car was directly on my a*s, so close I couldn't see his front plate. He began slowing down and speeding towards the back end of my car repeatedly. After a few minutes, he sped past me in a no passing zone and started brake checking me (speeding up and slamming his brakes to try getting me to hit him). After a minute or so of that, he slammed his brakes and we both came to a full stop. He got out of his vehicle and started pounding on the driver's side window screaming and cursing me out before getting back in his car and speeding off. I pulled over and stayed there for a few minutes to insure he was long gone before proceeding...

#34

Complimented my penis. I was at a camp shower at a campground. I was around 12 some random guy walked in and just stared at me and watched me take a shower making weird small talk. This was the late 70's, early 80's. Kids werent special yet and we basically were raised you just be polite to adults so I was "yes sir" and "no sir" the creep. The Adam Walsh TV movie changed all of that and parents were like, hey, maybe we should watch our kids a little bit? He didn't rape me so I guess that's a plus.

#35

was a kid trying my best to become the next Tony Hawk, i tried doing an oillie on the side walk next to a busy road... ate s**t infront of a bunch of people and some dude driving by with his window down yells out "you suck!"

#36

I parked completely WITHIN the lines of a parking space. Did nothing wrong. Received a note on my car: “Learn to park, A*****E!”. Rolled up to this note after a long day of dealing with young children. A man was walking by and I showed him the note and asked him if he thought it was warranted. He told me to crumble the note up and forget about it, I parked completely fine. Hope whoever wrote that note got some nice karma coming to them.

Meanwhile, one of my biggest pet peeves is when people park straddling the parking lines. And yet I am the one who received a note. Cool.

Edit. Now I’ve read a few of the replies on here and maybe I should just delete mine. I didn’t get punched in the face or hurt. Just felt the inconsideration and unjust rudeness from a stranger.

#37

Drove with a blood alcohol level of .1 and then rear ended me at a stop light going about 50 mph. Totaled my car when I was 21, living on my own and struggling financially. He had no insurance or license because he got drunk and caused a car accident 3 months prior. Then he died of alcohol poisoning. I got $157.63 from his estate 2 years later for the damages.

But, it was that event that taught me to drive a standard transmission car.

#38

I was waiting for my girlfriend at the bus terminal in order to go to her home to meet her parents for the 1st time. This one random old dude aproaches me, askes me about the boat schedules (it's a boat and bus terminal), and I'm happy to help him out. Since it's still a while for the next boat and it takes a while for my girlfriend to arrive, the dude keeps talking to me and I didn't mind about it and was having a conversation with him. He asks me for a cigarette (I don't smoke) and offers me a beer (I don't drink). Out of the blue he asks me "Do you want to go to my house while you wait for your girlfriend?". I'm like "Is this dude hitting on me or something? wtf..." and try my best to be polite and shut down and move away from him because it was getting a bit unconfortable. Not long after, the bus is arriving and I use it as an excuse to gtfo of the conversation. By my face my GF can tell that something happened and I tell her wtf just happened and when I look back to tell her who the dude was, the dude just vanished like a ghost. I'm even more confused by this. Next thing I know, she's describing me the old dude "Is the man you talked to like this and that, and wearing this and that?" and I'm like "Yeah, how do you know?" and she blank stares at me "That's my dad and he's right there". Not a bad f****d up thing, but f****d up to do to an unsuspecting person in a stressing situation like meeting your SOs parents for the 1st time. In his defense tho, he did make a joke when we "officially" met and said "Well, we're going to my house after all!"

#39

I had a dude/dudette throw a full unopened beer can at me from a moving car while I was standing on the sidewalk. Hit me right in the chest. Scared the hell out of me. I wasnt sure if I had been shot or was having a heart attack.

#40

When I was ten or so a man started to scream at me and hit me with a newspaper. Afterwards I think I managed to figure out what happened. He angrily said that I was "smelling" being a bullied kid I assumed he meant that I was dirty, I was in actuality suffering from hay fever and he assumed my sniffling was me mocking him. He was an immigrant and it was "normal" for racist people to say that immigrants were smelly.

Several adults intervened and helped me run out from the subway train.

#41

When I started 3rd grade, I transferred to a new school. The school I went to prior was an abnormally small private catholic school. I think they only had about 5 teachers and under 30 students total. This school was so small, the cafeteria doubled as an art classroom. With the size of the school, it was also very protected. Everyone in the school was friends with each other. There were no such things as bullies, because everyone's parents were friends, and those parents were also great friends of the teachers. Aside from the occasional pre-pubescent children nagging and whining amongst ourselves and outbursts that young kids have, it was pretty great of an atmosphere.


When I got to my new school on the first day, which was a public school in Pittsburgh. I was so out of my element it was insane. I couldn't comprehend why everyone wore different clothes, why there were so many people, why the teachers were so brash and somewhat aggressive. Nobody seemed friendly, nothing made sense. It was a total culture shock.

Fast forward to lunch, they announced they had a salad bar. This was the most normal part of the day for me, because at my old school we usually had lunches like salad bars. I made a few acquaintances prior to lunch which gave me tremendous relief as the biggest worry I had that day was wondering if i'd have to eat lunch by myself or with a table of people i dont know. Me and the two other kids at the time made it through the lunch line and got to the salad bar. I started to fix up my tray with the most wonderful salad a kid could ask for - lettuce, ranch, croutons, bacon bits. As soon as i turned away from the salad bar, a very tall and lanky girl with zany pigtails in braids just stood in front of me and practically made sure i would "accidentally" walk right into her. The obvious outcome; My tray collided with her tray, which sent the salad flying, covering her mostly in ranch dressing. I lost all of my salad, and everyone was f*****g chuckling about it. She decided to start crying and it went from bad to even worse, because i had the teachers rush over to me and grab me by my arm and drag me to the principles office.

I got yelled at for about 10 minutes and was told that my first impression was certainly not a good one, and the girl had to have her parents come in and bring her a change of clothes. Nobody would listen to my side of the story, and this idiot told everyone that i threw my salad at her so she would "get out of my way". I never met this girl in my life, i didnt even know she existed prior to her sabotaging me and making me go hungry. When i explained that it was an accident, they would retort with "how? You saw her standing there".

I sat in the office, starving, crying, and scared that my mom would beat my a*s. She came down to the school shortly after, and this was the light at the end of the tunnel. The principle takes her into her office, and i start to hear yelling. I start crying harder, because now momma is in trouble... but then i realized the yelling wasnt from the principle, it was my mom. My mom went the f**k off on the principle. I heard things such as "It's his first day, do you really think he would throw his f*****g salad in her face?" and "How dare you not let my son eat?!"


My mom took me home, got me mcdonalds, and i lived in total fear for the rest of 3rd grade. Mom cant always be there to save me, but goddamnit mom... you f*****g killed it.

Happy mothers day.

#42

Some old guy went really close to me and started whispering slurs into my ear

#43

Was on an escalator and a woman farted in my face.

#44

Not me, but some years ago my (middle-aged bordering on elderly) mother came off the bus one day when a guy straight-up punched her in the eye and left. She didn't know him, hadn't done anything to set him off to her knowledge and he was never caught. (edit: scrolled down and realized there's another person with a similar story)

EDIT: When it comes to me personally then the worst that comes to mind is some blokes with a car trying to steal my newspaper cart during a summer job once upon a time. When I was doing the rounds at around 4-5 am. It wasn't too scary at the time, I was mainly angry at them, but thinking back I can imagine how the situation might've escalated if they hadn't been clearly high off their asses and scared of me calling the cops.

#45

I was dropping off a friend at their apartment late one night. They live on a pretty quiet side street so we’re talking on the street outside for a few minutes. Two guys show up and one completely unprovoked attacks me with a tire iron. Never seen them before in my life. Fought them off but he grazed me with the tire iron. Ended up with a nasty concussion, ten staples and no answers on why it happened

#46

I was a cycle courier in Central London 2005/7 and amongst the litany of s**t that people did to me whilst riding through W1 my top three are:

3. Riding through Soho someone tried to snatch my bag and yanked me off the bike I came off and the bag was on me new york style when they couldn't get it off me the person squired a bottle of stewed p**s on me. F*****g junkies.

2. At Leicester Square I was taking a break on a slow Thursday afternoon and a couple of kids ( no older than 14) snatched my bike and tried to ride off but it was a 21inch frame and they stacked it in the road resulting in it being run over by ta bendy bus. ?

1. Riding down Godge street on my last run of the day a car pulled up at a red light and threw a milkshake (Macdonalds chocolate ) in my face it smacked me and it really shocked me, I saw red and chased it for two blocks just raging at the next light I threw my lock through the back window. The car just drove off I was expecting a fight, harsh words something but nope just drove off. ]]>
Sun, 28 May 2023 09:30:06 +0530 Blogonian
Woman Is Accused Of “Treating Fatness Like A Contagious Disease” After Choosing To Move Seats During A Flight https://www.blogonian.com/woman-is-accused-of-treating-fatness-like-a-contagious-disease-after-choosing-to-move-seats-during-a-flight https://www.blogonian.com/woman-is-accused-of-treating-fatness-like-a-contagious-disease-after-choosing-to-move-seats-during-a-flight Airplane seats are notorious for being less than comfortable. Being crammed between two strangers in a seat that doesn’t recline more than a few inches is not anyone’s ideal way to spend a few hours, so most of us do what we can to find some semblance of comfort when flying.

But after one woman seated between two plus-sized passengers politely asked if she could relocate, she ended up being accused of fatphobia. Below, you’ll find the flyer’s full story, which she recently shared on the “Am I the [Jerk]?” subreddit, as well as a conversation between her and Bored Panda.

After being seated between two plus-sized passengers on a flight, this woman decided to politely find a more comfortable seat

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Upon arrival, however, one of her former seat neighbors made it clear that she was offended by her relocation

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Later, the passenger clarified some details about the situation

“I would imagine that the confrontation was a result of her feeling anxious about other people having seen me move”

To learn more about this specific situation, we reached out to the Reddit user who shared this story, Throwawayonaplane, who was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda. As far as how she relocated on the plane, the woman explained that she tried to do it as discreetly as possible, but there wasn’t much privacy in the cabin. “It’s entirely possible that a couple people saw and could assume why I moved, but nobody was told anything about the situation except for the flight attendant,” the OP shared. “I would imagine that the confrontation was a result of her feeling anxious about other people having seen me move, and as some commenters might have pointed out, it might have just been her way of venting out a frustrating day of travel.”

We also asked the OP what her thoughts were on the reactions her post received. Throwawayonaplane shared that she was relieved to hear that most commenters didn’t think she had done anything wrong, but a lot of the replies were upsetting. “I had posted this situation for some insight on if or how I could have handled the situation better or what other people would have done, but far too many people in the comments took my story as an excuse to generalize and bully all larger people. I’m unable to delete the post because of AITA’s rule on active discussions, but I truly feel terrible about the nature of so many of the comments,” she explained, adding that she is grateful for the nicer, helpful replies.

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“While it’s not fair to take that stress out on the people around you, in situations like those, it’s best to just be patient and understanding”

We were also curious how the OP might handle a situation like this again in the future. “The biggest thing I might change is to say something like, ‘Sorry, I just have to grab my bag, there’s an available seat next to my friend’ or a similar white lie to avoid any additional stress,” she told Bored Panda, adding that her biggest tip for handling situations like these is to be compassionate. “Flying is so stressful for so many people and for so many reasons, and you never know what someone might have gone through before or during their flight,” she noted. “While it’s not fair to take that stress out on the people around you, in situations like those, it’s best to just be patient and understanding.”

The OP also urges readers not to take what happened to her as an example of all plus-sized people. “It’s not fair to generalize or use this one story about this one person to ‘prove’ that all larger people are lazy, entitled, or whatever else some people have been saying,” she noted. “This same situation could have happened with a tall person in behind me or the parent of a fussy child across from me, or the plus-sized person next to me could have been super nice. What a person’s body looks like has absolutely zero to do with their character.”

Airplane seats have only gotten smaller over the past few decades, making them increasingly more uncomfortable

Flying on an airplane is uncomfortable for everyone. Whether you’re tall, short, skinny, plus-sized, young or old, nobody enjoys those narrow seats with minimal leg room and barely any room to recline. That’s why most passengers go out of their way to snag a row to themselves, or at least one open seat next to them, any chance they get. Plus, we all know that the dreaded middle seat is widely considered the worst seat on a plane. As many of the commenters mentioned, this woman was not being prejudiced towards her fellow passengers in trying to seek comfort. If anyone in this situation was fatphobic, it was the airline. Have you ever heard your parents talk about how pleasant and luxurious flying used to be? Well, it was! In fact, seats today have on average 2-5 inches less leg room and are 2 inches narrower than airplane seats from the 1980s, despite the fact that we’ve gotten bigger.

And according to Paul Hudson, president of passenger advocacy group FlyersRights, these tiny seats can even be a safety issue for the smallest of passengers. “[Airlines] only narrowly define safety as if it has something to do with evacuation speed,” Hudson told CNN. “But they ignore health risks, especially blood clots, which are known to increase dramatically when you’re in a confined space for more than two or three hours. They ignore completely the forced intrusion that you have now on your neighbor.”

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These tiny seats can make traveling as a plus-sized person particularly difficult

Of course, plus-sized passengers do tend to have a much more difficult time traveling than smaller individuals. Some of the discomforts they might encounter while flying are tight squeezes into tiny seats, seat belts that either don’t fit or need an extender to fit and arm rests jabbing into their sides. “I don’t want to have to ask for a seat belt extender or worry that they’ll make me buy an extra seat,” size-inclusive TikTok star Mary Fran Donnelly told the New York Post. “The traveling industry should outfit planes to suit everybody’s needs without bigger people having to be embarrassed or uncomfortable.”

Thankfully, however, there are ways plus-sized people can travel just as much as their hearts’ desire. They just need to know the tricks of the trade, until the airline industry becomes more inclusive. When it comes to which companies plus-sized passengers trust the most, Southwest Airlines seems to be the fan favorite. The airline encourages larger passengers to purchase an extra seat prior to boarding, which they can be reimbursed for after their journey has been completed. Or, if there are still seats available for purchase, they can simply request an extra seat at no additional cost once they’re at the airport. 

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But there are ways plus-sized flyers can ensure that they, and their fellow passengers, are as comfortable as possible

“We are very proud of our policy, as we feel it provides comfort and hospitality for all of our customers,” a Southwest spokesperson told the New York Post. “It was a creative solution to what can be a sensitive topic, and we’ve found that our customers appreciate it.” And if you’re a plus-sized traveler who is looking for even more tips on how to have the best flying experience possible, Halee and Jeff at Plus Size Travel Guide recommend researching the airplane ahead of time to know exactly what you’re getting yourself into, asking for seat belt extenders upon boarding, picking the right shoes and socks to keep you as comfortable as possible, doing your research on whether a first class seat is worth it or if two economy seats would be better, and having all of your inflight items ready and accessible to limit how often you have to bend over or move around in-flight.

