40 Posts From People Who’ve Had Enough Of Their Fathers-In-Law

Let's take a deep dive into the world of fathers-in-law who left their relatives speechless by being their most infuriating, obnoxious, and annoying selves. The post 40 Posts From People Who've Had Enough Of Their Fathers-In-Law first appeared on Bored Panda.

40 Posts From People Who’ve Had Enough Of Their Fathers-In-Law

Like them, love them, or hate them, in-laws are notorious for driving their relatives insane. Some even seem to make it their mission to consistently meddle in our marriages, offer fresh and uninvited perspectives, and never pass up an opportunity to remind us of just how wrong we are about basically anything in life. And often, these people will be in your life for a long time, whether you can stand the sight and sound of them or not.

Mothers-in-law particularly catch the heat (sometimes rightfully so!) from negative media tropes and cultural stereotypes about being judgy, overbearing, and quite frankly, horrible. However, the other part of the equation often gets overlooked. So how about we balance out the scales a bit?

Today, we're taking a deep dive into the world of fathers-in-law who left their relatives speechless by being their most infuriating, obnoxious, and annoying selves. We at Bored Panda compiled a list of times people called out their partner's dads for all the nonsensical things they've done, so pull your seat closer! Upvote the pics that angered you most, be sure to share your own unpleasant encounters below in the comments, and don’t miss the chat we had about in-law relationships with psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Wyatt Fisher.

#1 The State Of The World

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#2 Father-In-Law Doing Something Disgusting

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#3 My FIL (Who's Extremely Right) Strikes Again

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It’s hardly surprising that in-law relationships can be complicated (to say the least!), as these people are usually thrust into your life without much thought or agreement on how things should be handled.

Of course, in some rare instances, the trope of in-law conflict may seem to be blown out of proportion. But the stereotypically bad relationships with their partner’s family are very real issues for some. After all, being forced into new family dynamics often creates relationships that are tense at best and toxic at worst.

Navigating through the complex dynamics of the bond we have with our fathers-in-law is a tricky matter of business, as there’s no guidebook or manual to tell us how everything is supposed to go. Some people are lucky enough to call them "dad." Others, as the examples in this compiled homage to the most irritating FILs out there show, would rather fake an emergency than spend one second alone in a room with them.

#4 Show Me A More Manly Thing Than My Father-In-Law Doing The Laundry. I'll Wait

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#5 My Sister's Father-In-Law, Who Is A Very Conservative Trump Supporter, Was Not Happy That She Bought Her Son A Baby Doll For Christmas

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#6 How My In-Laws Park Everywhere They Go

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To gain more insight on the topic from an expert, we reached out to Dr. Wyatt Fisher, a licensed psychologist specializing in couples counseling in Boulder, CO. As Dr. Fisher provides relationship coach training and shares illuminating insights on his Relationships & Marriage podcast, he was more than happy to share his thoughts on the matter.

Dr. Fisher told Bored Panda there are many common complaints with FILs that can put a strain on the relationship and, consequently, your well-being. "Problems with fathers-in-law can range from not receiving their approval if you're a male to feeling like they are sexually inappropriate if you're a female," the psychologist explained.

#7 Just My Racist FIL Being My Racist FIL. The Person Arguing Is Me, His Half-Mexican Descent Daughter-In-Law

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#8 My Poor Father-In-Law Never Saw It Coming. Rest In Peace

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#9 Got A New Couch Delivered Today. Father-In-Law Decided To Test It Out

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According to Fatherly’s 2016 survey, women are more likely (about 16% more than men) to feel a sense of dread when they have to hang out with their in-laws. Interestingly, when it comes to the disagreements people who are parents have with their partner’s family, only 38% admitted they don’t argue. The rest explained that the cause of disagreements is usually their parenting style (29%), politics (15%), money (14%), and career success (4%).

#10 The Back Window Of My Father-In-Law's Van

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#11 These Things In My Father-In-Law's Car Are So He And His Partner Can Drive Without Seatbelts And The Car Won't Make The Alarm Sounds

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#12 My Father-In-Law Responds To A Picture Of Our Trans Foster Daughter

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When asked about the reasons we often find it hard to grasp the complexities of this relationship, Dr. Fisher explained we often see them as difficult and complicated because it’s not discussed as often. "Therefore, there aren't as many resources for support and tips."

"Also, many people have had turbulent relationships with their own fathers, so it can make it even tougher to build a connection with their father-in-law because there's no model for fatherly closeness to fall back on," Dr. Fisher added.