We all just want to find comfort in any way we can when on a plane, and that can be difficult to accomplish, regardless of your body size. It’s never appropriate to shame others, and fatphobia is a real issue. But in this particular case, the consensus of readers was that the woman was simply trying to help herself, not judge anyone else. We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments, pandas, but please remember to be respectful of all parties involved in the story. Then, if you’re interested in reading another Bored Panda article featuring airplane seat drama, look no further than right here!

Readers assured the woman that she had done nothing wrong, and some plus-sized folks noted that having more space benefits everyone

The post Woman Is Accused Of “Treating Fatness Like A Contagious Disease” After Choosing To Move Seats During A Flight first appeared on Bored Panda.

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Sun, 28 May 2023 09:30:06 +0530 Blogonian
“What Words/Phrases Do You Hear Someone Say And Immediately Know You’re Probably Not Going To Like The Person?” (50 Answers) https://www.blogonian.com/what-wordsphrases-do-you-hear-someone-say-and-immediately-know-youre-probably-not-going-to-like-the-person-50-answers https://www.blogonian.com/what-wordsphrases-do-you-hear-someone-say-and-immediately-know-youre-probably-not-going-to-like-the-person-50-answers say to make their potential friendships instantly go up in flames. 

Someone recently asked Reddit users to share words and phrases that alert them that they won't like a person, and readers did not hold back. Below, you’ll find a variety of statements that people can't stand, so enjoy learning what not to say upon meeting someone, and be sure to upvote the phrases that you consider to be red flags as well!

#1

Anything that involves "god's will"

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#2

“I’m not racist but…”

Yes. Yes you are.

#3

Describes himself as an Alpha Male. Tells you implausible stories about how tough he is/how many women he's "Banged". Yeah, me an you gonna fall out soon buddy

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#4

“People don’t like me because I tell it like it is”

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#5

Anyone who is rude to waitstaff.
Been on a few dates where potential partners treated the waiter/waitress like garbage.
Instant dislike and termination of the date.

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#6

Boys will be boys

#7

"Men are logical/analytical, and women are emotional."

That's one of the most inaccurate statements I keep hearing every time I listen to a certain type of people on certain videos/podcasts.

#8

“Do your own research.” Quickly became the mantra of some of the most misinformed and ignorant people on the planet.

#9

"We're a family here" in a work setting. Mother f****r you just laid off "cousin" Bill.

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#10

“No offense, but…”, just before saying the most offensive thing you’ve heard in your life.

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#11

MAGA.

#12

'thoughts and prayers"

#13

“I’m so bipolar” to explain why they are indecisive or to play off poor life choices. Or just to say to sound quirky. Really hate that. I’m bipolar and rarely tell anyone.

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#14

You should smile more ?

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#15

"Ugh I hate cats"

I can't trust someone who says that. People who hate cats, really hate cats. To the point of abuse.

#16

"i have no problem with the gays, just keep it away from me"

#17

"It's all a part of god's plan"

#18

"I am an influencer / I have xxxx followers..."

#19

“I’m brutally honest”

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#20

"Why isn't there a white history month" I'm not even huge into politics, but this says a lot about someone to me

#21

Women who say “I only have guy friends” which is usually followed by something like “women always bring drama / women are usually bitches / women can’t handle how real I am / women are always jealous of me.”

ETA: Yeah, it’s great having guy friends, but the problem is women who view other women as the enemy.

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#22

If a person humiliates others for the sake of boosting his own ego, I immediately stop communicating with that person.

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#23

"Sheeple" As soon as I hear it I tune out everything else they have to say

#24

"Yes but you know there's worst" everytime you have an issue. Denying the pain of someone isn't helping them at all. Yes other have it worst, but at day D, hour H, I want to talk about my feeling and feel heard and seen. I want solutions or I want help or I want someone to b***h about the subject / person which / who is sensitive topic for me. Not thinking about others. That's not being selfish, that's destressing, and if you can't find a solution at least outing bad vibes.

#25

"The Election Was Stolen!"

#26

"oh, that's such typical [star sign] behaviour"

#27

I believe in the Bible as historical fact

#28

“I just say what everyone else is thinking”. Describing someone as an “alpha” “sigma” “beta”, or calling women “females”

#29

"My ex was a narcissist". I didn't hear this nearly as often until the last year or so. Now suddenly everyone has had an ex that was a narcissist. I work in the behavioral health field and this one drives me crazy.

Like no, just because you both wanted different things in life doesn't make him selfish enough to be labeled with an actual *personality disorder,* ***oh my god.*** Just say you weren't compatible and move on with your life.

No offense to those who actually did genuinely date a narcissist.

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#30

"Do you know who I am?"

#31

"oh im compelled to do this totally normal activity because my OCD/adhd/bipolar is kicking in!"

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#32

"If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best"

#33

A man who uses “Females” to refer to women.

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#34

"I'm a -insert star sign- so that's why I'm (being a c**t)"

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#35

People who lie/brag about their IQ. In my experience they seem like the dumbest people.

#36

“You’re so quiet”

#37

Got my shirt for x amount, my shoes for y amount type of people. You paid way more than normal people for stuff that's not something to brag about. Also do you really have no innate worth that you have to toss around price tags to attract people's attention.

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#38

"As a straight, white, cisgender person..."

Ma'am this a Wendy's.

#39

Woke.

#40

"All men are trash"

#41

“Let’s go Brandon”

#42

"as an empath --"

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#43

“My truth”

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#44

"I hate drama." I have never heard someone say this, unsolicited, and not been exhausted with their shenanigans within a day.

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#45

I had this new coworker who I didn’t have to work with, but could have made both of our jobs easier. He didn’t even need to say anything. At the first morning meeting he had a Daily Wire coffee mug that said, “this cup is filled with liberal tears.”
Yeah, no thanks dude. I don’t need your help with anything.

#46

"Why didn't they just take the eagles to Mordor?"

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#47

"As an ENFP/ISTJ/JKDSAJKHSDF/other alphabet soup personality test baloney..."

#48

people who will insert, “well if trump was still in office…” in every single conversation despite having nothing to do with politics

#49

"snowflakes", "woke", or "unbeknownst".

Especially unbeknownst, I hate that word more than is reasonable to acknowledge.

#50

"Tough love" often seems to be used as an excuse to be a d**k. I get it when it's like an intervention, but most times I've personally heard it this was just people who wanted to start s**t.

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Sat, 27 May 2023 19:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
35 People That Realized Their Parents Were Quite Toxic When They Grew Up Share Their Stories https://www.blogonian.com/35-people-that-realized-their-parents-were-quite-toxic-when-they-grew-up-share-their-stories https://www.blogonian.com/35-people-that-realized-their-parents-were-quite-toxic-when-they-grew-up-share-their-stories There is no such thing as being a ‘perfect’ parent—it’s human to make mistakes. However, some decisions and parenting methods have a far more negative impact than others. And if those mistakes occur frequently enough and pile up, you might hear folks whispering about what a bad parent someone is. Unfortunately, in some cases, that reputation is entirely justified. And these people’s kids are left to deal with the emotional fallout for years and even decades to come.

Redditor u/VastPurpleSky asked people to take a look back at their childhoods and share the things that they now realize were examples of truly bad parenting. Read on for their open and honest stories. 

Bored Panda got in touch with the author of the thread, u/VastPurpleSky, and they shared their thoughts on parenting red and green flags. Read on for our full interview with the OP.

#1

Three words:

"Boys dont cry."



I dedicate this comment to my school counselor and my PE coach who both helped me get off the road to becoming a psychopath by telling me very much so that boys can and do indeed cry.

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When it comes to parenting, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. A lot depends on each individual family, the local culture and customs, and everyone’s relationships with everyone else at home.

So the advice that might help one family become closer might accidentally spark more tension in another. It’s essential to be very careful before making blanket statements about how (not) to raise kids—there are subtle nuances once all the basics (shelter, food, education, emotional support, etc.) are taken care of.

But broadly speaking, according to researchers, there are four main parenting styles, and one of them stands out from the crowd as the best approach.

#2

Nothing I did was good enough. Like, if she asked me to fold laundry and I'd do it, and then she'd redo it because I guess I folded the towels wrong. I'd clean my room, she'd come in and redo everything I'd done. And she wouldn't teach me how she wanted things done, she'd just send me away and tell me she'd do it herself. Taught me that I shouldn't even bother trying to help because she's just going to redo whatever I did anyway, because I guess I was just a failure.

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#3

Made us feel like they were doing us a favor by raising us. For a long time I felt like I was always indebted to my parents and nothing I could do would ever be enough.

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The four parenting styles are authoritative (the one you should aim for), permissive, authoritarian, and uninvolved (aka neglectful). The latter three are the ones that can potentially cause the most issues for kids growing up. For example, authoritarian parents have a “my way or the highway” approach, don’t consider their children’s feelings, and expect them to follow their rules to the letter, without question.

However, this focus on obedience and punishment can lead their kids to develop self-esteem issues or even develop anger problems, Verywell Family notes.

Meanwhile, uninvolved parents expect their kids to raise themselves which can also lead to self-esteem issues further down the line. They tend to ignore their children, how they’re doing at school, and who they’re friends with. They simply don’t spend quality time with their kids or at home. As a result, there are often few rules that need to be followed, and the munchkins don’t get the guidance and attention that they need and want.

#4

Why can't you be like.......?

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#5

All the weight comments. I was always a chunky kid and definitely needed/need to lose the weight, but I’ve never been able to shake the idea that I don't deserve to be loved, because of those comments. I can always look down and see 50 extra reasons to hate myself

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#6

My family still believes beating a kid is a great form of discipline instead of just sitting down with and talking to your child. Who would’ve thought that Beating your child when they’re young, and barely getting to know them when they’re a teenager, would lead to them almost never reaching out to you when they’ve grown up and moved out? Mind blowing right??

Also, I absolutely CANNOT stress enough how important it is to show up to your child’s extracurricular activities. I played tennis all 4 years of high school and did marching band as well and I can count on 1 hand how many times they even bothered to show up. Your job is never going to remember you worked there, but your child will *always* remember you *weren’t* there.

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Permissive parents, on the other hand, might set some rules but will rarely enforce them. They believe that it’s best to interfere as little as possible in their kids’ development, so they’re very lenient and don’t set healthy boundaries for (in)appropriate behavior. In short, these parents are more like friends than caregivers. And their children may have a lot of issues learning at school, following rules, and listening to authority figures.

Authoritative parents, however, focus on the best aspects of the other styles. They strive to create a balance between rules and support. These parents set and enforce boundaries but also consider what their children think and how they feel about certain situations. What’s more, they explain why it’s necessary to have certain rules: there’s an emphasis on constant, clear communication.

As a result, kids raised in authoritative (rather than authoritarian) households are more likely to grow into responsible, happy, successful adults, who feel fine expressing their opinions and thinking for themselves.

#7

They didn't allow me to go out with my friends at all. I was basically grounded by default. My weekend schedule was jam-packed with various lessons. As a result, I took longer to develop social skills.

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#8

Learning at an early age to bottle up emotions and not to show any. No one can hurt you if you don’t feel. Growing up, I was constantly needled about my emotions. I was only child, and at any point I wasn’t acting as they thought I should they’d basically bully and make fun of me until I either broke and cried, to which I’d be disciplined, or just go numb. Now as a adult I’m my mid thirties, I’m emotionally stunted and have a difficult time connecting with anyone emotionally.

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#9

My mom raised me to believe that what other people think of me is more important than than what I think of myself. Every action had to be accompanied by a thought of how it would affect the family (i.e. her). So of course I became depressed because I don't want people seeing me doing something "wrong". Even this response has been rewritten a couple times because I can't stop myself.

She's recently complained about how I never talk to them and I'm pretty sure this is gonna be unloaded this weekend.

According to the author, they started up the thread because they were curious about "how others perceive their parents after they've grown up." They also had a more practical reason for asking the question, too.

"I was trying to farm and get to a certain minimum amount of karma, so that I can post on a subreddit. So I wanted to ask something that is relevant to everyone and start a conversation," u/VastPurpleSky told Bored Panda.

According to the OP, the biggest red parenting flag is the neglect of the children's welfare. The redditor shared their thoughts on parenting extremes in Asia, too. According to them, authoritarian parents "expect their child to be the top student in school so that they have better prospects in the future" and also compare their children to other kids.

"I guess it's okay to get the best out of the child, some kids can handle it but for those that can't, the parents have to take a step back and look out for the child's mental well-being. It's a huge red flag when the children feel overwhelmed and the parents are completely oblivious or worse ignore it," the OP said.

#10

I've always known


I asked my mom if she was proud of me. She said I hadn't done anything for her to be proud of.

I was 12.

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#11

my dad trauma dumped all these really dark and twisted details of what he went through on me as if I was his therapist

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#12

my dad would always buy my brother and i whatever we wanted if he hit or yelled at us. realizing now that i’m older it was just so we didn’t tell our mom

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However, some parents choose to be largely uninvolved in how their kids grow up. "In Singapore, there's a high cost of living and bringing up a child costs a lot, hence both parents have to work to support the family," u/VastPurpleSky explained.

"Neglect would cause the child to go astray when they become a teenager, so they might join a gang, purposely get low grades, or create trouble in school to gain the attention of their parents. Personally, I feel that neglect is worse than authoritarian parenting as there's no display of love and lack of attention where the child needs it most."

Meanwhile, redditor u/VastPurpleSky shared their thoughts on what they think are some signs of a great parent. "To me, it's the intention for the child that counts, and the awareness of the child's limitations, not pushing them to meet the expectations of the parents or society. And, of course, love and support from the parents instill confidence in the child," they told Bored Panda.

"Sometimes, kids can be lazy and unwilling to push themselves to become their best version and tend to give up easily, hence the parents are there to help them realize their true potential. [They] push them further to help their children become their best selves."

#13

Never ever said to me “. I love you”. Seriously, how f****d is that?

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#14

My parents moved house basically every other year. For them it was a new job, new opportunities … for me it meant regularly losing all my friends, new school, etc. I never built up a circle of friends and have problems to do so until this day.

When I had a kid, I made sure she can go to the same school from kindergarden to the final exams (which start next week, BTW), so she doesn’t have to go through this.

Now she’s very keen on finally getting to know a different environment when she’ll start uni in autumn. Probably she’s around here, complaining that her parents stayed at the same boring place all her life… ;-)

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#15

Buy ramen instead of nutritious food so that they could afford more cigarettes.

Mercilessly mock our insecurities and then say they were "just joking" and that we needed to "toughen up" when we got upset.

Refuse to apply for Medicaid or foodstamps because they weren't "trashy" and let me and my sister go sick/hungry for their pride. (This one makes me extra angry because as an adult now I know they qualified and also my maternal grandparents were well off and could have helped but my mother would rather starve than accept their scrutiny)

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According to the OP, it would be wonderful if parents "are able to gauge their children's ability properly and help them fulfill their aspirations without putting their thoughts and expectations too heavily into them and allow them to grow within their capabilities, and at the same time instill and cultivate good moral values in them."

What's also crucial is that parents have good intentions and show their kids that they love and support them. "Spending time with them and showing up and encouraging them during their time of need is really important!"

However, the redditor pointed out that, at the end of the day, it's hard to say what makes a great parent. "I've heard of people thanking their tiger mom only after they have grown up, and looking back, they can understand why their parents did what they did."

#16

responding with "do this because I said so". seems harmless, right? it can teach stubborn kids respect and obedience. My mom would often use it. I wasn't allowed to question things or point out mistakes. Now as an adult, I developed an inferior mindset. I'm often extremely obedient when interacting with people. I find it hard to find my own voice

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#17

They werent bad parents at all, but:

Stop saying "just ignore them and theyll get tired of you" when your child is getting bullied

It doesnt work. Your child will just be a punching bag. I did however break somones foot in 5th grade and never got bothered again.

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#18

Read my diary

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#19

First - Being inconsistent. One day mom would overly obsess about my homework, or how clean my room was, or what I was going to "do with my life", etc., the next day it was all forgotten as if it never happened.

Second - If I mentioned wanting to do anything, I was given a long list of why it could and would go wrong to the point where I felt beaten down and didn't want to do it anymore, then I was accused of never sticking to anything.

Third - Telling me I wasn't trying, or not trying hard enough, when in reality I was trying as best I could. It simply made me realize that there was no point in my efforts, so why bother at all.

#20

Growing up my father micromanaged everything to a point that he would decide how much time the window in my room will remain open, I wasn't allowed to open or close the window as I wish. This goes for everything, I had to take his permission for every little thing, I had no free will home was basically a military camp. I felt so suffocated in that house.

#21

Letting the TV be a babysitter.

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#22

Laughing at me for various s**t even though they were joking. Music, hobbies, girlfriends, my body. I understand they were joking but it took a lot to get my confidence back and they also wonder why I don't tell them anything about my life.

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#23

Giving my brother a present on my birthday.

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#24

Ignoring my autism diagnosis and acting as if I'll be fine in life if they treat me as they did my siblings. Turns out, a huge part of learning to navigate the world when you have autism involves learning coping strategies (that sometimes might not work for most people) and thus I was pushed into situations that caused meltdowns but without any coping strategies that actually worked I just became an anxious and depressed mess.

#25

Put a lock on my bedroom door

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#26

Let me eat as much as I want, to the point that I weighed 131kg at my peak. Losing all s**t is hard man. But I'm down to 94kg now and let me tell you, there is no possibility that my future kid(s) will ever be obese.

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#27

They isolated and neglected me.

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#28

They stayed together “for me”, my mum made me her therapist at the ripe age of 10, my mum talked to me about our bad economy, my mum wouldn’t teach me how to talk care of myself at all until i was 16, my dad laughed and made fun of me when i failed at stuff, my dad used to jokingly almost drown me and put me in situations where i was afraid, my dad would call me a pig for eating a lot, my mum always felt the need to point out my acne even when i didn’t ask, they fought in front of me and used me to their advantages in the arguments, they only ever congratulated me when it came to grades and sports. When i was younger i never realised how bad all this was because it was all I knew, it wasn’t until I was 16 i realised how f****d up it all was

#29

Making promises and not following through on them.

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#30

My parents weren’t bad parents but I would say they were kind of benignly neglectful. I was clothed and fed and loved but not guided in any way at all. Everything was up to me. If I did homework, if I brushed my teeth or bathed. if I went to school, applying for college. Luckily I’m pretty naturally a rule follower and self driven or who knows how I would have turned out.

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#31

Lots of yelling and bulling, spanking, then go to church like a good little Christian family wtf ?‍♀️ very confusing upbringing that’s all I’m saying

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#32

Completely shut down any kind of relationship conversation. It was a blanket "no". Not up for debate. Ok, I grew up in a pretty conservative part of the world but that's not an excuse to treat having a boyfriend as sacrilegious. ( In my all girl's K - 12 school, a student could get expelled for talking to a boy over the school wall. )

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#33

So I just want to preface this by saying that I had a good childhood, my parents loved me, and I believe they really did try their best.

One of the things they did that I think is bad parenting is they constantly tried to make sure things were "equal" between me and my siblings. For example, for awhile they experimented with paying us extra allowance for good grades. I was always good in school, so I almost always ended up with all A's, so I got a lot of money. My sibling was (and still is) a lazy f**k so they would hardly get any except for PE. Despite that, my parents found ways to "even things out" so they would still have some spending money. It created an incentive for my sibling to continue being a lazy f**k, and disincentivized me working hard. I still did because I wanted to go to college, but it definitely created animosity.

I think parents should treat their kids equitably, but children are not equal and should not be treated like they are equal. Each is an individual with their own strengths and weaknesses, and what works for some may not work for others.

#34

had money but never let us kids have regular medical check ups/ never got us braces no matter how bad our teeth are and said its our responsibility to do those things when we’re older :// They did horrible things but this realization often made me tear up. For context, I have a lifetime illness that needs checking up every 3 months

#35

- Never gave me any encouragement to do anything. Anything I wanted to do was met with negativity and criticism. Looking back, I think they were trying some reverse psychology b******t, but I’ve never worked that way and now I just don’t try to do anything, really.

- My Dad was the youngest of three brothers which obviously made him think that little brothers are naturally superior and always told him that he didn’t have to listen to me or do what I said. Which baby brother took as wholesale permission to do whatever he wanted - go to my room and start wrecking s**t, take any of my stuff he wanted, etc and if I told him to stop it’s always “I don’t have to listen to you! I don’t have to listen to you! Ha ha!” Unsurprisingly he also ended up getting into trouble at school a lot. We had a really bad relationship until I moved out for University.

- Used to punish me for telling the truth, which just led to me lying and hiding things and never really telling them anything at all to be honest. ]]>
Sat, 27 May 2023 19:30:04 +0530 Blogonian
Man Executes A Brilliant Bit Of Psychological Revenge On A Guy That Would Not Stop Hitting On His Girlfriend https://www.blogonian.com/man-executes-a-brilliant-bit-of-psychological-revenge-on-a-guy-that-would-not-stop-hitting-on-his-girlfriend https://www.blogonian.com/man-executes-a-brilliant-bit-of-psychological-revenge-on-a-guy-that-would-not-stop-hitting-on-his-girlfriend Someone consistently hitting on your partner can be flattering at first, but there are lines that, once crossed, mark these individuals as an enemy. Getting back at someone for their wrongdoing is a story beat as old as time, but it’s just as satisfying when it happens in real life as well. So sit down and enjoy this very clever and petty plan of vengeance shared by an internet user.

A guy got a clever bit of psychological revenge on a mechanic that kept hitting on his girlfriend. He simply gave him a gift, but one that would simultaneously alarm and confuse him, but ultimately accomplish OP’s goals.

Having your significant other constantly hit on can probably end up being annoying for both of you

Image credits: Kevin Bidwell (not the actual photo)

So this man decided to do something about the guy who started sending his GF flirty texts

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OP’s revenge was perfectly proportional to the “wrong” he suffered

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As many readers already noted, this was a particularly clever bit of revenge, as it accomplished two things. First, the mechanic was not actually harmed in any way, as he was at worst, annoying, hardly worthy of physical damage. At the same time, the guy’s “revenge” was completely innocent from the outside, but also conveyed a sense of danger to the mechanic. Wrapping the apple is a truly devious move, as it’s simultaneously harmless, yet it seems so suspicious. And in the tradition of revenge, he literally served a cold dish, which at least the French believe is the best method available.

Leave it to France to hide their revenge idioms in cooking terms. If you are wondering what makes “cold” revenge so enticing, it’s the idea that any plan of retribution is more enjoyable if it’s been planned, prepared and the execution is perfected. Imagine a dish, cooked, plated, then left to sit for hours. The food will, of course, have gone cold. So “revenge is a dish best served cold” uses food losing its temperature as a metaphor for time. A truly French way of seeing something. But the point stands, OP planned something after multiple instances of the mechanic flirting with his girlfriend, then he executed the idea with perfection. Perhaps not the Count of Monte Cristo, but should someone truly anger this man, he could probably put together a more complex bit of revenge.

Tales of vengeance are a staple of human fiction, as we love justice

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We as humans do enjoy a revenge tale as in fiction, as in real life. The aforementioned Count of Monte Cristo or more contemporary tales like John Wick all point to the fact that we as humans like justice and to see bad things happen to people who deserve it. Interestingly, humans aren’t the only species out there that enjoys revenge as a concept or experience. Camels, elephants, fish, lions, and most primates also exhibit joy at seeing a perceived opponent or enemy hurt. Interestingly, these animals also understand the concept that “the enemy of my enemy is my friend” and will assist another being that is fighting someone they dislike. So The Lion King meets John Wick seems like a blockbuster waiting to happen. Interestingly, even fish will attack other sea creatures that have “wronged” them in the past, which opens up the fascinating question of what exactly does fish drama look like.

Internet users wanted some more juicy details and OP delivered

Commenters loved his absolutely insidious plan

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Sat, 27 May 2023 11:30:06 +0530 Blogonian
“I Won’t Take Care Of Or Raise The Baby For Them”: Teen Refuses To Be Newborn’s Free Babysitter After Parents Announce Unexpected Pregnancy https://www.blogonian.com/i-wont-take-care-of-or-raise-the-baby-for-them-teen-refuses-to-be-newborns-free-babysitter-after-parents-announce-unexpected-pregnancy https://www.blogonian.com/i-wont-take-care-of-or-raise-the-baby-for-them-teen-refuses-to-be-newborns-free-babysitter-after-parents-announce-unexpected-pregnancy Experienced parents know that taking care of a child, a newborn in particular is a lot of constant, involved work. So one would expect that, when having a second child, the adults would at least have a plan for how to raise a newborn. But, as always in life, some parents get very misguided ideas about the entire situation.

A teenage internet user wanted to know if she was in the wrong for refusing to be a live-in babysitter for her parents. She detailed the entitled and pretty misguided idea her parents had that they would just continue with their lifestyle and have their daughter do most of the work. When OP pushed back, they were (somehow) deeply surprised, so she turned to the internet to get a more unbiased view of the situation. Spoiler alert, most people thought her parents were being deeply unreasonable.

Second-time parents decided that they would not let having a newborn get in the way of their lifestyle

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So they tried to get their teenage daughter to become basically a live-in babysitter, then were shocked when she refused

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Neglectful parents often end up raising resentful children

When people say “it takes a village” to raise a child, they normally mean a plethora of experiences, influences, and community help, not that parents can just pass off the responsibility to someone else. Yes, babysitters exist and even live-in nannies, but in these cases, a person volunteered to do the job, generally for money. Telling a child that it’s their new job is a pretty extreme case of “my house, my rules,” and one that if enforced, would have a lot of negative consequences in the future. They might gain a babysitter and lose a daughter. Now, some parents might think it’s pretty normal for a child, particularly an older child to help around the house. As the eldest in my own family, I was raised with a similar expectation. However, OP notes that her parents were basically uninvolved in her own life and seem to want to keep it that way. A kid helping around the house is not the same as them becoming a primary caregiver at a pivotal age.

OP is right to seek a way out of the situation and the fact that she already has a plan is commendable. Her parents really need a reality check, where their behavior is causing their daughter to uproot her entire life just to not become a full-time babysitter for her sibling. In the long run, this kind of behavior leads to long-term parental resentment, which can trigger a slew of other long-term issues, including anger, depression, and sometimes developmental issues down the line. Even if we set aside the worst-case scenario, the parents will have to come to grips with the fact that they chose their own comfort at the cost of a relationship with their eldest child. Even if they substitute OP with a “real” babysitter or nanny, they will have two children that will likely feel distance and abandonment. A child might not have the psychological tools to understand it, but they can still feel the negative emotions from being effectively unwanted and ignored.

Ultimately, OP’s parents just shirked their responsibilities and then tried to manipulate her

Regardless, from OP’s story and her willingness to leave the house in a year, it’s clear that she is not particularly attached to her parents, which gives us some insight into their hands-off parenting style. They have already made her independent, not a bad thing in itself, but at the cost of a real relationship. OP is, in a sense, doing the same thing they are doing to her. She is ditching a relationship to maintain her own lifestyle. However, at the end of the day, it’s not her child and her responsibility. She expresses being mostly just left alone, until, as in this story, her parents needed something from her. Their shock at being treated exactly how they treated OP would be comical if it wasn’t ultimately sad. But what cements their status as bad parents, instead of just clueless adults, is the manipulation they then attempt, telling their own daughter to “think about what she is throwing away.” One doesn’t have to be a genius to see the textbook attempt to pressure her into something through an emotional appeal. But based on OP’s description of their parenting style, they haven’t really earned any emotional points to leverage.

Commenters wholeheartedly sided with OP and thought the parents were deeply irresponsible

Others shared similar experiences with unusually entitled adults

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Sat, 27 May 2023 10:30:05 +0530 Blogonian
“A Lovely Gift For The Guy Hitting On My Partner”: People Are Loving This Guy’s Delightfully Evil Revenge On A Neighbor Who Wouldn’t Leave His GF Alone https://www.blogonian.com/a-lovely-gift-for-the-guy-hitting-on-my-partner-people-are-loving-this-guys-delightfully-evil-revenge-on-a-neighbor-who-wouldnt-leave-his-gf-alone https://www.blogonian.com/a-lovely-gift-for-the-guy-hitting-on-my-partner-people-are-loving-this-guys-delightfully-evil-revenge-on-a-neighbor-who-wouldnt-leave-his-gf-alone Someone consistently hitting on your partner can be flattering at first, but there are lines that, once crossed, mark these individuals as an enemy. Getting back at someone for their wrongdoing is a story beat as old as time, but it’s just as satisfying when it happens in real life as well. So sit down and enjoy this very clever and petty plan of vengeance shared by an internet user.

A guy got a clever bit of psychological revenge on a mechanic that kept hitting on his girlfriend. He simply gave him a gift, but one that would simultaneously alarm and confuse him, but ultimately accomplish OP’s goals.

Having your significant other constantly hit on can probably end up being annoying for both of you

Image credits: Kevin Bidwell (not the actual photo)

So this man decided to do something about the guy who started sending his GF flirty texts

Image credits: Bored Panda (not the actual photo)

Image source: MycroftTnetennba

OP’s revenge was perfectly proportional to the “wrong” he suffered

Image credits: Prostock-studio (not the actual photo)

As many readers already noted, this was a particularly clever bit of revenge, as it accomplished two things. First, the mechanic was not actually harmed in any way, as he was at worst, annoying, hardly worthy of physical damage. At the same time, the guy’s “revenge” was completely innocent from the outside, but also conveyed a sense of danger to the mechanic. Wrapping the apple is a truly devious move, as it’s simultaneously harmless, yet it seems so suspicious. And in the tradition of revenge, he literally served a cold dish, which at least the French believe is the best method available.