#13 Twice A Year, My In-Laws Stay With Us For About A Week. Twice A Year, I Have To Replace All My Nonstick Cookware

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#14 How My In-Laws Eat Assorted Cheesecake

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#15 When My FIL Last Visited, He Ended Up Shouting And Swearing At Me In Front Of My Toddler Because I Called Out His Homophobia And This Exchange Happened The Day After

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If you’re like most people, you know what a struggle your own family can be. But you’ve been dealing with them your whole life, and you’re likely to share common interests and agree with (at least some of) their thoughts.

With your in-laws, it’s not always clear what you're allowed to say and how you're expected to behave. As there’s less of an overlap in common agreement with them, you may find yourself saying the wrong thing and sparking a conflict. The other choice is to stay silent and feel the resentment slowly growing inside. And, of course, vent your frustrations by complaining about them online.

#16 Made Quesadillas, Father-In-Law Walked Into Kitchen, Took A Big Bite Out Of One, Walked Into The Bathroom. Walked Out And Took A Big Bite Out Of A Different One

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#17 I Sent My Future Father-In-Law A Linking Puzzle For Christmas. He Just Sent My Fiance This Picture Showing How He Solved It

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#18 Once Again. Another Gem From My Father-In-Law. And He Even Got 3 Shares This Time

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As we enter the holiday season, a time dedicated to spending time with our loved ones and being thankful for being together, many of us inevitably arm ourselves with patience as in-laws are bound to drag us into their dramas. So how are we supposed to handle infuriating FILs when we’re thrown together for an extended period of time with nowhere to run?

Dr. Fisher advised that the best course of action is to have an honest conversation with your other half. "First, let your partner confront their difficult behaviors instead of you. Second, ask your partner how to respond to your father-in-law if they aren't around. Third, pick your battles."

"You're most likely not going to change your father-in-law so try your best to accept them as they are as long as they aren't mistreating you," the psychologist suggested.

#19 My Father-In-Law Said There Is A Park On The Apartment Complex For The Kids To Play. This Is The Park

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#20 Ladies And Gentlemen, My Father-In-Law

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#21 My Father-In-Law's Remote Is But A Small Glimpse Into How Infuriated I Become When I Visit My In-Laws' House. No Excuse Is Good Enough

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But as many people know from practice, the turbulent bond you have with your FIL can drastically affect your relationship. Dr. Fisher agreed with this line of thinking and explained that things particularly tend to go sour when your spouse ignores or disagrees with your feelings.

"If you have a difficult relationship with your father-in-law and your partner doesn't have your back, it can quickly strain your relationship with your partner because you'll feel vulnerable and defenseless," he said.

#22 FIL Started A Tattoo On Me 4 Weeks Ago. He Sold His Equipment 2 Days Ago

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#23 This Is How My Father-In-Law Gets Butter For His Toast

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#24 My Very Tech Challenged Father-In-Law Sent The Entire Family A Picture Of His Breakfast This Morning. That Photo Had A Watermark

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If you find yourself struggling with similar situations, Dr. Fisher suggested that sometimes, you just have to draw the line. "You have to set hard boundaries with inappropriate or difficult in-laws."

"However, other times people tend to overreact to behaviors that really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. Keep things in perspective and make sure your partner has your back and let them do the boundary setting, not you," Dr. Fisher concluded.

#25 How My Father-In-Law Lets The Candles Burn

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#26 My Father-In-Law's Toothbrush. Those Brown Bits Are Some Kind Of Mouldy Cereal

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#27 I’m Totally Middle-Of-The-Road, Non-Political And He Thinks It Means I Voted For Trump. Anyways, Here Are My Texts After A Night He Was Drinking

My father-in-law is on the other side of the spectrum. 

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#28 Told My Father-In-Law I Pulled A Muscle At The Gym, He Said A Little Of This Will Make Me Feel Better

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#29 Father-In-Law Text Me This While I Was Volunteering In Buffalo

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#30 Father-In-Law Drives Through Front Lawn To Avoid Backing Up

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#31 From My Father-In-Law. I Don't Even Know What To Say About This One

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#32 My Father-In-Law And The Remnants Of His Weekly Visit

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#33 Ladies And Gentlemen, My Father-In-Law

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#34 My Cousin's Father-In-Law's Ladder Arrangements

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#35 How My Soon-To-Be Father-In-Law Opens The Milk Carton

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#36 My Father-In-Law, Helping To Foster Productive Discourse

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#37 My Father-In-Law Ladies And Gentlemen

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#38 My Father-In-Law Always Posts Things Like This, Christmas Is Going To Be So Fun

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#39 My Father-In-Law's Response To Me And My Pregnant Fiancée Decisions To Not See Them Due To Corona

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#40 How My Father-In-Law Stores His Knives

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#41 In My Father-In-Law's Barn

#42 The Clocks In My Father-In-Law's Kitchen Don’t Line Up, He Says It’s Not A Big Deal And Refuses To Change It