Leave it to France to hide their revenge idioms in cooking terms. If you are wondering what makes “cold” revenge so enticing, it’s the idea that any plan of retribution is more enjoyable if it’s been planned, prepared and the execution is perfected. Imagine a dish, cooked, plated, then left to sit for hours. The food will, of course, have gone cold. So “revenge is a dish best served cold” uses food losing its temperature as a metaphor for time. A truly French way of seeing something. But the point stands, OP planned something after multiple instances of the mechanic flirting with his girlfriend, then he executed the idea with perfection. Perhaps not the Count of Monte Cristo, but should someone truly anger this man, he could probably put together a more complex bit of revenge.

Tales of vengeance are a staple of human fiction, as we love justice

Image credits: Summit Entertainment

We as humans do enjoy a revenge tale as in fiction, as in real life. The aforementioned Count of Monte Cristo or more contemporary tales like John Wick all point to the fact that we as humans like justice and to see bad things happen to people who deserve it. Interestingly, humans aren’t the only species out there that enjoys revenge as a concept or experience. Camels, elephants, fish, lions, and most primates also exhibit joy at seeing a perceived opponent or enemy hurt. Interestingly, these animals also understand the concept that “the enemy of my enemy is my friend” and will assist another being that is fighting someone they dislike. So The Lion King meets John Wick seems like a blockbuster waiting to happen. Interestingly, even fish will attack other sea creatures that have “wronged” them in the past, which opens up the fascinating question of what exactly does fish drama look like.

Internet users wanted some more juicy details and OP delivered

Commenters loved his absolutely insidious plan

The post "A Lovely Gift For The Guy Hitting On My Partner": People Are Loving This Guy's Delightfully Evil Revenge On A Neighbor Who Wouldn't Leave His GF Alone first appeared on Bored Panda.

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Sat, 27 May 2023 10:30:05 +0530 Blogonian
“What Words/Phrases Do You Hear Someone Say And Immediately Know You’re Probably Not Going To Like The Person?” (85 Answers) https://www.blogonian.com/what-wordsphrases-do-you-hear-someone-say-and-immediately-know-youre-probably-not-going-to-like-the-person-85-answers https://www.blogonian.com/what-wordsphrases-do-you-hear-someone-say-and-immediately-know-youre-probably-not-going-to-like-the-person-85-answers say to make their potential friendships instantly go up in flames. 

Someone recently asked Reddit users to share words and phrases that alert them that they won't like a person, and readers did not hold back. Below, you’ll find a variety of statements that people can't stand, so enjoy learning what not to say upon meeting someone, and be sure to upvote the phrases that you consider to be red flags as well!

#1

Anything that involves "god's will"

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#2

“People don’t like me because I tell it like it is”

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#3

“No offense, but…”, just before saying the most offensive thing you’ve heard in your life.

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#4

“I’m not racist but…”

Yes. Yes you are.

#5

“I’m brutally honest”

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#6

Describes himself as an Alpha Male. Tells you implausible stories about how tough he is/how many women he's "Banged". Yeah, me an you gonna fall out soon buddy

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#7

"Men are logical/analytical, and women are emotional."

That's one of the most inaccurate statements I keep hearing every time I listen to a certain type of people on certain videos/podcasts.

#8

"Ugh I hate cats"

I can't trust someone who says that. People who hate cats, really hate cats. To the point of abuse.

#9

"We're a family here" in a work setting. Mother f****r you just laid off "cousin" Bill.

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#10

Women who say “I only have guy friends” which is usually followed by something like “women always bring drama / women are usually bitches / women can’t handle how real I am / women are always jealous of me.”

ETA: Yeah, it’s great having guy friends, but the problem is women who view other women as the enemy.

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#11

"Why didn't they just take the eagles to Mordor?"

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#12

'thoughts and prayers"

#13

You should smile more ?

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#14

Anyone who is rude to waitstaff.
Been on a few dates where potential partners treated the waiter/waitress like garbage.
Instant dislike and termination of the date.

Image credits: Tyrigoth

#15

"It's all a part of god's plan"

#16

MAGA.

#17

“I’m so bipolar” to explain why they are indecisive or to play off poor life choices. Or just to say to sound quirky. Really hate that. I’m bipolar and rarely tell anyone.

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#18

"Yes but you know there's worst" everytime you have an issue. Denying the pain of someone isn't helping them at all. Yes other have it worst, but at day D, hour H, I want to talk about my feeling and feel heard and seen. I want solutions or I want help or I want someone to b***h about the subject / person which / who is sensitive topic for me. Not thinking about others. That's not being selfish, that's destressing, and if you can't find a solution at least outing bad vibes.

#19

Boys will be boys

#20

"i have no problem with the gays, just keep it away from me"

#21

"Why isn't there a white history month" I'm not even huge into politics, but this says a lot about someone to me

#22

Anyone older who says "back in my day...you younger people don't know what hard work is..." Anything like that as if they couldn't buy a house on minimum wage and go to college without crippling debt. I personally graduated debt free thanks to scholarships but the older generations seem to not understand the wage/cost disparity between their generation and younger generations.

#23

I believe in the Bible as historical fact

#24

"Sheeple" As soon as I hear it I tune out everything else they have to say

#25

"snowflakes", "woke", or "unbeknownst".

Especially unbeknownst, I hate that word more than is reasonable to acknowledge.

#26

“Do your own research.” Quickly became the mantra of some of the most misinformed and ignorant people on the planet.

#27

“Let’s go Brandon”

#28

"I hate drama." I have never heard someone say this, unsolicited, and not been exhausted with their shenanigans within a day.

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#29

"Tough love" often seems to be used as an excuse to be a d**k. I get it when it's like an intervention, but most times I've personally heard it this was just people who wanted to start s**t.

#30

Woke.

#31

“I just say what everyone else is thinking”. Describing someone as an “alpha” “sigma” “beta”, or calling women “females”

#32

"Do you know who I am?"

#33

specifically anyone who refers to the covid as "the rona". i hate you.

#34

"The Election Was Stolen!"

#35

“You’re so quiet”

#36

"I removed one of your kidneys while you were unconscious."

#37

"I am an influencer / I have xxxx followers..."

#38

I had this new coworker who I didn’t have to work with, but could have made both of our jobs easier. He didn’t even need to say anything. At the first morning meeting he had a Daily Wire coffee mug that said, “this cup is filled with liberal tears.”
Yeah, no thanks dude. I don’t need your help with anything.

#39

Referring to something being "shoved down our throats". I've found it to be a red flag for reactionary/narcissistic/conspiratorial thinking.

#40

Got my shirt for x amount, my shoes for y amount type of people. You paid way more than normal people for stuff that's not something to brag about. Also do you really have no innate worth that you have to toss around price tags to attract people's attention.

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#41

"oh im compelled to do this totally normal activity because my OCD/adhd/bipolar is kicking in!"

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#42

If a person humiliates others for the sake of boosting his own ego, I immediately stop communicating with that person.

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#43

The gratuitous "God Bless"

#44

"As a straight, white, cisgender person..."

Ma'am this a Wendy's.

#45

A man who uses “Females” to refer to women.

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#46

"as an empath --"

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#47

"My ex was a narcissist". I didn't hear this nearly as often until the last year or so. Now suddenly everyone has had an ex that was a narcissist. I work in the behavioral health field and this one drives me crazy.

Like no, just because you both wanted different things in life doesn't make him selfish enough to be labeled with an actual *personality disorder,* ***oh my god.*** Just say you weren't compatible and move on with your life.

No offense to those who actually did genuinely date a narcissist.

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#48

“I’m the type of person thaaaat…” You always know it gonna be followed by some egotistical b******t. Ex: If you cross me I’ll cut you off real quick, don’t f**k with me.”

#49

“You’re talking too much” when I’m being quiet just chilling

#50

people who will insert, “well if trump was still in office…” in every single conversation despite having nothing to do with politics

#51

“Irregardless” or “It is what it is”

#52

LITERALLY.

Like, literally

#53

"As an ENFP/ISTJ/JKDSAJKHSDF/other alphabet soup personality test baloney..."

#54

"If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best"

#55

"it's none of my biz, but..."

#56

Anything involving crystal healing, essential oils doing more than just smelling nice, or projecting one's dreams into reality. I forget the exact term for the third thing, at this moment.

If any one of those things come up in conversation and you're being serious about it, I automatically don't trust you completely. If multiple are a part of your personality, I don't trust you at all.

#57

“Everything happens for a reason.”

Nah that’s just a b******t platitude you tell yourself because thinking the world operates on logic and reason is a coping mechanism for avoiding the reality that the world is unfair, unpredictable and bad things happen to good people all the time.

#58

Engagement, initiative…any kind of “group speak” that sounds like the corporate marketing manager plagiarized…

#59

“Normalize”

#60

People who lie/brag about their IQ. In my experience they seem like the dumbest people.

#61

When talking about someone favorite sports team and they use the word "we". What did you do to contribute to the team.

#62

“My truth”

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#63

To play devil’s advocate… proceed to argue for some unhinged sociopathic s**t…

Just say you hate every damn person on this planet and leave us alone.

#64

You know what your problem is don't you?

#65

If they refer to themself as a brand.

#66

"I'm a -insert star sign- so that's why I'm (being a c**t)"

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#67

Where’s my huuuuug?

Immediately no.

#68

Living my best life

#69

For me it’s not words or phrases. It’s tone.

If they sound stressed or panicked or impatient over a small issue, I immediately know they’re a chore to deal with.

For example, you toss trash in the bin, miss. Go to pick it up, and they jump on you for littering.

#70

When they start bragging about themselves when they first meet you.

#71

I work in construction and am gay. I think construction workers are the only ones who still say 'that's gay' about anything bad. So, any of those guys

#72

"oh, that's such typical [star sign] behaviour"

#73

"I'm a free spirit"

#74

"meat is murder"

#75

"I'm on the spectrum"


"Stop enforcing gender norms"


"LETS F*****G GOOOOO!"


"That's so f*****g cringe"


"Donald Trump was the best president ever"


"Donald Trump was the worst president ever"


"Sex and gender are a social construct"


"Capitalism is destroying the world"

#76

Anyone using words like "literally", "toxic" or "problematic" in every other sentence. It's like these words have lost all meaning.

#77

"stop being weird"

#78

" you're part of the problem" people who say this are a part of the problem.

#79

"All men are trash"

#80

"wambulance"

I've never heard anyone use that term who wasn't a flaming douchebag.

#81

“Say it louder for the ones in the back “…

#82

“…just saying.”

#83

Anyone who uses the phrase "are you/they on crack?" in response to a joke. Makes them seem very judgmental and like they have almost no sense of humor. Plus it makes it awkward for everyone.

#84

« I’m vegan »

#85

"My pronouns are..."

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Sat, 27 May 2023 09:30:05 +0530 Blogonian
75 People That Realized Their Parents Were Quite Toxic When They Grew Up Share Their Stories https://www.blogonian.com/75-people-that-realized-their-parents-were-quite-toxic-when-they-grew-up-share-their-stories https://www.blogonian.com/75-people-that-realized-their-parents-were-quite-toxic-when-they-grew-up-share-their-stories There is no such thing as being a ‘perfect’ parent—it’s human to make mistakes. However, some decisions and parenting methods have a far more negative impact than others. And if those mistakes occur frequently enough and pile up, you might hear folks whispering about what a bad parent someone is. Unfortunately, in some cases, that reputation is entirely justified. And these people’s kids are left to deal with the emotional fallout for years and even decades to come.

Redditor u/VastPurpleSky asked people to take a look back at their childhoods and share the things that they now realize were examples of truly bad parenting. Read on for their open and honest stories. 

Bored Panda got in touch with the author of the thread, u/VastPurpleSky, and they shared their thoughts on parenting red and green flags. Read on for our full interview with the OP.

#1

Made us feel like they were doing us a favor by raising us. For a long time I felt like I was always indebted to my parents and nothing I could do would ever be enough.

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When it comes to parenting, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. A lot depends on each individual family, the local culture and customs, and everyone’s relationships with everyone else at home.

So the advice that might help one family become closer might accidentally spark more tension in another. It’s essential to be very careful before making blanket statements about how (not) to raise kids—there are subtle nuances once all the basics (shelter, food, education, emotional support, etc.) are taken care of.

But broadly speaking, according to researchers, there are four main parenting styles, and one of them stands out from the crowd as the best approach.

#2

Three words:

"Boys dont cry."



I dedicate this comment to my school counselor and my PE coach who both helped me get off the road to becoming a psychopath by telling me very much so that boys can and do indeed cry.

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#3

They didn't allow me to go out with my friends at all. I was basically grounded by default. My weekend schedule was jam-packed with various lessons. As a result, I took longer to develop social skills.

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The four parenting styles are authoritative (the one you should aim for), permissive, authoritarian, and uninvolved (aka neglectful). The latter three are the ones that can potentially cause the most issues for kids growing up. For example, authoritarian parents have a “my way or the highway” approach, don’t consider their children’s feelings, and expect them to follow their rules to the letter, without question.

However, this focus on obedience and punishment can lead their kids to develop self-esteem issues or even develop anger problems, Verywell Family notes.

Meanwhile, uninvolved parents expect their kids to raise themselves which can also lead to self-esteem issues further down the line. They tend to ignore their children, how they’re doing at school, and who they’re friends with. They simply don’t spend quality time with their kids or at home. As a result, there are often few rules that need to be followed, and the munchkins don’t get the guidance and attention that they need and want.

#4

My parents moved house basically every other year. For them it was a new job, new opportunities … for me it meant regularly losing all my friends, new school, etc. I never built up a circle of friends and have problems to do so until this day.

When I had a kid, I made sure she can go to the same school from kindergarden to the final exams (which start next week, BTW), so she doesn’t have to go through this.

Now she’s very keen on finally getting to know a different environment when she’ll start uni in autumn. Probably she’s around here, complaining that her parents stayed at the same boring place all her life… ;-)

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#5

Why can't you be like.......?

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#6

my dad would always buy my brother and i whatever we wanted if he hit or yelled at us. realizing now that i’m older it was just so we didn’t tell our mom

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Permissive parents, on the other hand, might set some rules but will rarely enforce them. They believe that it’s best to interfere as little as possible in their kids’ development, so they’re very lenient and don’t set healthy boundaries for (in)appropriate behavior. In short, these parents are more like friends than caregivers. And their children may have a lot of issues learning at school, following rules, and listening to authority figures.

Authoritative parents, however, focus on the best aspects of the other styles. They strive to create a balance between rules and support. These parents set and enforce boundaries but also consider what their children think and how they feel about certain situations. What’s more, they explain why it’s necessary to have certain rules: there’s an emphasis on constant, clear communication.

As a result, kids raised in authoritative (rather than authoritarian) households are more likely to grow into responsible, happy, successful adults, who feel fine expressing their opinions and thinking for themselves.

#7

Learning at an early age to bottle up emotions and not to show any. No one can hurt you if you don’t feel. Growing up, I was constantly needled about my emotions. I was only child, and at any point I wasn’t acting as they thought I should they’d basically bully and make fun of me until I either broke and cried, to which I’d be disciplined, or just go numb. Now as a adult I’m my mid thirties, I’m emotionally stunted and have a difficult time connecting with anyone emotionally.

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#8

my dad trauma dumped all these really dark and twisted details of what he went through on me as if I was his therapist

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#9

My family still believes beating a kid is a great form of discipline instead of just sitting down with and talking to your child. Who would’ve thought that Beating your child when they’re young, and barely getting to know them when they’re a teenager, would lead to them almost never reaching out to you when they’ve grown up and moved out? Mind blowing right??

Also, I absolutely CANNOT stress enough how important it is to show up to your child’s extracurricular activities. I played tennis all 4 years of high school and did marching band as well and I can count on 1 hand how many times they even bothered to show up. Your job is never going to remember you worked there, but your child will *always* remember you *weren’t* there.

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According to the author, they started up the thread because they were curious about "how others perceive their parents after they've grown up." They also had a more practical reason for asking the question, too.

"I was trying to farm and get to a certain minimum amount of karma, so that I can post on a subreddit. So I wanted to ask something that is relevant to everyone and start a conversation," u/VastPurpleSky told Bored Panda.

According to the OP, the biggest red parenting flag is the neglect of the children's welfare. The redditor shared their thoughts on parenting extremes in Asia, too. According to them, authoritarian parents "expect their child to be the top student in school so that they have better prospects in the future" and also compare their children to other kids.

"I guess it's okay to get the best out of the child, some kids can handle it but for those that can't, the parents have to take a step back and look out for the child's mental well-being. It's a huge red flag when the children feel overwhelmed and the parents are completely oblivious or worse ignore it," the OP said.

#10

Letting the TV be a babysitter.

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#11

All the weight comments. I was always a chunky kid and definitely needed/need to lose the weight, but I’ve never been able to shake the idea that I don't deserve to be loved, because of those comments. I can always look down and see 50 extra reasons to hate myself

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#12

Never ever said to me “. I love you”. Seriously, how f****d is that?

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However, some parents choose to be largely uninvolved in how their kids grow up. "In Singapore, there's a high cost of living and bringing up a child costs a lot, hence both parents have to work to support the family," u/VastPurpleSky explained.

"Neglect would cause the child to go astray when they become a teenager, so they might join a gang, purposely get low grades, or create trouble in school to gain the attention of their parents. Personally, I feel that neglect is worse than authoritarian parenting as there's no display of love and lack of attention where the child needs it most."

Meanwhile, redditor u/VastPurpleSky shared their thoughts on what they think are some signs of a great parent. "To me, it's the intention for the child that counts, and the awareness of the child's limitations, not pushing them to meet the expectations of the parents or society. And, of course, love and support from the parents instill confidence in the child," they told Bored Panda.

"Sometimes, kids can be lazy and unwilling to push themselves to become their best version and tend to give up easily, hence the parents are there to help them realize their true potential. [They] push them further to help their children become their best selves."

#13

Read my diary

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#14

Laughing at me for various s**t even though they were joking. Music, hobbies, girlfriends, my body. I understand they were joking but it took a lot to get my confidence back and they also wonder why I don't tell them anything about my life.

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#15

Buy ramen instead of nutritious food so that they could afford more cigarettes.

Mercilessly mock our insecurities and then say they were "just joking" and that we needed to "toughen up" when we got upset.

Refuse to apply for Medicaid or foodstamps because they weren't "trashy" and let me and my sister go sick/hungry for their pride. (This one makes me extra angry because as an adult now I know they qualified and also my maternal grandparents were well off and could have helped but my mother would rather starve than accept their scrutiny)

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According to the OP, it would be wonderful if parents "are able to gauge their children's ability properly and help them fulfill their aspirations without putting their thoughts and expectations too heavily into them and allow them to grow within their capabilities, and at the same time instill and cultivate good moral values in them."

What's also crucial is that parents have good intentions and show their kids that they love and support them. "Spending time with them and showing up and encouraging them during their time of need is really important!"

However, the redditor pointed out that, at the end of the day, it's hard to say what makes a great parent. "I've heard of people thanking their tiger mom only after they have grown up, and looking back, they can understand why their parents did what they did."

#16

Giving my brother a present on my birthday.

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#17

Completely shut down any kind of relationship conversation. It was a blanket "no". Not up for debate. Ok, I grew up in a pretty conservative part of the world but that's not an excuse to treat having a boyfriend as sacrilegious. ( In my all girl's K - 12 school, a student could get expelled for talking to a boy over the school wall. )

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#18

Nothing I did was good enough. Like, if she asked me to fold laundry and I'd do it, and then she'd redo it because I guess I folded the towels wrong. I'd clean my room, she'd come in and redo everything I'd done. And she wouldn't teach me how she wanted things done, she'd just send me away and tell me she'd do it herself. Taught me that I shouldn't even bother trying to help because she's just going to redo whatever I did anyway, because I guess I was just a failure.

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#19

responding with "do this because I said so". seems harmless, right? it can teach stubborn kids respect and obedience. My mom would often use it. I wasn't allowed to question things or point out mistakes. Now as an adult, I developed an inferior mindset. I'm often extremely obedient when interacting with people. I find it hard to find my own voice

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#20

Let me eat as much as I want, to the point that I weighed 131kg at my peak. Losing all s**t is hard man. But I'm down to 94kg now and let me tell you, there is no possibility that my future kid(s) will ever be obese.

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#21

First - Being inconsistent. One day mom would overly obsess about my homework, or how clean my room was, or what I was going to "do with my life", etc., the next day it was all forgotten as if it never happened.

Second - If I mentioned wanting to do anything, I was given a long list of why it could and would go wrong to the point where I felt beaten down and didn't want to do it anymore, then I was accused of never sticking to anything.

Third - Telling me I wasn't trying, or not trying hard enough, when in reality I was trying as best I could. It simply made me realize that there was no point in my efforts, so why bother at all.

#22

I've always known


I asked my mom if she was proud of me. She said I hadn't done anything for her to be proud of.

I was 12.

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#23

- Never gave me any encouragement to do anything. Anything I wanted to do was met with negativity and criticism. Looking back, I think they were trying some reverse psychology b******t, but I’ve never worked that way and now I just don’t try to do anything, really.

- My Dad was the youngest of three brothers which obviously made him think that little brothers are naturally superior and always told him that he didn’t have to listen to me or do what I said. Which baby brother took as wholesale permission to do whatever he wanted - go to my room and start wrecking s**t, take any of my stuff he wanted, etc and if I told him to stop it’s always “I don’t have to listen to you! I don’t have to listen to you! Ha ha!” Unsurprisingly he also ended up getting into trouble at school a lot. We had a really bad relationship until I moved out for University.

- Used to punish me for telling the truth, which just led to me lying and hiding things and never really telling them anything at all to be honest.

#24

Lots of yelling and bulling, spanking, then go to church like a good little Christian family wtf ?‍♀️ very confusing upbringing that’s all I’m saying

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#25

The tooth fairy gave me $20 per tooth, so I rushed to get a few out.

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#26

They werent bad parents at all, but:

Stop saying "just ignore them and theyll get tired of you" when your child is getting bullied

It doesnt work. Your child will just be a punching bag. I did however break somones foot in 5th grade and never got bothered again.

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#27

Put a lock on my bedroom door

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#28

Pitted my brothers and me against each other for approval. My older brother gotr praise for good grades and musical talent, younger brother for being great athlete, youngest brother for being the baby of the family, sister was daddy's little girl. I was the loser with no talent (not true, I was just too shy to show myself for fear of being laughed at...which I was often).

My dad terrorized me (fear of heights) and laughed while my mom literally stood by and took pictures of me crying.

#29

Making promises and not following through on them.

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#30

My mom raised me to believe that what other people think of me is more important than than what I think of myself. Every action had to be accompanied by a thought of how it would affect the family (i.e. her). So of course I became depressed because I don't want people seeing me doing something "wrong". Even this response has been rewritten a couple times because I can't stop myself.

She's recently complained about how I never talk to them and I'm pretty sure this is gonna be unloaded this weekend.

#31

My parents weren’t bad parents but I would say they were kind of benignly neglectful. I was clothed and fed and loved but not guided in any way at all. Everything was up to me. If I did homework, if I brushed my teeth or bathed. if I went to school, applying for college. Luckily I’m pretty naturally a rule follower and self driven or who knows how I would have turned out.

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#32

They isolated and neglected me.

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#33

They still think spanking is one of the best forms of punishment

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#34

So I just want to preface this by saying that I had a good childhood, my parents loved me, and I believe they really did try their best.

One of the things they did that I think is bad parenting is they constantly tried to make sure things were "equal" between me and my siblings. For example, for awhile they experimented with paying us extra allowance for good grades. I was always good in school, so I almost always ended up with all A's, so I got a lot of money. My sibling was (and still is) a lazy f**k so they would hardly get any except for PE. Despite that, my parents found ways to "even things out" so they would still have some spending money. It created an incentive for my sibling to continue being a lazy f**k, and disincentivized me working hard. I still did because I wanted to go to college, but it definitely created animosity.

I think parents should treat their kids equitably, but children are not equal and should not be treated like they are equal. Each is an individual with their own strengths and weaknesses, and what works for some may not work for others.

#35

Differentiated between son and daughter

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#36

All they ever cared about is sending my sister and I to university and never thought about the consequences (They both had degrees themselves).They never really encouraged us to pursue other hobbies or non-uni options. It back-fired big time my sister is in a crappy grad job and me realizes university was a waste of time. I also discovered new interests which I would probably never had discovered if I was still living with my parents.

#37

Ignoring my autism diagnosis and acting as if I'll be fine in life if they treat me as they did my siblings. Turns out, a huge part of learning to navigate the world when you have autism involves learning coping strategies (that sometimes might not work for most people) and thus I was pushed into situations that caused meltdowns but without any coping strategies that actually worked I just became an anxious and depressed mess.

#38

I'm not grown just yet, but ik this is bad, and if not bad, absolutely f*****g stressful. My mom would do all these nice things for us, like take us on expensive trips and get our favorite foods, and right after she would find something small to yell at us for and then bring up the fact that she spent money on us, if any one of us responded in a way she didn't like, she would make us give her the money she spent on us back.

#39

Not having "the talk."

Refusing to let me have a girlfriend in junior high, saying I could date when I turned sixteen.

When I turned sixteen refused to let me take the car because they were afraid I had a date, said they didn't want me getting a girl pregnant, and I couldn't date until I was 18.

When I'm an adult, start asking about when I'm going to start dating and give them grandkids.

Gee, I don't really know. You absolutely mucked up my developmental years when I should have been learning all this stuff, now as I try to stumble through this as an adult, I just come off as weird and creepy.

Thanks a lot.

#40

My mom has 4 daughters, I'm the youngest one. We didn't have lots of money, but we had what we needed.


Unfortunately, as the 4th kid this is often the limit of parental support you'll get. I get that 4 kids are a TON of work and I'll forever be proud of my mom for the way she raised us all, but honestly, I was a pretty bright kid with a lot of interest in music, art, computers and such, when I wasn't reading I was drawing, ALL THE TIME. I wrote stories, I drew comics, I read several books per week as a kid, the whole shebang. I sometimes wish my mother would've picked up on that more, maybe some guitar lessons or better drawing utensils, maybe just some not-so-obviously-feigned interest in my hobbies. (She did what she could but she's a terrible liar). She loved that I was reading so much of course, but without anyone to engage with it just became a way of escaping reality instead of leaving my comfort zone and doing something new.

Anyway, it became next to impossible for me to share anything I've worked on with anybody because I felt like I annoyed people, and over the years I kinda stopped working on personal projects bc I felt stupid about it.

So yeah, TL;DR: wish my mom would've cultivated my interests a bit more. Its hard to find a hobby as a grown up lol

#41

Uf, that's gonna be a long one, just need to get this off my chest.
My mother had diffulties giving birth and she 100% knew that I had spwnt hours suffocating inside of her. This cused brain damage, but my parents didn't even check if there's something wrong with me.
When I went to the proper doctor she literally cried: "Why didn't they bring you to the specialist as a child?". They just thought it's ok because I walked talked, started reading very early, made it to school, made to uni. My mom hates that I take meds to improve my problems. She says that I can do without drugs even though she knows what happens when I don't take them.
Also they always treated me as an adult both physically and mentally. They were keen tourists and never bothered that I can't walk as much as they can or that I might be bored /thirsty /hungry. As for mentally, they didn't get that child's mind wirk not like one of an adult. When I was playing and imagining things they asked me not to be stupid. "You know magic isn't real". Yeah, I know, but I'm playing, I am five, it a game!
I was always my mother's girlfriend, confidant to whom she revealed her intimate secrets.
Later when my parents had divorced my mom took her boyfriend to our apartment and they had wild sex, you know, as in bad porn with yelling your lungs out, moaning and other stuff. It lasted for hours at night. I had no place to go and it was in the time of my finals. She never saw it as a problem "because we're friends and you're a big girl, act like an adult, there's nothing wrong with having sex".
After I had graduated from uni I went to be an au pair. I was in shock that people really ask their kids stuff like "How was your day?", that they care for what their kids feel, read bedtime stories even if the kids are already "big" (they were seven and nine), that they just care.

#42

I’m still a teen living with my parents but their are definitely a lot of things they do wrong that I don’t need to be grown to realize. One thing that comes to mind is my mother always just wants peace and to look at the good side which isn’t always bad but, with her that means if someone does something bad she will find the smallest good to make them seem okay. A few days ago I was talking to my mom about a friends mom who bought us some fast food and my mother knowing I don’t like this friends mom says “see she’s not all bad” now this friends mom is extremely emotionally abusive I can not stress the amount of pain she puts her child in and my mother knows this and is saying she isn’t all bad because she bough some $20 fast food. She also just doesn’t listen to me I remember I told her a therapist I had at the time was saying a lot of s****y things and that I didn’t trust him and don’t feel comfortable telling him things, she told me we’re going to keep seeing him “just in case I wanna kill myself” as If I didn’t just tell her I didn’t trust him and wasn’t comfortable talking to him. It was weeks before I convinced her to let me leave him

#43

My parents were great for the most part, there's only one thing that I would consider bad. And that's saying "You need to try your best in school" now this doesn't sound bad right? I would agree, but anytime I did bad on a test I would get this long lecture about how I need to "try my best and Do my work" Which really made it feel like that my best was never enough, I'm pretty much over it now, but boy the easiest way to get on my nerves now is to suggest that I'm not doing my best.

#44

My parents were great with me, but of course no one is perfect so here's mine: Constantly blaming on us (me and my brothers) that the house was dirty and untidy to the point we were convinced we were a disaster. It was interesting when I moved out and realized my dorm first and my apartment later were always pretty neat while the family house was still a mess. The funny thing is that they will still blame it on us when we go back to spend a holiday with them or so. Gotta love them.

#45

Not trusting me that I'll be able to take care of myself. My mom was so overprotective that I wasn't allowed to stay in my groupmate's house for sleepover. This was for my thesis and I was in college. We were 4 in the group. I was chatting with them through Skype throughout the entire night. haha!

#46

My parents did a phenomenal job with me and my siblings but there are two things I wish they had done differently -

1. it wasn’t good for my work ethic to be told how smart I was all the time, because it definitely made me feel like I didn’t have to try very hard in school or at extracurriculars or at work.

2. Rather than let my brother and I resolve our own problems, my mother would always just make snap judgements about who was right or wrong, which could not be appealed, and I believe that ultimately created a lot of distance between us for a long time. It felt like we grew up as adversaries, always trying to use her mom-power against each other. It made me bitter because as the older brother I rarely got the benefit of the doubt and I resented how easily he could get me in trouble if he wanted to.

#47

had money but never let us kids have regular medical check ups/ never got us braces no matter how bad our teeth are and said its our responsibility to do those things when we’re older :// They did horrible things but this realization often made me tear up. For context, I have a lifetime illness that needs checking up every 3 months

#48

Comparing my sister and I, making us compete for their approval. "X, why can't you be independent like Y?", "Y, look at your sister's grades. You should learn from her".

It is so engraved in our brains that we compete naturally and subconsciously now, even as adults. No need to say that our relationship isn't the best.

#49

I feel a little awkward writing this because I'm currently living with my family and getting on better with my parents than I sometimes have. That said:

- Not teaching me how to escape from situations in terms of logistics and transport. Independence was always about how to get from a to b by myself (or from one carer to another), not how to leave b and get to a by myself.

Because I have communication and emotional issues, that made me feel trapped and created a lot of unnecessary conflict when I couldn't escape the scene, which in turn made my parents and other people think I was less mature than I actually was.

I don't mean that they didn't teach me how to leave a place socially, but rather that they didn't teach me the practical part of it. I'd be taught how to get on a plane to go on holiday, not how to leave the house and get a plane home, and so on.

And this was a problem if I wanted to *stay* somewhere as well, sometimes, because they'd want me to leave at the same time unless I was really mature enough to go where I pleased in that situation, or someone didn't mind looking after me.

- Being too "normal" as parents. Despite supporting me financially now to go to a specialist school and buying me equipment and stuff for my hobby, and despite being a little eccentric themselves, they both had very regular jobs and I think they kind of expected me to be a more regular person in that way.

In hindsight, perhaps there would have been serious downsides, but I envy the kinds of parents who would, well, you know, some kid who's into music and they book them a set at a bar, or some kid who starts a business and they give them some legal framework for it.

In hindsight, maybe this is too much to expect from them, and honestly, I've taken the tremendous support they *have* given me for granted, but it's frustrating to know that I could have been luckier in that way.

- Worrying that certain things would be a nuiscance

I sometimes feel like my parents treat the house a bit like a museum. Although they do sometimes allow me to film there with a crew, I feel like I can't change it as much as I'd like or else I'd get into trouble.

In my teens, I was no longer allowed to invite large numbers for birthday parties because they were afraid the place would get trashed or something.

- Getting me to meet other adults

This shouldn't be considered bad parenting; I would always feel excluded when they were invited without me, whether I liked the adults or not, and I was quite lonely compared to other kids.

But it meant that I invested a lot of time and energy into certain people who didn't see me as equals, and also meant that I had a lot of traumatic experiences with people whose lives weren't as long as the average young person's would be.


- Taking me to the wrong schools

My first school was adequate as schools go, but it was a private school and it made me very sheltered from the reality of the world for most people. My second school was too rough for me, I got teased and it was not really suitable in that way.

It wasn't their fault, but I also think a lack of understanding of my condition was a problem for me growing up.

- Gender issues

This is the one exception. I'm getting on worse with them on this one.

#50

Had children.

#51

Saying „don’t talk back, be better than him”, like literally if someone was talking s**t to me they would always tell me to ignore it, because it’s not worth it. After some time I realize that there are very few situation when you should ignore this, and in most cases you should stand up for yourself and not allow something like this

#52

Low-key blackmail me. My mom stared to realise that whenever she would want me to do something, I was much more likely to do it when she offered something in return. So like if she wanted me to go to the barber, I would get a packet of chips or some chocolate as a reward of sorts.

But as time went by this started to escalate as I became more of a problem child (not doing my homework or studying, skipping school) and she turned from giving me stuff to make me do work to taking stuff from me to get me to do stuff. I used to love my PC and used to love to game because I didn't really have much of a social life in real life so I would rely on it to remain sane. My mom having realised how important it was to me would tell me stuff like 'The next time you don't go to school/ don't do your homework/ do x or y chore, you don't get to play on your computer for a day.'

While this might work for a lot of people (I'm aware that grounding your kids is relatively normal) this essentially was a learning experience for me. I realised that I could use their means against them and ensure that I get my way. I started to ask myself, 'What do my parents care about?' and the only thing they cared more than my education or social life was my wellbeing and health.
Knowing this, everytime my mom give me an ultimatum I would tell her, if she pulls the wire on the WiFi or hide my PC somewhere, I would starve myself for the rest of the day.

At first, my parents thought I wouldn't be able to handle it but they very quickly realised I didn't give a c**p if I didn't eat for a day or two and were essentially forced to accept that they can't really punish me by taking stuff because I would just ruin my own health to spite them.

This behaviour escalated to the point I would just use my own body against them to get the things I wanted or do whatever I wanted with no restraints. So to parents who might be doing this, please make sure your kids don't end up like I did.

(Apologise for bad English I'm not a native speaker)

#53

They'd do all household chores. They'd never tell me to do any particular chore. They'd always complete each chore before I was ever aware it existed. If I ever noticed them doing some chore and expressed interest in joining, they'd always say, "no, I've got it, don't worry".

Then after the fact they'd just generically scold/shame me for being selfish and rude because I never helping out in the house and have zero life skills or consideration for others' tireless work.

And they'd actually make me believe it's true because I was indeed never helping out in the house. But it was only due to the stupid unecessary social dynamic of their own creation. They actually expected that I magically guess/assume what they want the house to look like, race them to do the chore before they do, and successfully fight them when they insist politely on doing it. No wonder when I was a kid I thought chores were so hard. As soon as I left home for college I just naturally did all chores effortlessly with no problem.

#54

They stayed together “for me”, my mum made me her therapist at the ripe age of 10, my mum talked to me about our bad economy, my mum wouldn’t teach me how to talk care of myself at all until i was 16, my dad laughed and made fun of me when i failed at stuff, my dad used to jokingly almost drown me and put me in situations where i was afraid, my dad would call me a pig for eating a lot, my mum always felt the need to point out my acne even when i didn’t ask, they fought in front of me and used me to their advantages in the arguments, they only ever congratulated me when it came to grades and sports. When i was younger i never realised how bad all this was because it was all I knew, it wasn’t until I was 16 i realised how f****d up it all was

#55

Growing up my father micromanaged everything to a point that he would decide how much time the window in my room will remain open, I wasn't allowed to open or close the window as I wish. This goes for everything, I had to take his permission for every little thing, I had no free will home was basically a military camp. I felt so suffocated in that house.

#56

Starting at 4 I went to the daycare at 8:00 and was one of the last ones there. The summer between 2nd and 3rd grade mom couldn’t afford daycare for both of us so I became a 7 year old latch key kid.

#57

abusing your child verbally and physically and gaslighting them into thinking it never happened. also leaving them to take care of their toddler sibling at at 8 for a while is pretty high up there. also just kicking your teen/pre-teen out whenever you feel like it because you "have the power to do that"

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Terrorized me for getting in trouble at school. Hey, uhhhh... maybe public school isn't the greatest environment for someone with Asperger's. And no, I don't have ADD or ADHD and I certainly don't need medication for my misdiagnosis. Thanks for the tardive dyskinesia though!

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That evrrything had to be just perfect. Add a kid who was a rule follower, undiagnosed ADHD and my perfectionist stream is a mile wide.

And now as an adult my mum doesn’t actually understand perfectionism. I’ve literally got ‘if you were a perfectionist you’d at least have a clean house’

Thanks mum.

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I had nearly 0 restrictions growing up. Didn't ever have a curfew or told I couldn't go somewhere even if far away.
They left me to watch the trailer by myself that we camped in the summers sometimes and I'd party hard doing drugs and drinking under 18.
I'm doing things a lot differently as I don't want my kids involved with those things. Sure I had lots of fun but also lost many friends and saw lot's of messed up things along the way and would have wanted more time to be a kid and actually have some discipline.
My parents were/are super nice and that is/was their problem lol.

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My dad "motivating" me through guilt trips.

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Kinda everything: constant screaming, being toxic af, drinking, not letting me to do anything, fueling my anxiety and making me scared of outside and people (and then being mad at me for not going outside lmao), not making sure I have at least normal education, not buying me encyclopedias I wanted, not caring about my actual talents but forcing me to play piano, s******g on anything I'm interested in, dragging me to clinic everytime I sneeze but closing eyes on my mental health, not caring how I look etc etc etc...

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hmm, there was [this doozy](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/a85w78/whats_the_most_strangely_unique_punishment_you/ec8cujt/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3), my mom liked to use a cutting board on me as a fairly common punishment, plus there was a handful of times i can recall my dad trying to start a fistfight with me (yelling at me to "put em up"). oh and all the times my belongings were under threat of being taken out to the driveway and destroyed in a number of different ways purely because i didn't look away from the TV fast enough or whatever.

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My father was somewhat abusive for a long time, and so was my mother. I thought it was normal. I thought the yelling and the hitting was just what parenting normally was.

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I am 13 but had to mature at 5.Favorites, underplaying your kids,don’t accept your kids opinions,Yell at them for something out of there control and force you to do something that you want them to do

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Smacking. I don’t think I realised how much it affected me because I don’t go around hitting people but I’m definitely affected by it. What was scariest was that they would do it calmly.

Like, they both agreed at some stage that a smack is an acceptable form of punishment. My sister & I would be disobedient (within normal childhood limits) and we would be taken to our rooms, over the knee, and smacked.

It was traumatic. I can understand & empathise with a parent that gives a child a smack because they are at their wits end super stressed because they usually feel immense guilt afterwards. But my parents love to tout the ‘children don’t come with manuals’ diatribe to excuse their inability to research anything.

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Carrying their burdens, which lead to me neglecting myself and not having a sense of identity.

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Saying things are bad without saying why

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Withholding food

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I wasn’t aware of it as a child; I am the oldest of three boys five and six years apart (my younger brother is five years younger than me, and the youngest is six years younger than him). Only the middle brother was planned, and in retrospect, it showed. He was the most favored and the youngest was next most favored because he was the baby. So I got all the emotional neglect and trust issues.

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Saying that I couldn't do anything or handle anything

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Well it's not a new realisation, but;



My dad (although he's an amazing person and my absolute most consistent support system and role model) was barely every around when I was growing up. He didn't notice until I actually confronted my parents a few years ago. It meant I had to take care of myself way earlier in life than most kids ought to.



My mom was an alcoholic when I was growing up. She won't admit it, but my two older siblings both agree. In her "defense" she was doing it to cope with the fact that my stepfather was beating her (and partially myself). Despite understanding her perspective after a *lot* of conversations about it, I'd say she was not being a good parent. She also tried to convince me that a lot of my worst traumas growing up were just bad dreams. Took a lot of therapy for me to stop being constantly angry over this.



On the other hand, though, I taught myself to view the whole situation as a lesson on what *not* to do if I ever become a parent, rather than just hating my parents for it.

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Overall I had good parents, but they're human so they made mistakes.

I would say communication was the biggest issue. They didn't communicate well with each other, and they didn't communicate well with my brother and me. I often didn't feel safe to talk about issues, a lot of times I got the reply: "You're making a big fuss over nothing" or something like that. I didn't feel like I was taken seriously.

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Beating us children up

Telling us beeing gay is wrong and that gay people should be killed

Telling us foreigner like Chinese, turkish people, black people in general are all evil and should be killed

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Teenager Refuses To Be A Free Babysitter For Her Parents, They Call Her “Selfish” And A “Bad Sister” https://www.blogonian.com/teenager-refuses-to-be-a-free-babysitter-for-her-parents-they-call-her-selfish-and-a-bad-sister https://www.blogonian.com/teenager-refuses-to-be-a-free-babysitter-for-her-parents-they-call-her-selfish-and-a-bad-sister Experienced parents know that taking care of a child, a newborn in particular is a lot of constant, involved work. So one would expect that, when having a second child, the adults would at least have a plan for how to raise a newborn. But, as always in life, some parents get very misguided ideas about the entire situation.

A teenage internet user wanted to know if she was in the wrong for refusing to be a live-in babysitter for her parents. She detailed the entitled and pretty misguided idea her parents had that they would just continue with their lifestyle and have their daughter do most of the work. When OP pushed back, they were (somehow) deeply surprised, so she turned to the internet to get a more unbiased view of the situation. Spoiler alert, most people thought her parents were being deeply unreasonable.

Second-time parents decided that they would not let having a newborn get in the way of their lifestyle

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So they tried to get their teenage daughter to become basically a live-in babysitter, then were shocked when she refused

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Neglectful parents often end up raising resentful children

When people say “it takes a village” to raise a child, they normally mean a plethora of experiences, influences, and community help, not that parents can just pass off the responsibility to someone else. Yes, babysitters exist and even live-in nannies, but in these cases, a person volunteered to do the job, generally for money. Telling a child that it’s their new job is a pretty extreme case of “my house, my rules,” and one that if enforced, would have a lot of negative consequences in the future. They might gain a babysitter and lose a daughter. Now, some parents might think it’s pretty normal for a child, particularly an older child to help around the house. As the eldest in my own family, I was raised with a similar expectation. However, OP notes that her parents were basically uninvolved in her own life and seem to want to keep it that way. A kid helping around the house is not the same as them becoming a primary caregiver at a pivotal age.

OP is right to seek a way out of the situation and the fact that she already has a plan is commendable. Her parents really need a reality check, where their behavior is causing their daughter to uproot her entire life just to not become a full-time babysitter for her sibling. In the long run, this kind of behavior leads to long-term parental resentment, which can trigger a slew of other long-term issues, including anger, depression, and sometimes developmental issues down the line. Even if we set aside the worst-case scenario, the parents will have to come to grips with the fact that they chose their own comfort at the cost of a relationship with their eldest child. Even if they substitute OP with a “real” babysitter or nanny, they will have two children that will likely feel distance and abandonment. A child might not have the psychological tools to understand it, but they can still feel the negative emotions from being effectively unwanted and ignored.

Ultimately, OP’s parents just shirked their responsibilities and then tried to manipulate her

Regardless, from OP’s story and her willingness to leave the house in a year, it’s clear that she is not particularly attached to her parents, which gives us some insight into their hands-off parenting style. They have already made her independent, not a bad thing in itself, but at the cost of a real relationship. OP is, in a sense, doing the same thing they are doing to her. She is ditching a relationship to maintain her own lifestyle. However, at the end of the day, it’s not her child and her responsibility. She expresses being mostly just left alone, until, as in this story, her parents needed something from her. Their shock at being treated exactly how they treated OP would be comical if it wasn’t ultimately sad. But what cements their status as bad parents, instead of just clueless adults, is the manipulation they then attempt, telling their own daughter to “think about what she is throwing away.” One doesn’t have to be a genius to see the textbook attempt to pressure her into something through an emotional appeal. But based on OP’s description of their parenting style, they haven’t really earned any emotional points to leverage.

Commenters wholeheartedly sided with OP and thought the parents were deeply irresponsible

Others shared similar experiences with unusually entitled adults

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Guy Pulls Subtle But Genius Revenge On Neighbor For Hitting On His Girlfriend https://www.blogonian.com/guy-pulls-subtle-but-genius-revenge-on-neighbor-for-hitting-on-his-girlfriend https://www.blogonian.com/guy-pulls-subtle-but-genius-revenge-on-neighbor-for-hitting-on-his-girlfriend Someone consistently hitting on your partner can be flattering at first, but there are lines that, once crossed, mark these individuals as an enemy. Getting back at someone for their wrongdoing is a story beat as old as time, but it’s just as satisfying when it happens in real life as well. So sit down and enjoy this very clever and petty plan of vengeance shared by an internet user.

A guy got a clever bit of psychological revenge on a mechanic that kept hitting on his girlfriend. He simply gave him a gift, but one that would simultaneously alarm and confuse him, but ultimately accomplish OP’s goals.

Having your significant other constantly hit on can probably end up being annoying for both of you

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So this man decided to do something about the guy who started sending his GF flirty texts

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OP’s revenge was perfectly proportional to the “wrong” he suffered

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As many readers already noted, this was a particularly clever bit of revenge, as it accomplished two things. First, the mechanic was not actually harmed in any way, as he was at worst, annoying, hardly worthy of physical damage. At the same time, the guy’s “revenge” was completely innocent from the outside, but also conveyed a sense of danger to the mechanic. Wrapping the apple is a truly devious move, as it’s simultaneously harmless, yet it seems so suspicious. And in the tradition of revenge, he literally served a cold dish, which at least the French believe is the best method available.

Leave it to France to hide their revenge idioms in cooking terms. If you are wondering what makes “cold” revenge so enticing, it’s the idea that any plan of retribution is more enjoyable if it’s been planned, prepared and the execution is perfected. Imagine a dish, cooked, plated, then left to sit for hours. The food will, of course, have gone cold. So “revenge is a dish best served cold” uses food losing its temperature as a metaphor for time. A truly French way of seeing something. But the point stands, OP planned something after multiple instances of the mechanic flirting with his girlfriend, then he executed the idea with perfection. Perhaps not the Count of Monte Cristo, but should someone truly anger this man, he could probably put together a more complex bit of revenge.

Tales of vengeance are a staple of human fiction, as we love justice

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We as humans do enjoy a revenge tale as in fiction, as in real life. The aforementioned Count of Monte Cristo or more contemporary tales like John Wick all point to the fact that we as humans like justice and to see bad things happen to people who deserve it. Interestingly, humans aren’t the only species out there that enjoys revenge as a concept or experience. Camels, elephants, fish, lions, and most primates also exhibit joy at seeing a perceived opponent or enemy hurt. Interestingly, these animals also understand the concept that “the enemy of my enemy is my friend” and will assist another being that is fighting someone they dislike. So The Lion King meets John Wick seems like a blockbuster waiting to happen. Interestingly, even fish will attack other sea creatures that have “wronged” them in the past, which opens up the fascinating question of what exactly does fish drama look like.

Internet users wanted some more juicy details and OP delivered

Commenters loved his absolutely insidious plan

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40 Disney Memes That Hit Way Too Close To Home https://www.blogonian.com/40-disney-memes-that-hit-way-too-close-to-home https://www.blogonian.com/40-disney-memes-that-hit-way-too-close-to-home It would be hard to find someone among us whose life hasn't been touched by Disney in one way or another. Whether we're talking about its movies and characters or parks and roller coaster rides, this mass media and entertainment conglomerate has been producing core childhood memories since its foundation in 1923.

For many, the fun carries well into their adulthood, too. Just take the Facebook group 'Disney Memes.' It unites 139K people who like to share content about the company and its work. After taking a look at their posts, we decided that they not only stir up some nostalgia but also perfectly sum up the nuanced reality of running such a big global business. So continue scrolling if you're also intrigued by it and enjoy our hand-picked collection of their uploads.

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30 Fascinating People, Places, And Events Captured In These Rarely Seen Historical Photographs https://www.blogonian.com/30-fascinating-people-places-and-events-captured-in-these-rarely-seen-historical-photographs https://www.blogonian.com/30-fascinating-people-places-and-events-captured-in-these-rarely-seen-historical-photographs History is often stereotypically presented as a dull subject (though many of you, alongside myself, may disagree vehemently). But what really brings those obscure dates and names to life are photos showing us what people like you and I might have looked like back then, and that’s exactly what the Historical Pictures and Old Memories group on Facebook does.

There’s so much to wonder about as we scroll through these photos. What were these people like? What were their daily joys and their daily challenges like? What might they think of the joys and challenges we face today? If we lived at the same time as they did, do you think you might have been friends?

One recent digital trend that we are lucky to enjoy for some of the photos on this list is digital colorization and restoration, but more on that in a bit.

#1 A Native American, Belonging To The Ojibwe People, Spear Fishing In A Lake Somewhere In Minnesota, United States. Photograph Taken In 1908

Image credits: Peter Carew

One recent trend that has made historical photos more accessible and alive for some is digital recolorization. This is a fascinating field of photography that helps modern viewers truly imagine what things might have looked like decades or even centuries ago.

But digital recolorization is not as simple as it sounds, and it’s far from the first type of recolorization (or colorization, for that matter) that people have ever done.

#2 Formal Portraits Rarely Featured Smiles, But They Can Be Found In Photographs Of Daily Life During This Period

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#3 A Man In Traditional Dress In Kestri, Greece, 1912

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The earliest type of widespread photo - the daguerreotype - was revolutionary in the world of visual arts. However, people were almost immediately disappointed that the process couldn’t capture color. The science of photography, still in its infancy, could not satisfy the public’s demand for color quickly enough.

#4 A Young Kiowa (Kiawah) Woman In Native Dress

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#5 Charlie Chaplin Was Ahead Of His Time, 1922. This Is One Of The Earlier Distracted Boyfriend Situations On Film

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While scientists, chemists and inventors puzzled over how to capture color, artists took matters into their own hands. And why not? If trained artists could create near-picture-perfect copies of still-life scenes, then coloring a black-and-white photograph couldn’t be that hard, right?

We’ll leave that judgment up to the reader, but we do know that attempts were already being made in 1839 - the year that the daguerreotype was invented. Artists’ experiments began by hand and involved powdered pigments, transparent paints, and all sorts of other colors applied directly to the photographs.

#6 Whirling Horse, A Sioux Native American Man. Photographed By Gertrude Käsebier, C.1900

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#7 Anne Frank At School

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#8 Nellie Brown, An African-American Cowgirl, C.1880s

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As color photography evolved through a number of iterations to the color film and digital sensors of the modern era, the concept of re-coloring black-and-white photos never disappeared. Though this was also often done by hand, the invention of Adobe Photoshop revolutionized the art of digital recolorization.

The current edition of Photoshop even has a tool called a Neural Filter, which can be used on a black and white photo to let Photoshop take its best guess at the required colors and colorize the photo itself. There might be some tasks, however, where this approach might not work.

#9 Damascus Gate, One Of The Main Gates Of The Old City Of Jerusalem. Ottoman Empire, 1890

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#10 Actress Miss Gabrielle Ray, Circa 1900

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#11 Bell Labs Experimental Video Phone 1960s

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#12 Bruce Lee Teaching His Son, Brandon, Martial Arts At An Early Age. 1960s

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One fascinating aspect of some recolorization projects was the historical research involved in getting the colors right. A sufficiently scholarly approach could have photographers and artists recreating historic fabrics or processes to ensure that they could accurately reproduce the shine of a princess’ exotic silk or the vibrant colors of a coat of arms.

#13 Scientists Studying Moon Phases On Models In Preparation For Us Manned Flight To Moon, 1962

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#14 Albert Einstein Posing For A Photograph In Zurich, Switzerland At The Age Of 24 In 1903

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#15 1948 - Scottish Ballerina Moira Shearer Plays Dancer Victoria Page In The Classic Film 'The Red Shoes'

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#16 Participants In The Miss Beautiful Eyes Beauty Pageant, Paris, 1930

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#17 A Young Family In Martin Place, Sydney - Australia, (1950s)

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#18 Digging Graves As A Hobby (1916)

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The thought of achieving color photos by chemical means may seem archaic to younger users of modern DSLR cameras and smartphones, but the last great analog color photography processes (including Kodachrome and Agfacolor-Neu) involved complex chemical processes and special development processes in laboratory conditions.

Photography enthusiasts may regret the loss of these and other fascinating photographic processes, but look on the bright side - our grandchildren will get to see color photos and videos of us!

#19 A Baby Learning How To Walk In A Wicker Frame As Mom Does Laundry. 1910s

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#20 In The Victorian Era, The Woman’s Hair Was Considered An Important Part Of Her Appearance And It Marked Her Status And Her Femininity

Women in that era were often expected to grow their hair to great lengths, and it was common knowledge that a woman’s crowning glory was her hair.

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#21 Star Wars Cast Out Of Costumes: Harrison Ford (Han Solo), David Prowse (Darth Vader), Peter Mayhew (Chewbacca), Carrie Fisher (Princess Leia), Mark Hamill (Luke Skywalker) And Kenny Baker (R2-D2). 1977

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#22 Ernest Hemingway On The Steps Of His Cuban Estate Finca Vigia, Nuzzling One Of His Beloved Polydactyl Cats; San Francisco De Paula, Circa 1954

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#23 A Family Plays On A Unique Four Person Homemade Swing In Finland, 1954

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The Historical Pictures and Old Memories group on Facebook has nearly 20,000 members as of this writing and posts photos almost every day, so if you enjoyed this journey through the past, be sure to give them a follow!

#24 4.5 Megabytes Of Data In 62,500 Punched Cards, 1955

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#25 A Group Of Breaker Boys At The Woodward Coal Mines In Kingston, Pennsylvania, Pose For A Photograph. Photograph Taken In C. 1900

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#26 Lisa Fonssagrives At The Eiffel Tower, 1939

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#27 A Man Selling Brooms And Baskets. Japan, 1890-1896

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#28 Police Officer, Germany, 1925

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#29 A 1936 Drought Refugee From Polk, Missouri, Awaiting The Opening Of Orange Picking Season In Porterville, California

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“Bird Made Its Nest In My Mop”: 50 People Share Pictures Of Nests In The Most Random Places (New Pics) https://www.blogonian.com/bird-made-its-nest-in-my-mop-50-people-share-pictures-of-nests-in-the-most-random-places-new-pics https://www.blogonian.com/bird-made-its-nest-in-my-mop-50-people-share-pictures-of-nests-in-the-most-random-places-new-pics Used for laying eggs and sheltering the little ones, bird nests vary in shape, size, and type. While some feathered creatures opt for a simple scrape nest by creating a shallow depression in the ground, for instance, others weave intricate ones out of twigs and other materials.

The latter kind often build their wonders of engineering in the most unusual places. They occupy everything from helmets, to car parts, swimming suits, and even traffic lights, and people have pictures to prove it. We’ve gathered some of them in this list today showing that there is no limit to their creativity when it comes to nesting locations. Scroll down to find the pictures and enjoy.

In order to understand bird behavior better and learn more about their process of building nests, Bored Panda got in touch with a professor in the Biology department at Dalhousie University, Andrew Horn. You will find his thoughts in the text below.

#1 This Goose At My Hospital Laid Eggs And Is Nesting In A Large Planter. One Of Our Maintenance Guys Built An Umbrella For Her And Set Up Nearby Water For Her

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#2 Two Eagles Have Decided To Build A Nest Right Outside My Grandma's Window On The 12th Floor

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#3 A Hummingbird Built Its Nest On My Hanging Hummingbird Figurine

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“Different species choose differently, of course, but the common elements are safety from predators and access to food. For most songbirds, safety from predators calls for a well-hidden nest in a place that’s hard for predators to climb to,” Andrew Horn, a professor in the Biology department at Dalhousie University told Bored Panda.

The Celebrate Urban Birds project also pointed out that the places birds choose and the nests they build differs depending on the species. Some of them even have different roles for male and female birds when it comes to finding the best spot and building a nest.

For instance, mourning doves typically opt for a tree, but it’s the male’s responsibility to locate the right place, which then has to be approved by the female. When it comes to hummingbirds, for example, the female builds the nest without any help from the male counterpart. This species usually also builds them in trees, but might also choose bushes or a more interesting spot, such as a loop of chain or wire, as well.

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According to the Natural History Museum, a woodpigeon is another species that shares the workload of building a nest: the male bird brings the materials, while the female piles it on a somewhat scattered platform then used for laying eggs. Woodpigeons typically lay two eggs, each of which is then incubated by the two birds.

#6 A Robin Made Its Nest And Laid Some Eggs In The Middle Of My Hanging Basket

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#7 This Bird Making Its Nest In A Mop

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#8 The Nest That Some Birds Made In My Bicycle Seat Pack While I Was Away. I’ll Take The Bus To Work As Long As They Need It

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Even though they might be used as permanent homes in some cases, nests are primarily built for laying eggs, incubating them, and raising the young. Birding Outdoors revealed that these living beings lay eggs all year round, but April, May, and June seem to be the most active months; that’s when they lay as much as 86% of eggs.

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#10 A Robin Has Nested Inside An MX Helmet In My Shed

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#11 Duck Made A Nest In My Fire Pit, And Duckies Finally Hatched

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The Natural History Museum pointed out that some birds, such as house martins, build their nests from mud and often do it on people’s houses, attaching them to the roof and the wall.

“Homes often offer places like eaves, holes (e.g., drainpipes), and raised but flat surfaces that are like natural nest sites, but scarcer in the wild. Also, the activity around the home can offer some protection from predators (apart from cats!),” Professor Andrew Horn explained.

#12 A Nice Wren Couple Moved Into A Hiking Boot In My Parents' Garage, And Today Their Family Grew By 5

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#13 Robin Created Nest In Back Of An Elephant Planter

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#14 A Bird Sitting In A Nest In A Wild Bird Sign

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Prof. Andrew Horn also discussed with Bored Panda what is the best course of action upon finding a nest in an unexpected location on your property. “If there’s no eggs or nestlings in it yet, and it really can’t be there, then you can try moving it to a better location, and/or removing the nest material every time it reappears until the birds give up and nest somewhere else,” he said. “Once the nest has eggs or nestlings though, it’s illegal to disturb it. Just try to avoid the nest area if possible, don’t linger near or look at the nest, and hopefully the birds and you will get used to each other. The birds will only be nesting for a month or so.”

#15 Our Country (Malaysia) Has Been In Movement Control Order. This Is 10 Days Into The Lockdown

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#16 A Sure Sign You Have Been Taking This "Stay At Home" Thing Seriously

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#17 Behold! The Miracle Of Nature That Is The Pigeon Nest

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In addition to living rent-free on the homeowner’s property, the winged creatures also tend to use man-made materials at times. The Natural History Museum uncovered that birds might add debris and other bits and pieces to their nests to strengthen the structure, decorate it, or repel ectoparasites.

#18 My Wife Hung A Wreath On Our Front Door. In The First Week A Bird Built A Nest Inside The Wreath. Week Two, A Bird Built A Nest On Top Of The Wreath

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#19 Hummingbird Family Made A Nest In A Pair Of Hanging Pool Goggles

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#20 This Is A Pic Of A Mourning Dove Which Made A Nest In My Bathroom, It Is On The Top Floor

I didn't scare off the dove by the picture nevertheless she is quite chill and not scared of us. We put some food and water in the bathroom.

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Depending on the species, birds build different types of nests. According to AZ Animals, they are categorized into cup, platform, burrow, scrape, mound, cavity, and hanging nests. The first one is arguably the most common one in the bird world, as well as in pictures showing the most random places birds choose to set them up. 

#21 This Is A Canadian Goose Named Dorthy. She Visits My Grandparents' House Every Year To Make Her Nest And Lay Her Eggs

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#22 An Urban Bird That Uses Cigarette Butts To Protect Its Chicks From Parasites. Harmful To Humans But Beneficial To Birds

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It is believed that the majority of birds do not reuse their nests. All the effort of building one typically goes down the drain once the birds and their babies abandon the construction after the nesting period. They start the intricate process all over again next season.

Some birds, however, skip the process of building one altogether. Bird Gap uncovered that the list of such species includes the Emperor Penguin, Common Potoo, Indigobird, and the Common Cuckoo, among others. They find a place for laying eggs that doesn’t require construction or simply leave their unhatched babies in other birds’ nests.

#24 A Hummingbird Made A Nest On The Handle Of My Parent’s Basketball Hoop

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According to researchers’ 2021 data, there are roughly 9,700 species of birds, providing people with plenty of nests in random places, as well as beautiful bird vocalization. They also often become the stars of amusing content, such as these pics that went horribly wrong but ended up with hilarious results or this collection of the best bird memes posted online.

#27 Stork Family Built Their Nest In Between The McDonald's Sign

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#35 Came Home Today And Found This Bird On My Balcony Chair Fully Equipped With Nest And Egg

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#38 Left My Work Gloves Outside For A Couple Of Days. Went To Got Them And Found This

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#45 Some Birds Built A Nest In One Of My Relative’s Grill, While It Was Still Closed

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98 Times Disney Memes Were Way Too Relatable And Funny https://www.blogonian.com/98-times-disney-memes-were-way-too-relatable-and-funny https://www.blogonian.com/98-times-disney-memes-were-way-too-relatable-and-funny It would be hard to find someone among us whose life hasn't been touched by Disney in one way or another. Whether we're talking about its movies and characters or parks and roller coaster rides, this mass media and entertainment conglomerate has been producing core childhood memories since its foundation in 1923.

For many, the fun carries well into their adulthood, too. Just take the Facebook group 'Disney Memes.' It unites 139K people who like to share content about the company and its work. After taking a look at their posts, we decided that they not only stir up some nostalgia but also perfectly sum up the nuanced reality of running such a big global business. So continue scrolling if you're also intrigued by it and enjoy our hand-picked collection of their uploads.

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Mom Explains Why She Cut Her Daughter’s Hair Off, Says She Didn’t Want To Brush It Anymore https://www.blogonian.com/mom-explains-why-she-cut-her-daughters-hair-off-says-she-didnt-want-to-brush-it-anymore https://www.blogonian.com/mom-explains-why-she-cut-her-daughters-hair-off-says-she-didnt-want-to-brush-it-anymore By the age of 2, toddlers are talking, walking, climbing, running, and jumping. Both parents and pediatricians often speak of the “terrible twos,” as this developmental phase is often marked by tantrums, defiant behavior, and lots of frustration.

This period requires a lot of patience, but Gwenna Laithland, the creator of the parenting website Momma Cusses, recently released a TikTok video where she explained that giving her 2-year-old daughter a bob haircut was a really good decision and made things at least a little bit easier.

The “terrible twos” can be hard to handle, but mom Gwenna Laithland said there’s a simple solution that can remedy some of the smaller issues

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She got her daughter a short haircut and said it made their everyday life easier

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Gwenna explained the changes in a TikTok video

@mommacusses Sometimes waiting a bit to encourage skill mastery is okay. They don’t have to be good at all of it immediately. #mommacusses #responsiveparent #gentleparent #momlife #motherhood ♬ original sound – Momma Cusses

And it has since gone viral

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“I cut my daughter’s hair off because I didn’t want to brush it. And I know some of you are already in the comment section writing a whole paragraph of how that’s horrible parenting, it’s traumatizing, and how could I even? Listen, listen, my daughter was two and hated having her hair brushed.”

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“I’m talking screaming, wailing, gnashing of teeth, WWE-worthy wrestling matches just to untangle her hair. You’ve heard the advice ‘pick your battles.’ Well, that wasn’t a battle I was interested in picking.”

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“So I took her to the salon and we gave her a bob, right up to the chin, [which] greatly reduced the amount of hair we had to brush. Two-year-olds, well, they’re a lot. They’re just getting used to their own bodies. Their world is expanding. They’re beginning to form opinions of their own, and it didn’t feel like to me that was the right time to begin the great hygiene battle.”

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“Fast forward two years and my now four-year-old loves having her hair done. Brushes, braids, bows. She’s game. That’s partly because she got older and her tolerance for stuff increased. And that’s partly because we didn’t make an issue. We minimized the conflict by minimizing the amount of hair we had to brush. Some might say that’s capitulating to a two-year-old. I say work smarter, not harder. As parents, we have to teach our kids a lot of things but not all at the same time.”

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Caring for toddlers is sometimes fun and sometimes overwhelming, but it’s always busy, so you can understand why a parent might want to save every ounce of energy they can. From potty training to storytime to full-blown tantrums, there is never a dull moment with toddlers.

Tantrums can be particularly challenging and can range from mild whining to all-out hysterical meltdowns. In addition to crying, a child might also get physical, which may include:

  • hitting;
  • kicking;
  • biting;
  • throwing things.

While the tantrums may seem never-ending while in the midst of one, according to results from a 2003 study, an estimated 75 percent of them in kids 18 to 60 months last for five minutes or less.

Whether it comes at 18 months or 3 years of age, most young kids — at least in the Western world, where there are certain societal expectations for their behavior — will display some signs of the terrible twos.

Kids at this age are developing independence and a sense of self,  so it’s natural that their views and expectations don’t always match up with those of their parents or caregivers.

Still, some children will breeze through the terrible twos with fewer tantrums than others. This is especially the case if they have advanced language skills, which help them express themselves more clearly and cut down on frustration.

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Parents and caregivers can also help by avoiding some common meltdown triggers. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends the following:

  • Keep regular meal and sleep schedules. Less desirable behavior is more likely to happen when your child is tired or hungry.
  • Praise behaviors you approve of and ignore ones you want to discourage.
  • Don’t spank or hit, and try to avoid yelling. You want to model nonviolent behavior for your child.
  • Redirect or distract when you can. Point out something funny or interesting when your child starts to whine or misbehave.
  • Keep rules simple and offer brief explanations. For example, tell your child they have to hold your hand when they cross the street because you don’t want a car to hurt them.
  • Let your child have some control by offering a choice between two things. For example, you might say “Would you like to wear your blue sweater or yellow jacket today?”
  • Keep your toddler’s home environment safe. If you don’t want them getting into something, put it out of sight if you can.
  • Don’t give in. Set your limits and be consistent.
  • Stay calm. Your child will feed off your stress. Count to 10 or take a deep breath, whatever helps you to keep your cool.

Or cut their hair if it’s getting in the way of them having a calmer day!

Some of the people who saw the video thought Gwenna’s decision was a good idea

But others questioned it, fearing how such an appearance might affect the child

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50 Incredibly Dark ‘Cursed Comments’ That May Leave You Laughing Or Staring Wide&Eyed https://www.blogonian.com/50-incredibly-dark-cursed-comments-that-may-leave-you-laughing-or-staring-wide-eyed https://www.blogonian.com/50-incredibly-dark-cursed-comments-that-may-leave-you-laughing-or-staring-wide-eyed For most of us, social media has become an integral part of our daily lives. It's difficult to imagine anyone these days without some form of online presence. While some individuals can't go a day without sharing their thoughts, daily routines, or experiences through posts, there are others who prefer to observe rather than actively participate. Among both these diverse groups, there is a shared guilty pleasure - the fascination with diving into the comment sections left by other users.

Although we're all aware of the volume of negative comment exchanges, the focus of this post isn't on that topic. Today, we would like to share with you another sort of online interaction by focusing on some of the most humorous, awkward, and double-meaning comments that were the answer to various posts across the internet. The Instagram account known as Cursed Comments uncovers hidden gems from the online world, captivating its followers with a collection of screenshots featuring the most remarkable and hilarious comments found on numerous platforms.

Scroll down to see the list of the most “cursed comments” we prepared for you!

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It is worth considering why various groups and profiles on social media attract such a large number of users. Several different reasons can be distinguished, such as the fact that people are looking for a platform to escape from everyday life and mainstream content. Additionally, many of them seek a bit of dark humor and an element of surprise, which is certainly not lacking in profiles dedicated to "cursed comments." Ultimately, we must also not forget that such groups, like any other, bring together people with similar interests and a specific sense of humor.

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Many of us are already tired of memes that circulate on the internet and are replicated, which is why comments left directly by internet users are often like a breath of fresh air. By observing the content posted on a profile dedicated to Cursed Comments, one can deduce that dark jokes, unexpected plot twists, and masterfully crafted punchlines and posts that somehow challenge social norms and expectations are definitely the most appreciated.

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Like any dark humor, this one also requires finding a balance, as sometimes the line between a joke and an insult can be very thin. The most important thing is that Cursed Comments do not contain any traces of discrimination or aggression. After all, the purpose of these comments is not to offend anyone but to provide amusement for the group members.

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As mentioned earlier, there are groups focused on collecting the most "Cursed Comments," and many of them enjoy immense popularity. It may seem that everyone can find something that suits their tastes there. Additionally, they bring together people who exchange their observations about a particular post and sometimes even create further narratives for a given thread in the comments below, unintentionally creating some new "Cursed Comments".

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“Our Pets Were Not Play Toys For Her Children”: Entitled Mom Sends Her Kids To Stranger’s House So She Can Have Some Alone Time, Throws A Screaming Fit When Her Plan Fails https://www.blogonian.com/our-pets-were-not-play-toys-for-her-children-entitled-mom-sends-her-kids-to-strangers-house-so-she-can-have-some-alone-time-throws-a-screaming-fit-when-her-plan-fails https://www.blogonian.com/our-pets-were-not-play-toys-for-her-children-entitled-mom-sends-her-kids-to-strangers-house-so-she-can-have-some-alone-time-throws-a-screaming-fit-when-her-plan-fails It’s always nice to have good relationships with neighbors. However, getting along well doesn’t mean one should feel entitled to their help, especially when it comes to something as significant as kids.

Redditor u/Boobah79 told the ‘Entitled People’ community about the time his neighbor that he barely knew wanted him to watch over her children. The man politely refused, explaining his reasoning behind the decision. But the woman couldn’t take no for an answer, which led to a huge scene. Scroll down to find the full story below.

Some people feel entitled to help from their neighbors, whether it’s lending sugar or babysitting their kids

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This man’s neighbor was shocked when he refused to watch over her children

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Some people are fine with caring for their neighbors’ children, but they take on this responsibility themselves

People in the comments, including the OP himself, were surprised about the woman asking a stranger to watch over her children. Not only that, she got mad when he refused. Even though her decision seemed odd at best, considering that the two barely knew each other, some people do share childcare responsibilities with their neighbors.

Known as ‘Family, friend, and neighbor’ (FFN) childcare, it is an arrangement of home-based care—in the caregiver’s or the child’s home—where the little one is watched over by relatives, neighbors, babysitters, or other people the parents trust. It allows moms and dads out there to get a much-needed break at times, which the OP’s neighbor seemingly sought after as well. However, it only works if the caregiver agrees to take the responsibility rather than it being assigned to them.

According to the National Center for Children in Poverty, FFN care is arguably the most common form of non-parental childcare in the US. It revealed that as much as 33-53% of kids under the age of five, as well as 48-59% of school-age children are raised with the help of FFN caregivers.

Not all residents are trusting of their neighbors

In an article for Psychology Today, author and developmental psychologist Dona Matthews, Ph.D., pointed out that living in a friendly neighborhood can positively affect people’s parenting skills as well as the kids themselves. Neighborhood connections, together with the influence of the environment, and parental warmth and structure all play important roles when it comes to the child’s development.

Be that as it may, counting on their neighbor is not something every resident can do; let alone trusting them with their child. Pew Research Center revealed that only roughly half of Americans place confidence in the people living around them. It also uncovered that older residents are more trusting than their younger counterparts.

Mistrust is a likely reason people install certain safety measures around their homes. Safe Home pointed out that nearly 40% of Americans own a home security product, roughly 18% of whom opt for video or doorbell cameras. Luckily for the OP, his house was also equipped with similar gadgets, which helped to send the entitled neighbor away.

Fellow redditors discussed the situation with the OP in the comments

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